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Q: I Don't Know What to Think...
asked by: GuitarJade on October 20th, 2004
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=( ok girls, I have a little dilemma here...
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We met my senior (his junior) year, and we hit it off right away. I'm only his 2nd girlfriend (and he, my 2nd boyfriend) and everything is going relatively well. Well, to make a long story short, he and his ex-girlfriend havn't spoken since they broke up their freshman year. They were only together for a couple of months, but she broke his heart. He's told me numerous times that it wasn't until me that he began to heal and could love again. I finally got through to him that maybe he should say "hi" to her (nothing more, nothing less) because it might help him heal. The begining of this school year, he was able to put the past and his pride behind him and say hello to her. That's all they've said for 3 years and now she's being all friendly and wants to talk to him and everything. I've never been the jelous type, so it doesn't worry me that they're talking... But I am very wary of her. She spread vicous rumors about him and hurt him so badly. I don't want to bring him down or anything by saying that her intentions might not be so good, but I don't trust her. I know she's not after him because they don't care for each other anymore (she has a boyfriend/fiance and he has me), but I just don't trust her. Am I wrong to think like this? I just don't know what to think!!!!!!!!

Ok... Done venting! =)
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linuxChique
replied on October 20th, 2004
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No. It sounds like a dangerous situation. When people say "it wasn't until you that I started to heal" what it really means is "i can't get over her." i'd stay wary.
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IDABABY
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Just be careful, you two have been together for a good chunk of time..I would ask him about it and tell him to be open and honest about how he really feels. Good luck sam!

<3 kristin
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little_woman
replied on October 20th, 2004
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I agree with erin, its dangerous, do your best to trust him *and its hard I know* but also keep an eye on them, she sounds like the manipulative type so i'd keep a g.P.S on her.....Not to worry you but i've been through this before, I trusted the girl that my ex almost cheated on me with but 2 years later he left me for her anyway Crying or Very sad Evil or Very Mad but try to be supportive of him

meg
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GuitarJade
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Thanks girls. I trust my b/f with my whole heart, and I know that he would ever cheat on me. I know that she's the manipulative type... And he knows it to. She twisted their entire relationship around to make it sound like it was all his fault, and he's told me stories about how she twisted stuff to make her parents feel guilty and get what she wanted. *sigh* I was the one that pushed him to talk to her because I feel as though forgiveness is the first step to happiness, but now i'm kinda regretting it. =( ug... Boys... Why are they so complicated?!
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nippz
replied on October 20th, 2004
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If you trust him with all your heart, everything will be fine <3
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