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Q: What Should I Do?
asked by: single mum on October 19th, 2004
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I have been with my boyfriend just over 2 years. We have had our ups and downs but are really in love with each other but this is now the 2nd major break up for us and he has said that he can't see things changing. (arguing) he said that he still loves me and is attreacted to me, but still he stuck to his guns and left rather upset.
I then recieved a text that evening saying that he was so sorry the way things worked out, I replied with a lovely text but with exceptance of it being over.
I have since spoken to a friend of his who says that he was in two minds when he said and is not sure he has done the right thing. His advice to me was to leave it for about 3-4 days as calling so near to the day it finished might not give him time to miss me. He also said that seeing as we both know him, that I should run once again as he is really suborn. This is hard for me as I am not 100% sure that he will want me back and as far as he is concerned he has ended it. Does anyone have any advice, it would be much appreciated. Thanks
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Earth Mother
replied on November 16th, 2004
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It seems to me that you both were in favor of the breakup, and that after the initial anger cooled, you were both still accepting of it. That's a good sign, in my opinion.

Doubting yourself later isn't unusual. You've had time to miss that person and realize that they will, in fact, be absent from your life. This tends to cloud your judgment.

Personally I think you did the right thing. Let it be. Take some time for yourself now and let yourself heal.

Best wishes!
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sandyallen
replied on November 16th, 2004
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Their is an ole saying that says something like that if love something or someone to set it free, and that if it comes back it was meant to be and that if it doesn't come back that it never was meant to be. Just don't let him play with your head or heart!
Sincerely,
sandy
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