When you're in love w/a person, you dont' think of anyone else, and you can never wait until the next itme you see them....All this goes w/out saying. Now I feel this way about someone, but he's not my boyfriend he could be, but everyone I know, would completely diss me and shut me out their world for good...Should I go after my love or keep the trust and compainship of nearest and dearest? My friends?
Which is more important to you: friendship or love? If you can answer that then you'll know what to do. A word of caution though--just because you feel this way about him now, doesn't mean you always will. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but not every relationship works. Is it worth losing all of your friends just to try to have a relationship with this man? I would make sure that he's as serious about you as you are about him, and get some confidence that he wants to spend his life with you. Because if you choose him over your friends and then you two break up, your friends may not want to take you back, as they'll feel betrayed.
Those dont really sound like the kind of friends she should want to begin with brainy daile-like I said just get some dick from him on the side and dont mention it to your friends -its not like youd be lying and they would probably be a little happier that you arent acting like someone who really needs to get laid
Thanx for the advice.....
But i'm thinking I should do what trap says....Cuz that's pretty much what am doing now. I really shouldn't be surrounding myself, with people I can't trust or depend on to begin with.
Finally someone in here gets what im saying-are you sure you dont want to talk about you and your friendships and why they would blah blah blah-dale not everyone in here is a big juicy sap of I need a deep answer to a simple question-check out all my responses if youd like to other posts-they are all quite entertaining if I do say so-i will soon be the head doctor in charge of this whole site--
Oh great- you in charge trap??? Then everyone will be walking outside, smoking marijuana, drinking with you and the butt dude, and having sex with others constantly...... Damn- that just might work for you!!!!
Then maybe peolple would be a little bit happier in here- and who are you to talk miss and I quote"ive been drunk before and had a dick up my ass"--lol dont worry sal you will be put on pill patrol when I rule
Trap, I am entitled to my opinion just as you are to yours. She asked a question, and I gave her what I believe to be the best answer. It is up to her to decide what to do with it. Just because you don't agree with me doesn't mean you need to get hostile and rude.
Well, the point of coming on here isn't to give exciting answers that will make people laugh (such as yours) but to give answers that may actually help someone. I'm sorry if I don't believe going out and having sex will solve everything. That's a personal opinion. If you don't like what I have to say, trap, then I suggest you stop reading my relpies.
I don't know the whole story and why your "friends" are making you choose between the person you can't stop thinking about and them. I would just like to say that a "real" friend would not do that to you and chances are that if they are doing it about this, they'll find something else to make you choose again.
Which would you prefer someone who could possibaly make you happy or be with people who think they can tell you can and can't be with. That doesn't sound like very good friends. They should just except you and your desicions.Do they have a good reason for you not to be with him? Well you never know how a relationship is gonna turn out until you try.Right?