Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
I Don't Know What to Think... Posted: 10-20-04 16:13pm
=( ok girls, I have a little dilemma
here...
My boyfriend and I have been together for
a little over a year now. We met my
senior (his junior) year, and we hit it
off right away. I'm only his 2nd
girlfriend (and he, my 2nd boyfriend) and
everything is going relatively well.
Well, to make a long story short, he and
his ex-girlfriend havn't spoken since they
broke up their freshman year. They were
only together for a couple of months, but
she broke his heart. He's told me
numerous times that it wasn't until me
that he began to heal and could love
again. I finally got through to him that
maybe he should say "hi" to her (nothing
more, nothing less) because it might help
him heal. The begining of this school
year, he was able to put the past and his
pride behind him and say hello to her.
That's all they've said for 3 years and
now she's being all friendly and wants to
talk to him and everything. I've never
been the jelous type, so it doesn't worry
me that they're talking... But I am very
wary of her. She spread vicous rumors
about him and hurt him so badly. I don't
want to bring him down or anything by
saying that her intentions might not be so
good, but I don't trust her. I know she's
not after him because they don't care for
each other anymore (she has a
boyfriend/fiance and he has me), but I
just don't trust her. Am I wrong to think
like this? I just don't know what to
think!!!!!!!!
Ok... Done venting! =)
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-20-04 16:38pm
No. It sounds like a dangerous situation.
When people say "it wasn't until you that
I started to heal" what it really means is
"i can't get over her." i'd stay wary.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-20-04 17:10pm
Just be careful, you two have been
together for a good chunk of time..I would
ask him about it and tell him to be open
and honest about how he really feels.
Good luck sam!
<3
kristin
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 10-20-04 17:14pm
I agree with erin, its dangerous, do your
best to trust him *and its hard I know*
but also keep an eye on them, she sounds
like the manipulative type so i'd keep a
g.P.S on her.....Not to worry you but i've
been through this before, I trusted the
girl that my ex almost cheated on me with
but 2 years later he left me for her
anyway but try
to be supportive of him
meg
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 10-20-04 17:24pm
Thanks girls. I trust my b/f with my
whole heart, and I know that he would ever
cheat on me. I know that she's the
manipulative type... And he knows it to.
She twisted their entire relationship
around to make it sound like it was all
his fault, and he's told me stories about
how she twisted stuff to make her parents
feel guilty and get what she wanted.
*sigh* I was the one that pushed him to
talk to her because I feel as though
forgiveness is the first step to
happiness, but now i'm kinda regretting
it. =( ug... Boys... Why are they so
complicated?!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-20-04 17:26pm
If you trust him with all your heart,
everything will be fine <3
but try
to be supportive of him
