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Q: My Mom's Reaction....
asked by: jenifercarrillo on October 20th, 2004
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Well it was pretty interesting! At first she told me that I had to have and abortion or that I had to give the baby up for adoption, but after a while (really after she drank a bottle of wine) she started to warm up to the idea and she told me to call greg and tell him to come to the house. I thought she was going to push the idea of adoption since I told her there was no way in hell that I was going to have an abortion, but all we talked about was the financial point of view and how I was going to have to care of myself. My mom told greg that I had to keep going to school and that he had to make me do my work. Today I think the idea is still setting in but I think all four us us are going to be ok. The four of us being my mom, myself, greg and the baby! Well I got to go but I wanted to let u know that u were right and everything is going to be ok.
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Heathergirl
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Congrats!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so happy things are working out for you!!!!!! By the way....How old are you and greg????????
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jessamyn
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Aww jen thank god thats what my mom wanted at first was abortion abortion abortion and thats that but I refused in fact after like 2-3 weeks not talking my mom actually called me saying to go to the house and talk to my step dad about buying me a car I got there we started talking then it turned into the reason he told me to come was to con me into abortion or adoption saying I owed it to my mother... what! My step dad still hates me but my mom is so warmed up to the baby now... Its gunna work out keep greg close to you and muah I hope it all works keep me keyed in!
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nippz
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Congrats on the baby Smile
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jenifercarrillo
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Our Ages...
I know that this is gonna sound kinda bad but im 16 and he's 21. My mom is kind of rethinking her position but im sure that she will get used to our new addition!
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nippz
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Wow ~ well thats fine, i'm 14 he's 18 and we have one on the way. Im 28 weeks 6 days.
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pitterpatter
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Girls not to sound like a crazy lecturing person, but really you need to be careful. What do your boyfriends say about this are they invovlved and everything. I mean I know to you girls it seems normal and okay, but when you get older and think about the age your gonna think you were crazy. At 21 I would never be caught dead with a 16 year old and at 18 I definately would not be caught dead with a 14 year old. That's crazy! I mean what could they possibly want besides sex from you girls. I'm 23 and the lowest I would ever ever go for a guy is 21. Seriously, I know I sound crazy, but from personal experience this isn't right. I hope you guys are able to keep these guys around to help, but now they are probaby regretting the whole thing. If not yet they might down the road. Yikes i'm kinda worried for you.
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nippz
replied on October 20th, 2004
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We'll i've been with this guy for 2 years, it's kind of my fault. I lied about my age in the beggining so he would've never known, but he's stuck with me so i'm happy about that. His mom and my mom are practically best friend's so I doubt his mom will let him get away. Im glad ur concerned though Smile
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bellax0x
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Congratss! Im glad things went well!

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gaby
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Dancinchick0587
replied on October 21st, 2004
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Congrads, im glad things went well! Does your mom care about the age difference? Good luck with everything hun! And congrads again!
-kindra
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pitterpatter
replied on October 21st, 2004
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That's good, but his mom's totally okay with it? I'm glad that he atleast thought you were older to begin with that makes it a little bit better. I still am surpised though! Is your mom okay with it too? Well, i'm glad your happy, but kick his ass if he tries to pull anything on you. I would atleast! Wink
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babyluvwu
replied on October 21st, 2004
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Wow nippz I didnt know you were only 14, I figured you were at least 19 or 20 you sound really mature for your age. Thats a good thing because you sound like you'll be able to handle the responsiblilty of having a child.
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jenifercarrillo
replied on October 21st, 2004
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Ok Pitter....
Ok this is the deal my mother knows that my boyfriend is 21, she knew when she let him live with us, she knew when we told her we were having sex, and she knows now. Im not too worried about her anymore becasue I found out that if she tryed put take greg to jail she would go down with him for harboring an illegal immigrant so I think im gonna be ok.
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