I like a girl, shes a grade younger than
me, anyway weve known each other for a
year or so and were pretty good friends.
I graduated and shes a senior in high
school, I prolly wont see her again untill
the spring, because instead of going to my
college coach, im using my old high school
coach, and I will see her there. Anyway,
I really like her im afraid if we go out,
and break up, then we wont be friends
anymore, and if I ask her out and she says
no, things will get awkward. What should
I do!?
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-18-04 03:21am
Tell her how you feel! I had a similar
situation in middle school. The guy I
liked (my best friends big brother) was a
senior, and I was in eighth grade. I
wanted to go out with him, but I spent so
much time at his house with his sister I
thought it would be weird if he said no,
or if we broke up. I finally told him how
I felt, and turns out, he liked me too!!
We did break up eventually (my mom found
out) but it wasn't awkward or anything.
Just let her know that you would like to
be more than friends. If she says no,
don't try to pressure her, and don't
change how you act.
Daile
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Joise_Grossie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Laredo
Posted: 10-18-04 13:31pm
Go for it!!
You really should ask this girl out, who
knows things could be better than you
expect.
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fighter12389
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 32 Location: minnesota
Reply Posted: 10-24-04 14:42pm
Tell her how you feel. If you don't
you'll regret never saying anything and
always wondering what could have been. If
theres always been good chemistry between
you two then chances are she'll say
yes.And if she says no. Just respect her
desicion and at all cost don't act any
diffrent around her. That diffrence is
what ruins alot of friendships. Nobody
wants to feel uncomfortable. Well best of
luck. I hope this helped.
