Babe I would never put up with that you seriously need to sit down with him and talk about whats up its only emotionally draining you and thats not healthy.... You need to be reassured by his love and affection and if its not there you need to tell him how you feel without him jumping to the conclusion that your just jealous you sooo have a right to act the way your feeling... Like with paul I only disike one person and its his ex erin and its sucky because shes like the hardest person to hate and they are like super good friends haah shes like the nicest person ever but I alwwwww cant stand her ahaha but thats just because i'm a health forum about it...


Im me if u wanna chat hun

Like I use dto get attaced to guys so easy and now I seem not to care as much b/c ive been hurt soooooooo many times men always swear that the girls are stupid like that guy medical question buddy has a ex troo but I really dont give a rats butt b/c hes not 'my man' and I wouldnt want him 2 be men are nothing but pig u do need 2 stand up to him and b liek do u want her??? Y u always talking about her and im sure if u brotght up a guy from the past it would be hell
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<3 amanda

Thank you girls! Thanks so much, all of your advice means so much to me bc this has been bothering me for a while...And I have never ever mentioned any of my other boyfriends to him...And perhaps if I told him about the only other guy I have ever loved...Who I woke up next to and found that another girl was in the bed having fun with my boyfriend while I was asleep/passed out next to them...And then to invite me into the 'fun', he would understand why I was not ready to go out with him until long after he asked me.....(it took me a while to trust dudes again) but since I did give him my full trust, it is hard for me to think he would break it...I went through hell with jesse when he pulled that...(it was his going away party before he left to take a job in texas and it was his ex girl who they'd given their virginity to who he decided he couldn't live without until I was happily ignorant and at home dreaming about my wonderful bf) but i've never even mentioned him or that incident.

So today, after three hours of not speaking a word to him, he came into the bathroom while I was taking a bath and asked me what was wrong. So I told him exactly what was on my mind...How I felt like if he didn't want one of his ex's...That he must think that I can't handle the fact that he has a past...And that he must think I am too insecure or that there is a reason he is always looking into his past...Talking about his past....Perhaps wanting to relive the past...And I did tell him that I have things about my past that I could easily use to get him upset, but I keep it to myself...But if he wanted to go on bringing up his I would do the same...And he felt like an a$s. Which made me feel better. Lol and he apologised and told me he didn't want to hear about my past bc it made him uneasy and that is why he hides things from me when he looking up / talking to an ex online...Which I told him was going to stop so that we can maintain this trust we've worked so hard to build. So yes girls. Thank you soooooo much. : d I finally stood up to myself! Yay!

Awwyay I just want you to be happy my lil one... So if he picks a fight agian tell him me and my army (meaning lil dylan inside) hahah are coming after him haha

Hahahahaha, i'll do that. : d !!!!! Thanks.......I hope you find mexican food.....It's my favorite, and it is prolly all I will crave when I get pregnant (i really want him to want a baby......He brought it up today..That he wants a little boy but that he won't let "our" baby be an ohio state fan......Only a michigan fan......Which was good news to me!!!!! Yay!!!!!! Lol

Oh, p.S...


Hahaha. : d I my boyfriend bought my a planted flower.......Reallly pretty.....And a 5th avenue candy bar (my favorite) and a card.......He feels bad for upsetting me......And he realizes how easily I could have taken his actions for warning signs. *sigh* thanks for all your advice....It was much needed.........And it all worked for now..........This was the first riff in our relationship....And hopefully it'll never pop up again.......



Now i'm crossing my dam-n finger for a ring soon! Lol I would never think that but I went and got my finger sized and he didn't know about it and the next day he was like....You don't have fat fingers (i have italian hands/feet......Can you say chubby? At least I didn't get my pappaw's size of 5'2!!!!!) your ring finger is a size 7.........I said, how the hell did you know that???? And he was like.....It's my job to know. Wow. That put a knot in my stomach!

Everyone.......Cross your fingers!

How long have u guys been together?

We've been together for about 9 months......And we've been living together since june.......Except for the few weeks I went down to ohio for school.....But that was agony, so I came back. : d

Awwww sounds too cute!! I wish mine would get me a ring too. In the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship, he used to bring up his ex too, only he would say how I would do things to piss him off like she used to and that made me hot!!! So I told him like it was, I told him if you want to talk about comparing me to your ex I can say this much you are worse than my ex, and that shut him up and I told him not to ever compare me to his ex again. And he hasnt mentioned her since!

Well good for you!!!!!!! And good luck about the ring thing.........When I told my man I thought I was pregnant six weeks ago........I thought he was going to die......And when it came that, no, we weren't going to be parents......He's really nervous about talking about children.....But recently he has made comments about wanting me to go with him when he moves back to hawaii, and yesterday we were arguing about our future children and their loyalties to football! It made me soooo happy, bc at least he can see himself in my future....And becoming parents together!

Good luck with everything!

You need to think more of yourself. If this guy is iming old girlfriends and allowing exes to treat you as that one did in the restaurant, he is shady. And what's with telling you that the ex thinks you aren't as good as she is? He is trying to push some serious jealousy buttons, which means he is insecure...He should be glad to be a part of your life, not feel that you need to be grateful to be in his.

Sounds like he gets to call all the shots, flirt with old girlfriends, and then buy you a 50 cent candy bar and all is well...Not to be harsh, but I worry about you when I hear how grateful you are to be with him.
There are a lot of men out there, and they know how to treat a woman.
Don't take any crap.

Heather heather I bought cookie dough hahahah I gave up on the mex food


hows the boy?

Haah move with him then invite me vacccaaation hahah

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