Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Houston,Tx
Greg And I Are Fighting..... Posted: 10-21-04 21:27pm
Girls I really dont know what to do right
now because basically my mother has told
me to choose between her and greg and greg
has told me the same thing. We got in
this big right because he thinks I can get
medicaid even thought my mom makes $40,000
a year. I tried to let him down gently
but he would just not believe me. He was
supposed to go get me some boston market
and he never came back! Needless to say
we have not talked since. Im not really
sure how to deal with him because every
time he's happy with me my mom is mad at
me and every time my mom is happy with me
he's mad at
me!Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Does anyone have a suggestion?
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jenifercarrillo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Houston,Tx
Oops Posted: 10-21-04 21:29pm
I meant to say fight not right!
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
Posted: 10-21-04 21:38pm
I don't have a good suggestion......I just
wanted to say sorry that everything is not
too great for you right now......
Perhaps you should get info offline about
medicaid so you can prove it to him???
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 10-21-04 22:22pm
People that love you should not put you in
a situation where you are forced to choose
between two people you love. I say it's
crap and if anything tell them that this
is not there decision it's yours and you
love both of them and so if they choose
not to talk to you or whatever over this
than that is their loss.
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Ixannahsmom
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 200 Location: Oregon
Posted: 10-22-04 00:32am
I am sorry to hear that things are going
so badly for you right now. I have been
following your story. I went through a
similiar situation when I had my first.
My mother made me choose between her or my
bf it was really hard because I needed her
to be there. However I knew that I was
aobut to begina new chapter in my life and
I would have my own family to worry about.
So needless to say I choose my bf and yes
things were rough and we have gone through
some hard times, finacially, emotionally
and otherwise. We have been together now
for 5 years and have a 2 year old
daughter. Mh mother eventually came
around as most mothers do. There will be
no way she will be able to stay away from
that baby once it comes. I wish you the
best and if you ever need to talk about
anything I am here. I have been in your
shoes myself and it's not an easy place to
be, but I promise that there is a light at
the end of the tunnel.
Actually i'm not sure what state you live
in but I actually live right on the border
of nc/sc and I claimed medicaid in sc
because it doesnt matter if I stay with my
parents or even my boyfriend. They told
me as long as I was pregnant medicaid
would cover me and after I started working
I told them about it and they said it
didnt matter it would still cover me until
the baby is born. After the baby is born
I will have to reapply at that time I will
have to tell them who lives with me and
how much combined income we bring in and
they'll probably only cover the baby when
she is born. It varies in different
states see north carolina is more strict,
they told me if I live with my parents
then I have to tell them what my parents
income is and everything and its kinda
f***ed up cause my parents dont really
take care of me anymore because I make my
own money, but they said it didnt matter.
What i'm trying to get to is it wouldnt
hurt to try you never now what your state
requires or what they dont, some are
stricter than others but you never know
you could possibly qualify.
