Plz Help, Am I Being Silly Or Am I Right? Posted: 10-08-03 21:34pm
Hi, my gf and I are sexually active but we
always use protection and are fairly
careful. We have had no worries until a
couple of weeks ago. She is supposed to
get her period about the end/start of the
month. She is not real regular, but it is
10 days late and I am really really
scared! She just doesnt want to talk
about it cause it worries her. She has no
other symptoms of pregnancy. Also, if she
is pregnant, which I hope to god she is
not, can we get an abortion without her
parents finding out?. She is 16 and I am
19. I know it prob best to tell the
parents but they will freak and never let
me see her again, and she could get kicked
out of home. Plz help me, please give me
your advice.
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Confused1605
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Illinois
Hmm Posted: 10-08-03 21:57pm
Okay first of all calm down. Second you
said it yourself shes been late
before.....Alot of girls dont get
pregnancy symtoms until they are 2 or 3
months pregnant......If she is 10 days
late you should take a pregnancy test if
it turns out negative take another one in
10 more days .....If its still negative
theres good chance she probably isnt
pregnant but the only way to really find
out is if you go have a blood test
done...You can get an abortion done
without parents permission but can you
please listen to my opinion if you get an
abortion your killing a life your killing
something that could be im 16 almost 17
and my boyfriend is 19 almost 20 im over 2
months pregnant we are keeping it
too...Why? Because we both dont have the
hearts to kill such a beautiful thing and
because we both agree that a child should
be with their biological parents but if
you dont want the baby you should at least
give it up for adoption because that way
you can give someone who isnt fertile a
chance to have a baby they can call their
own im not trying to preach here im just
telling you my opinion oh my parents dont
know im preggy yet but when they find out
of course they are going to be pissed and
say stuff they dont mean but if you care
about your girlfriend it shouldnt stop you
two from being together...Thats just my
advice.... Good luck and best
wishes.....
Jeni
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hambo_12
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 4
Is It Different If I Am In Australia Posted: 10-08-03 22:16pm
Hi, thanks for the advice. Is it still
possible to get an abortion withouts
paretns permission in australia? Any help
would be great thanks.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-09-03 09:22am
Yes, it is still possible for you to get
an abortion. I am sure that you guys have
a planned parenthood or some sort of
thing. I don't believe in it, and I
totally agree with what the other girl had
to say above me. This is wrong for you to
do, and it is wrong for me to even be
telling you what to do since I don't
believe in what you are asking, but I am a
nice person and I was where you are
too....Good luck in whatever you do, but I
think that you really need to think about
what you are doing...May god be with you
and that inocent (caps!!!) child....God
bless..
