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Q: Disturbed

asked by: ERICA83 on October 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Sorry I havent had much time to reply to posts but I will 2morrow I promise! But this is really bothering me. Ok my nephews spent the night last night and today when my sister came to pick them up she brought her camcorder to video tape dom. Anyway she forgot it here so I called her and told her and she was like ok well theres videos of us from the 4th of july and niagra falls and when u were still pregnant so watch it anyway my nephews who had the camera were in their bedroom taping themselves wrestling with their friends acting like backyard wrestlin to get to the point they are 8 and 10 the 10 year old who I thought was the most innocent thing alive was the one tapin and u can hear him sayin things like " fight u f a gg o ts!, come on u little muther health questions s and pu s s ys ect ect I couldnt believe my ears .... Then my nephew was sayin " look at this caca ! U guys cant fight. Wanna see somthin cool? And he shows his penis!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And he was hard!!!!!! I about lost my mind! What the h e l l???? How do I tell my sister? Then the boys go tape over it and he goes its ok my mom wont see? What should I make of this ? I am very very bothered! ~ erica

Replies(13)

June4life

replied on October 17th, 2004

Experienced User

Wow, I really have no idea what to tell you!

lauren22

replied on October 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Oh my gosh! I'm a little confused...Did you mean the already taped over it...Or no? That is crazy! I would just be honest with her! I would want to know if my kid was acting/talking like that!

ERICA83

replied on October 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

No see there was a whole bunch of lil clips from diff events and 1 of them happened to be him and his friends in his room wrestling. He had the cam they were playin with it and my sis never thought to look at it and taped a whole bunch of other things after that. It was from january of this year. I know its actually embarassin for me to tell this cuz I dont want people thinkin my nephew is weird but I mean 10 yo's dont do things like that. Wether it be a joke or not, ~ erica.

pitterpatter

replied on October 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Okay, well no matter how old he is it's not okay to be doing that stuff! I would definately tell her and let her know that you don't know if she knows or not, but this is what you saw. I might also talk to your nephew and tell them that it was inapropriate and I would let them know that their mother will hear about it too.

TQuartz490

replied on October 17th, 2004

Experienced User

erica83 wrote:

no see there was a whole bunch of lil clips from diff events and 1 of them happened to be him and his friends in his room wrestling. He had the cam they were playin with it and my sis never thought to look at it and taped a whole bunch of other things after that. It was from january of this year. I know its actually embarassin for me to tell this cuz I dont want people thinkin my nephew is weird but I mean 10 yo's dont do things like that. Wether it be a joke or not, ~ erica.

erica hun, 10 year olds don't do things like that. Umm what box are you hiding in?, I think it's time you came out. It is very natural for children of that age to act in that manner. Heck, I remember I was in the city the other day on my way to starbucks and this tourist asked thess little kids if he knew where fao schwartz was (toy store). The kids replied. Was I shocked? Nope because I figured it came from one, the parents not raising the child right and having no control, or the parent not being aware of it. Boys especially will be boys and will do things in their child years to represent immaturity. So don't expect him to be quiet, well mannered and serene 100% of the time. The best advice I can give you is to let your sister be aware of what is going on in her child's life, none the less the other parents of the kids on the tape. And let her know that before it evolves into something worse or even more disturbing to you, she can maintain it to a level where it is acceptable.

Don't get me wrong, I believe children should not act like that and no one should tolerate it. But who is to blame, for those parents who let their children go? (just a question)

pitterpatter

replied on October 18th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

No! It's not normal for boys or girls to do that! What planet are you on? I'm a teacher and i've taught kids up to fifth grade and it's not normal to be doing that! I agree that sometimes it can be a parent thing, but does that make it okay and normal? No! A normal ten year old will not show his penis around like that. A normal ten year does not go around saying human and mother fffer. I would have to disagree with you on that. And as far as the eight year old it's even more absurb that they would do that. So to answer your question erica it's not normal. I'd say that it's normal at that age to cop an attitude, but not go showing his penis around. It's not normal for them to be talking like that either. Maybe when they get to be teens talking like that would be normal, but it's definatley not okay! However, as far as the flashing the private part I would not say that is not normal in middle school highschool or college. I would even go as far as saying it's a behavioral problem in my opinion.

jessamyn

replied on October 18th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Omg she should know and have a talk with her kids seriously

TQuartz490

replied on October 18th, 2004

Experienced User

pitterpatter wrote:

no! It's not normal for boys or girls to do that! What planet are you on? I'm a teacher and i've taught kids up to fifth grade and it's not normal to be doing that! I agree that sometimes it can be a parent thing, but does that make it okay and normal? No! A normal ten year old will not show his penis around like that. A normal ten year does not go around saying human and mother fffer. I would have to disagree with you on that. And as far as the eight year old it's even more absurb that they would do that. So to answer your question erica it's not normal. I'd say that it's normal at that age to cop an attitude, but not go showing his penis around. It's not normal for them to be talking like that either. Maybe when they get to be teens talking like that would be normal, but it's definatley not okay! However, as far as the flashing the private part I would not say that is not normal in middle school highschool or college. I would even go as far as saying it's a behavioral problem in my opinion.

im on planet earth miss ladie and what im saying it's normal for boys to act like that. But that behavoir is not to be condoned as normal. I have also worked with kids, and every kid does things that someone does not find to be "normal". Some kids eat glue, some kids eat mud, some boys play with barbies, and some cuss, fight and act violent, that is all in being kids, they will grow out of it, those who get help. Now if u live in nyc, u will understand where I am coming from because it happens ever so often. Pitterpatter why don't u stop teaching for a while and take time to learn that outside ur world, things happen differently.

Trust me it happens ever so often and all that is needed is for someone not to bring them down, but to tell them right from wrong

bellax0x

replied on October 18th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Wow, I would tell their mom!

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gaby

smith8500

replied on October 18th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

You sould let their mom know how they are acting. I mean....That's all I can say.

ERICA83

replied on October 18th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Thx for all the replys. Tquartz or w/e ur name is I know u said not to take u wrong but what were u implying when u said... " what box are u hinding in? " no need for u to get cocky honey ok so dont talk to me like I am stupid or like anyone else here is stupid either and again no! It is not normal for kids of that age to do things like that and yes I am blaming it on the way they are being raised because I disagree with it .

ERICA83

replied on October 18th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Time to come out lol and what was that about too? U sound really p1$$ed off. Who rained on your parade? ~ erica.

linuxChique

replied on October 18th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Oh my gosh! If tru ever does that she is sooooo grounded forever!

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