Me and my fiancee was planing to get
married then we decided that we wanted to
have a baby together I got pregnant 3
months after we started having sex. Then
a lil while before we found out I was
pregnant we started having some problems
then a few days after we found out we got
in a big argument and I freaked out and
said I had enough. I left town to stay
with some friends for a few days(me and
him lived together for about 7 weeks then
my mom freaked out and it was back to he
had his own place and I lived with my
parents) its now been like a week and a
half sence I left town im so scared.He
wants me to come home so bad and I want to
run jump into his arms but he doesnt know
what my family said yet. Last night my
family told me that I have to pick them or
him and even if I do pick him I cant see
him for 6 months (until I turn 1 that will be like 2
weeks before I have the baby I cant do
this with out him. He wants the baby. He
loves me and wants to get married so do i.
He`s a great guy I love him so much. I
dont know what to do. My family hates him
enough that if I marry him thay wont talk
to me....Help!!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-09-03 15:40pm
You really have to compromise with your
parents. But its best that you work
things out with your guy before you move
back with him. Just because he said its
sorry doesnt mean you worked out the
reasons you said you had enough. So tell
your parents you are going to work on this
relationship and you will be back with him
but you want them in your lives too. They
cant put their final decision on you. I
know how it is to be upset but my mom
never let me give up on it. So you have
to tell your guy that you need to work on
the relationship, maybe pre-marital
counceling and then your parents can agree
to be there for you. They dont want him
in your life so you need to make them see
you will be ok when you leave to be with
him even if its before your 18?. I hope I
helped a little bit. Good luck!
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-10-03 08:55am
Work it out with your man. Parents will
come around and when they see that little
angel they will rush back into your arms.
A childs father is very important to him
or her...I cant tell you exactly what to
do, but I am only giving you advice for
what happened to me. My boyfriend and my
mother didn't get along when I was
pregnant..And my mother kept begging me to
go after him for child support...Me and my
mother have never been close, and I
eventually moved clear across the country
with my boyfreind and my son to live with
my grandma. Last night, my mother came to
visit and she brought her boyfriend who we
all hate...But unlike her I am respectful
and I treated him with respect. The moral
of all of this is be the bigger person,
your parents love you and they will come
around. Me and my boyfriend fight but our
son keeps us together..We love each other,
and have been together for 4 years and I
am only 16. If you and your boyfriend
really love each other than you will be
able to make it through. I may not be
making sense..Just put it this
way...People will come around, no one can
resist a cutey!!!
You know you love me-
mesmerizeu15
aol sn: mesmerizeu15
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scaredmommytobe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Oct 2003 Posts: 3
Posted: 10-12-03 02:55am
Hey everyone its me again.....My boyfriend
isnt all I made him out to be he`s crazy
and needs help......Me on the other
hand....Im going to have a baby in a few
months...Thats what I need to worry
about...Not what I did wrong this time or
what is he gonna do next time things dont
go his way and what about when he hits me
again...I tell everyone he has never hit
me but he has......So anyways enough about
him...I cant wait to have this baby...I
already love my baby more than
anything...Wish me luck....Im scared to
death I never wanted to do this on my own
but I guess you do whatever it is you have
to when it comes to your baby
that will be like 2
weeks before I have the baby I cant do
this with out him. He wants the baby. He
loves me and wants to get married so do i.
He`s a great guy I love him so much. I
dont know what to do. My family hates him
enough that if I marry him thay wont talk
to me....Help!!
