Has she considered putting the baby up for adoption? Does she want to keep the baby or not? That is something that she needs to decide. If it is too late for an abortion, she should look into adoption unless she does want to keep the baby. I did a little research for you and it does appear to be too late for an abortion, however some doctors will do a late term pregnancy up to 26 weeks, but this is partial birth method, meaning the baby will have some sensations. However, it is very rare that doctors will do this. There are programs that she should look into if she is going to keep the child, one suggested would be for her to research "the children’s aid societies", it may be better for her to seek a woman's shelter instead of trying to get her own apartment that way she will have more revenue available for her child. Be supportive, don't use terms like "you have ruined your life...." try to keep her thinking positive about any decision that she makes about the welfare of the child. I would suggest that she not drop out of school, some programs help w/ daycare and gas aid so that mothers can continue their education , it is cheaper for the government to help someone through college to get a better education than it is for the government to support both her and her child for 20 years. Basically, you guys should do some reasearch, she may not want to live in a shelter, but if she is keeping the baby she needs to think about what she can provide for the baby and under what circumstances will those provisions be available. Also, I would recommend that she talk with her parents or continue to do so, they will not be happy, but they may adjust to help their child/grandchild. Overall, hang in there because she will need you by her side. Good luck-
