Wanting to Have Sex With People Other Than Your Wife?? Posted: 10-21-04 16:34pm
Is it healthy to constantly thing about
having sex with other women when you are
married??? I don't plan to actually
carry out these actions but I just can't
help it... Do I need to see a
psychologist b4 I lose my mind and cheat
on my wife??? Thanks in advance for your
inputs.
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
Posted: 10-21-04 16:38pm
Don't do it. It's normal probably to
want to. I've cheated on my hubby and it
has ruined our relationship big time
(duh!!!). So if you actually do give in
be prepared to have it ruin your
life.....
Just flirt and chat with others but don't
actually cheat!!!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 10-23-04 12:03pm
As long as you are not acting on your
fantasies. I think many people do
imagine what it would be like with somone
else, but would not admit it.I know my
husband looks at other women and will
sometimes even comment on them.This does
not bother me,because I do the same thing,
but would never act on the fantasy.I often
say to people that it does not matter
where he gets his appetite, as long as he
always eats at home.I do not think you are
abnormal,just more honest than most!Patty
