I grew up with a father who was diagnosed at 22 and is now 52. During the first couple of years, I can recall him being very ill but they also were slow in figuring out what was wrong with him. Back then, they didn't know a whole lot about the illness, but over time, he learned to control the bouts of severe cramping and diarrhea with a proper diet. He knew which foods to stay away from, like nuts and fried foods, but didn't always abide by his rules. He had to have a colostomy bag about 23 years ago, where the bowel movements were emptied into a bag rather than going through his colon because of the severe irritation and pain, but fortunately, he found a doctor to help control his symptoms. He ended up having a reversal so he was able to use the bathroom naturally, but did lose some of his small intestine and battles to keep his weight up. He occasionally has a few flare ups today, but for the most part, if he watches what he eats, he leads a "normal" life. Diet is key, as are some therapy drugs. My father found opium worked to slow the digestion, taken obviously in an amount that didn't cause a euphoric sensation, and during severe cramping, he also enjoyed medical marijuana. Of course, not everyone experiences the same symptoms or severity of those that are common. Work with your doctor, seek out a lifestyle and therapy that works for you. Attitude helps immensely as well. Crohn's might change your life, but it doesn't have to ruin it. Good luck.