Something like 90% of women carry the hpv virus and never know it. It is an std but can also be contracted by the misuse of tampons. Hpv is far more prevalent in girls. It can lay dormant for many years... And sometimes never cause an outbreak at all. Most outbreaks can be triggered by high stress or a degraded immune system. There is no cure for hpv at this time although there are some promising things on the horizon. Your wife, if she does have hpv, may very well have had it from the day she was born... And even if her mother has never shown signs of hpv, it does not mean that she does not have it. Hpv also increases the risk of cervical cancer... In fact about 99% of cervical cancer cases were in woman with the hpv virus. Cervical cancer is also one of the most curable cancers as long as it is caught early on. A woman with hpv should have a pap done every 3-6 months just to be on the safe side.
As you can see, I am very knowledgeable on this subject... My best friend has it and while she was in a state of shock and panic over it, I did all the research. The fact is that hpv is not a big deal. She has had no outbreaks on over 3 months and may never have another one. Just play on the side of caution and have regular pap's and she should be fine.
Also... Do not let her tell you that you gave it to her... Unless of course you did! Lol
in all reality, she may have given it to you!
Good luck!