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Q: Help!!!!!
asked by: scaredmommytobe on October 9th, 2003
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Me and my fiancee was planing to get married then we decided that we wanted to have a baby together I got pregnant 3 months after we started having sex. Then a lil while before we found out I was pregnant we started having some problems then a few days after we found out we got in a big argument and I freaked out and said I had enough. I left town to stay with some friends for a few days(me and him lived together for about 7 weeks then my mom freaked out and it was back to he had his own place and I lived with my parents) its now been like a week and a half sence I left town im so scared.He wants me to come home so bad and I want to run jump into his arms but he doesnt know what my family said yet. Last night my family told me that I have to pick them or him and even if I do pick him I cant see him for 6 months (until I turn 1Cool that will be like 2 weeks before I have the baby I cant do this with out him. He wants the baby. He loves me and wants to get married so do i. He`s a great guy I love him so much. I dont know what to do. My family hates him enough that if I marry him thay wont talk to me....Help!!
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nikki_caro
replied on October 9th, 2003
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You really have to compromise with your parents. But its best that you work things out with your guy before you move back with him. Just because he said its sorry doesnt mean you worked out the reasons you said you had enough. So tell your parents you are going to work on this relationship and you will be back with him but you want them in your lives too. They cant put their final decision on you. I know how it is to be upset but my mom never let me give up on it. So you have to tell your guy that you need to work on the relationship, maybe pre-marital counceling and then your parents can agree to be there for you. They dont want him in your life so you need to make them see you will be ok when you leave to be with him even if its before your 18?. I hope I helped a little bit. Good luck!
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on October 10th, 2003
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Work it out with your man. Parents will come around and when they see that little angel they will rush back into your arms. A childs father is very important to him or her...I cant tell you exactly what to do, but I am only giving you advice for what happened to me. My boyfriend and my mother didn't get along when I was pregnant..And my mother kept begging me to go after him for child support...Me and my mother have never been close, and I eventually moved clear across the country with my boyfreind and my son to live with my grandma. Last night, my mother came to visit and she brought her boyfriend who we all hate...But unlike her I am respectful and I treated him with respect. The moral of all of this is be the bigger person, your parents love you and they will come around. Me and my boyfriend fight but our son keeps us together..We love each other, and have been together for 4 years and I am only 16. If you and your boyfriend really love each other than you will be able to make it through. I may not be making sense..Just put it this way...People will come around, no one can resist a cutey!!!

You know you love me-
mesmerizeu15

aol sn: mesmerizeu15
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scaredmommytobe
replied on October 12th, 2003
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Hey everyone its me again.....My boyfriend isnt all I made him out to be he`s crazy and needs help......Me on the other hand....Im going to have a baby in a few months...Thats what I need to worry about...Not what I did wrong this time or what is he gonna do next time things dont go his way and what about when he hits me again...I tell everyone he has never hit me but he has......So anyways enough about him...I cant wait to have this baby...I already love my baby more than anything...Wish me luck....Im scared to death I never wanted to do this on my own but I guess you do whatever it is you have to when it comes to your baby
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