Been Masturbating Too Long? Posted: 10-15-04 07:10am
Well.... Like you all arnt familiar with
me and my situations, but this is an easy
question... By bf 21yrs old, virgin,
(whom I sppek of so often in here) still
can not stay hard enough for lasting sex,
nor can he even masturbate in front of me
to keep it or get it hard enough... He
thinks his mind thinks its weird to have
someone else around, or have some one or
somehting else pleasure him, therefor he
cant get hard, or even do it himself in
front of me. Has he been doing it himself
so long that he really might have to 'get
used to' the tought of someone or somthing
else being wble to satisfy him? And is it
possible to be trying to often throughout
the day to have sex and keep his penis
hard? Or should we take like a week with
no sexual activing at all then try? He
just seems so used to his own hand!! I
dont know how it is for male virgins
espically of that age? And everyone has
told me, 'well he needs to calm down and
realx' but yea,i know that, and he tries
but when we start to get into it, he
looses it b/c he thinks to much.. But
besided that issue... Whats the deal with
his philosiphy on ' its weird that
something else is being used to get my
penis hard and ejuculate..." and that
being a valid reason? Please help.. Its
been 5 months and dont want it to be 5
more.
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gman2000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Mar 2004 Posts: 48
Posted: 10-16-04 00:57am
Viagra, try that
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HJD622
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 15 Location: Virginia
Been There, Done That..... Posted: 10-16-04 07:36am
Thats the funny thing about it.. He has
been to the doctor and got a sample pack
and we have tried that but that doesnt
seem to work wither .. Its like, no
matter what we try, or even if he uses the
viagra which is supposed to work very
well, he is concentrating or thinking abot
it too much and it still doesnt work?!
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JAJC76
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 11
Posted: 10-17-04 08:36am
I am having a similar problem read my post
I just put up. I have no problem stay
hard through blow jobs and hand jobs but
two times I tried to have sex with her and
lost my erection.Its very confusing. So I
hope we both find the answer to our
questions because now my girl is getting
mad at me.I know what you are going
through and i'm sorry. Ja
