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Q: I Need Some Help!!!
asked by: jenifercarrillo on October 18th, 2004
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Okay it's like this. I'm 16 years old and I am now almost a month and a half pregnant with my first child. I have yet to tell my parents because i'm afraid of what will happen to my boyfriend. He is 21 years old and he is an illegal immigrant from mexico. He lived with my mother and myself for a few months and my mother is aware that we are sexually active. She has threatened to call i.N.S. When she gets angry but I dont think she will really do it. I need some advice on how to tell her and I was wondering if anyone knew if my boyfriend could be put in jail even if my mom consented a sexual relationship.
Thanks alot
jenifer
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jessamyn
replied on October 18th, 2004
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Honestly hun you mom needs to wake up reality and realize that there was a hardcore chance of that happening the age and sexual activity on top of living together, but it think u need to more realize about someone filing for rape agianst u even though it was consensual... You need to tell her though be prepared for alot of yelling but she will learn to accept it. She'll (hopefully) realize it was a real thing that could happen and that you will all learn to adapt you need to see a doc and if you cant yet atleast go to a clinic or to your local grocery store and buy some prenatal pills that you neeeed to be taking everyday. When my mom foundout she was furious I mean nothing but yelling.... But now shes learned to love the little baby inside me... If you ever need anyone to talk to im me anytime

aim darlinjessa
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brezzy87
replied on October 18th, 2004
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I had the same thing but a lil diff (he wasnt a imm) I was 14 he was 20 and my parents called the cops on him and we went through a lot of caca but thatnk god the charges where droped and then I found out I was preg I was only 14 and I didnt kno if we coud betogether so I terminated the pregnacy
I think that she was aware of it and approved of it nothing can happen but if hes a imm I dont kno about that
goood luck if u need to talk my aim is missenulots
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jessamyn
replied on October 18th, 2004
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Goodluck hun
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jenifercarrillo
replied on October 18th, 2004
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Thanks Alot
Thank you for ya'll's advice and I just wanted to let jessamyn ( I hope I spelled it right) that the moment I thought that I was pregnant I started to take prenatal vitamins from walgreens. I hope I will have enough courage to tell my mom and I wil keep ya'll posted.
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jessamyn
replied on October 18th, 2004
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Thank you for taking the vitamins haahh I will like reem on you until you do hahah if you werent.... Try getting on your moms good side until you decide to tell her!~
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Heathergirl
replied on October 18th, 2004
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You should tell your mother that if she thought about turning him into the feds, she would be in serious trouble too...Because she allowed him to live inside her home knowing that he was illegal........ Good luck
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