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Joise_Grossie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Laredo
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Need Help!!
Posted: 10-18-04 13:28pm
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When you're in love w/a person, you dont'
think of anyone else, and you can never
wait until the next itme you see
them....All this goes w/out saying. Now I
feel this way about someone, but he's not
my boyfriend he could be, but everyone I
know, would completely diss me and shut me
out their world for good...Should I go
after my love or keep the trust and
compainship of nearest and dearest? My
friends?
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miller2190
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jul 2004 Posts: 58 Location: GA
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Posted: 10-19-04 13:05pm
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Why would your friends shut you out?
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trap
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: california
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Posted: 10-19-04 13:12pm
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Screw him on the side and dont let them
know
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-20-04 03:08am
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Which is more important to you: friendship
or love? If you can answer that then
you'll know what to do. A word of caution
though--just because you feel this way
about him now, doesn't mean you always
will. I'm not trying to be rude or
anything, but not every relationship
works. Is it worth losing all of your
friends just to try to have a relationship
with this man? I would make sure that
he's as serious about you as you are about
him, and get some confidence that he wants
to spend his life with you. Because if
you choose him over your friends and then
you two break up, your friends may not
want to take you back, as they'll feel
betrayed.
Daile
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trap
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: california
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Posted: 10-20-04 12:09pm
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Those dont really sound like the kind of
friends she should want to begin with
brainy daile-like I said just get some
dick from him on the side and dont mention
it to your friends -its not like youd be
lying and they would probably be a little
happier that you arent acting like someone
who really needs to get laid
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Joise_Grossie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Laredo
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Posted: 10-20-04 13:28pm
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Thanx for the advice.....
But i'm thinking I should do what trap
says....Cuz that's pretty much what am
doing now. I really shouldn't be
surrounding myself, with people I can't
trust or depend on to begin with.
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trap
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: california
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Posted: 10-20-04 13:34pm
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Finally someone in here gets what im
saying-are you sure you dont want to talk
about you and your friendships and why
they would blah blah blah-dale not
everyone in here is a big juicy sap of I
need a deep answer to a simple
question-check out all my responses if
youd like to other posts-they are all
quite entertaining if I do say so-i will
soon be the head doctor in charge of this
whole site--
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
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Posted: 10-20-04 13:36pm
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Oh great- you in charge trap??? Then
everyone will be walking outside, smoking
marijuana, drinking with you and the butt
dude, and having sex with others
constantly...... Damn- that just might
work for you!!!!
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trap
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: california
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Posted: 10-20-04 13:46pm
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Then maybe peolple would be a little bit
happier in here- and who are you to talk
miss and I quote"ive been drunk before and
had a dick up my ass"--lol dont worry sal
you will be put on pill patrol when I rule
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
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Posted: 10-20-04 13:53pm
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There definitely wouldnt' be any
relationship problems cuz no one would
give a crap anymore....
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-20-04 14:11pm
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Trap, I am entitled to my opinion just as
you are to yours. She asked a question,
and I gave her what I believe to be the
best answer. It is up to her to decide
what to do with it. Just because you
don't agree with me doesn't mean you need
to get hostile and rude.
Daile
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trap
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 65 Location: california
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Posted: 10-20-04 14:41pm
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That was even more boring than your first
answer
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-22-04 00:40am
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Well, the point of coming on here isn't to
give exciting answers that will make
people laugh (such as yours) but to give
answers that may actually help someone.
I'm sorry if I don't believe going out and
having sex will solve everything. That's
a personal opinion. If you don't like
what I have to say, trap, then I suggest
you stop reading my relpies.
Daile
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Sweety1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 34 Location: Canada
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Posted: 10-22-04 00:55am
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I don't know the whole story and why your
"friends" are making you choose between
the person you can't stop thinking about
and them. I would just like to say that
a "real" friend would not do that to you
and chances are that if they are doing it
about this, they'll find something else to
make you choose again.
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fighter12389
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 32 Location: minnesota
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Posted: 10-24-04 14:53pm
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Which would you prefer someone who could
possibaly make you happy or be with people
who think they can tell you can and can't
be with. That doesn't sound like very
good friends. They should just except you
and your desicions.Do they have a good
reason for you not to be with him? Well
you never know how a relationship is gonna
turn out until you try.Right?
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