I meant to say fight not right!

I don't have a good suggestion......I just wanted to say sorry that everything is not too great for you right now...... Perhaps you should get info offline about medicaid so you can prove it to him???

People that love you should not put you in a situation where you are forced to choose between two people you love. I say it's crap and if anything tell them that this is not there decision it's yours and you love both of them and so if they choose not to talk to you or whatever over this than that is their loss.

I am sorry to hear that things are going so badly for you right now. I have been following your story. I went through a similiar situation when I had my first. My mother made me choose between her or my bf it was really hard because I needed her to be there. However I knew that I was aobut to begina new chapter in my life and I would have my own family to worry about. So needless to say I choose my bf and yes things were rough and we have gone through some hard times, finacially, emotionally and otherwise. We have been together now for 5 years and have a 2 year old daughter. Mh mother eventually came around as most mothers do. There will be no way she will be able to stay away from that baby once it comes. I wish you the best and if you ever need to talk about anything I am here. I have been in your shoes myself and it's not an easy place to be, but I promise that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Actually i'm not sure what state you live in but I actually live right on the border of nc/sc and I claimed medicaid in sc because it doesnt matter if I stay with my parents or even my boyfriend. They told me as long as I was pregnant medicaid would cover me and after I started working I told them about it and they said it didnt matter it would still cover me until the baby is born. After the baby is born I will have to reapply at that time I will have to tell them who lives with me and how much combined income we bring in and they'll probably only cover the baby when she is born. It varies in different states see north carolina is more strict, they told me if I live with my parents then I have to tell them what my parents income is and everything and its kinda f***ed up cause my parents dont really take care of me anymore because I make my own money, but they said it didnt matter.

What i'm trying to get to is it wouldnt hurt to try you never now what your state requires or what they dont, some are stricter than others but you never know you could possibly qualify.

~becca