Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Disturbed Posted: 10-17-04 22:58pm
Sorry I havent had much time to reply to
posts but I will 2morrow I promise! But
this is really bothering me. Ok my
nephews spent the night last night and
today when my sister came to pick them up
she brought her camcorder to video tape
dom. Anyway she forgot it here so I
called her and told her and she was like
ok well theres videos of us from the 4th
of july and niagra falls and when u were
still pregnant so watch it anyway my
nephews who had the camera were in their
bedroom taping themselves wrestling with
their friends acting like backyard
wrestlin to get to the point they are 8
and 10 the 10 year old who I thought was
the most innocent thing alive was the one
tapin and u can hear him sayin things like
" fight u f a gg o ts!, come on u little
muther health questions s and pu s s ys
ect ect I couldnt believe my ears ....
Then my nephew was sayin " look at this
caca ! U guys cant fight. Wanna see
somthin cool? And he shows his
penis!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And he was hard!!!!!!
I about lost my mind! What the h e l
l???? How do I tell my sister? Then the
boys go tape over it and he goes its ok my
mom wont see? What should I make of this
? I am very very bothered! ~ erica
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June4life
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2004 Posts: 550
Posted: 10-17-04 23:02pm
Wow, I really have no idea what to tell
you!
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lauren22
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Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-17-04 23:02pm
Oh my gosh! I'm a little confused...Did
you mean the already taped over it...Or
no? That is crazy! I would just be
honest with her! I would want to know if
my kid was acting/talking like that!
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Posted: 10-17-04 23:32pm
No see there was a whole bunch of lil
clips from diff events and 1 of them
happened to be him and his friends in his
room wrestling. He had the cam they were
playin with it and my sis never thought to
look at it and taped a whole bunch of
other things after that. It was from
january of this year. I know its actually
embarassin for me to tell this cuz I dont
want people thinkin my nephew is weird but
I mean 10 yo's dont do things like that.
Wether it be a joke or not, ~ erica.
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 10-17-04 23:38pm
Okay, well no matter how old he is it's
not okay to be doing that stuff! I would
definately tell her and let her know that
you don't know if she knows or not, but
this is what you saw. I might also talk
to your nephew and tell them that it was
inapropriate and I would let them know
that their mother will hear about it too.
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TQuartz490
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Posts: 444 Location: New York City
Posted: 10-17-04 23:55pm
erica83
wrote:
no see there was a whole
bunch of lil clips from diff events and 1
of them happened to be him and his friends
in his room wrestling. He had the cam
they were playin with it and my sis never
thought to look at it and taped a whole
bunch of other things after that. It was
from january of this year. I know its
actually embarassin for me to tell this
cuz I dont want people thinkin my nephew
is weird but I mean 10 yo's dont do things
like that. Wether it be a joke or not, ~
erica.
erica
hun, 10 year olds don't do things like
that. Umm what box are you hiding in?, I
think it's time you came out. It is very
natural for children of that age to act in
that manner. Heck, I remember I was in
the city the other day on my way to
starbucks and this tourist asked thess
little kids if he knew where fao schwartz
was (toy store). The kids replied. F off
problem and suck my d!Ck. Was I shocked?
Nope because I figured it came from one,
the parents not raising the child right
and having no control, or the parent not
being aware of it. Boys especially will
be boys and will do things in their child
years to represent immaturity. So don't
expect him to be quiet, well mannered and
serene 100% of the time. The best advice
I can give you is to let your sister be
aware of what is going on in her child's
life, none the less the other parents of
the kids on the tape. And let her know
that before it evolves into something
worse or even more disturbing to you, she
can maintain it to a level where it is
acceptable.
Don't get me wrong, I believe children
should not act like that and no one should
tolerate it. But who is to blame, for
those parents who let their children go?
(just a question)
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 10-18-04 00:31am
No! It's not normal for boys or girls to
do that! What planet are you on? I'm a
teacher and i've taught kids up to fifth
grade and it's not normal to be doing
that! I agree that sometimes it can be a
parent thing, but does that make it okay
and normal? No! A normal ten year old
will not show his penis around like that.
A normal ten year does not go around
saying human and mother fffer. I would
have to disagree with you on that. And
as far as the eight year old it's even
more absurb that they would do that. So
to answer your question erica it's not
normal. I'd say that it's normal at that
age to cop an attitude, but not go showing
his penis around. It's not normal for
them to be talking like that either.
Maybe when they get to be teens talking
like that would be normal, but it's
definatley not okay! However, as far as
the flashing the private part I would not
say that is not normal in middle school
highschool or college. I would even go
as far as saying it's a behavioral problem
in my opinion.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 10-18-04 00:40am
Omg she should know and have a talk with
her kids seriously
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TQuartz490
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Posts: 444 Location: New York City
Posted: 10-18-04 00:42am
pitterpatter
wrote:
no! It's not normal for
boys or girls to do that! What planet
are you on? I'm a teacher and i've
taught kids up to fifth grade and it's not
normal to be doing that! I agree that
sometimes it can be a parent thing, but
does that make it okay and normal? No!
A normal ten year old will not show his
penis around like that. A normal ten
year does not go around saying human and
mother fffer. I would have to disagree
with you on that. And as far as the
eight year old it's even more absurb that
they would do that. So to answer your
question erica it's not normal. I'd say
that it's normal at that age to cop an
attitude, but not go showing his penis
around. It's not normal for them to be
talking like that either. Maybe when
they get to be teens talking like that
would be normal, but it's definatley not
okay! However, as far as the flashing
the private part I would not say that is
not normal in middle school highschool or
college. I would even go as far as
saying it's a behavioral problem in my
opinion.
im on
planet earth miss ladie and what im saying
it's normal for boys to act like that.
But that behavoir is not to be condoned as
normal. I have also worked with kids, and
every kid does things that someone does
not find to be "normal". Some kids eat
glue, some kids eat mud, some boys play
with barbies, and some cuss, fight and act
violent, that is all in being kids, they
will grow out of it, those who get help.
Now if u live in nyc, u will understand
where I am coming from because it happens
ever so often. Pitterpatter why don't u
stop teaching for a while and take time to
learn that outside ur world, things happen
differently.
Trust me it happens ever so often and all
that is needed is for someone not to bring
them down, but to tell them right from
wrong
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
You sould let their mom know how they are
acting. I mean....That's all I can say.
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Posted: 10-18-04 09:11am
Thx for all the replys. Tquartz or w/e ur
name is I know u said not to take u wrong
but what were u implying when u said... "
what box are u hinding in? " no need for
u to get cocky honey ok so dont talk to me
like I am stupid or like anyone else here
is stupid either and again no! It is not
normal for kids of that age to do things
like that and yes I am blaming it on the
way they are being raised because I
disagree with it .
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Posted: 10-18-04 09:14am
Time to come out lol and what was that
about too? U sound really p1$$ed off.
Who rained on your parade? ~ erica.
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linuxChique
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Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-18-04 11:54am
Oh my gosh! If tru ever does that she is
sooooo grounded forever!
