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Q: My Concern
asked by: amy98 on October 14th, 2004
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Ive talked to a few girlfriends and not sure really what to think, me and my boyfriend had sex about a week ago my periods due any day now and I think im just being paranoid but we did not use protection. We are new with having sex and he did not cum inside of me but there is a chance that precum could have came out.
I havnt really had any symptoms im confused because I have been tired and extremley emotional latley and I know those are signs of being pms as well as pregnecy.
Starting friday I am going on birth control but im so worried right now and I should have gotten my period today or should be in the next few days.
I was just curious if anyone knows if there is a pregnecy test I can take as soon as possable since my period due date is basically now or if I have to wait the full 3 weeks. Also was curious what my chances are of being pregnet.
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amy98
replied on October 14th, 2004
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Please someone help Sad
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oangelc543
replied on October 14th, 2004
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Hey.. Alright, heres the deal.. Pre cum has sperm in it so it doesnt matter if he fully came in you or not.. Your chance of being pregnant are about the same.. Wait and see if you get your period in the next 2-3 days, if you dont then take a test.. Maybe the ept I think can detect 10-14 days after conception.. I'll spare you the lecture about using protection because youve probably heard it a zillion times. Just be careful, because you never know. I'm 15 and got pregnant after the condom fell of of my boyfriend during intercourse...


Good luck!
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amy98
replied on October 14th, 2004
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Thanks yeah tomorow im going in for birthcontrol and we will be extra careful for now on.
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sdwood2
replied on October 17th, 2004
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Before starting your b/c you have to get your af frist
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amy98
replied on October 17th, 2004
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Whats af? You mean my period right? Yah I know and it still hasnt came but it has been coming later latley and its been 3 weeks 5 days Sad
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sdwood2
replied on October 17th, 2004
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Wate until you know for sure then if you are not pg start taking the b/c you dont want to be taking it and be pg
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oangelc543
replied on October 17th, 2004
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Did u find out if ur pg or not yet?
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amy98
replied on October 19th, 2004
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Yes I know days are passing by and no period, I really dont think I am but I guess there is a small chance I am. I have been super stressed and it isnt that late so I do think I should wait at least 5 more days till taking the test because I cant remember exacltly when it came last. Oh god I really hope im not though
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oangelc543
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Hmmmm yea i'd wait if I was you.. Just a few more days... Then test..And we're all here for you if you ever need support!.. I know how nerve racking it can be to wait for that neg or pos. Result, but keep your head up, and let us know how everything turns out! Goodluck
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misscamie20
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Hi
Ok stress plays the biggest role in this. I had the same thing happen to me and I was taking a test everyday for a month straight, it came out neg. Every time but my period was over a month late so I went to the doctor and he said I was stressing my self out so bad that I had played a trick on my body. It couldnt tell what the hell was going on !!! He told me I had to stop thinking about it and give myself a day or two of relaxation but to keep busy on other things to keep my mind off it. Two days later I got my period. I am not a doctor so I cannot tell you if you are pg or not but you cannot be stressed about it.You have to be calm and not think about it.Keep us posted.
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amy98
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Thanks guys, yeah I have not been stressing as much as I was even a few days ago but I find it impossable to not think about it once or twice in a day. Still havnt come though, do you guys reccomend that I go to a clininc and get a preg test done there? Or just buy a home pregnecy test from the store?
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Ixannahsmom
replied on October 20th, 2004
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Well if it were me personally I would get a home pregnancy test just for the piece of mind. They can be pretty accurate if used correctly. I would also then make an appt to have one done by a doctor just to be sure. I hope everything turns out the way you want it to. Good luck, and keep us posted!
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bluebubble888
replied on October 22nd, 2004
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By now I would definitly take another test. The biggest thing is just to realx! I've heard of lots of people having late period due to stress! Let us know what happens!
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amy98
replied on October 23rd, 2004
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^ I hadnt taken a test at that point I see you thought I did though. Thanks for all your support so much. I took a pregnecy test today, a girlfriend came with me and we picked out the one that said that it would be able to read if your pregnet the day after missed period so its been almost well a week and a half or 2 since my period should have came so I took it and it came out negative im not pregnet! Haha im so relieved. The line was very clear which im guessing was good. I am still alittle concerned as to why my period has not came because it is never late, but I really think it was my stressing out about it, as well as other stress I have had latley. If my period doesnt come in a week I think I will go to my doctor just incase somthing else could be wrong or the test wasnt accurate but it most likley was. I have been feeling really pms latley which is good and have been getting cramps so hopefully it comes soon.

Laughing thanks again everyone.
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amy98
replied on October 25th, 2004
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Hey everyone turns out im not pregnet! I did a test on friday with my girlfriend and yeah it was negative and guessssssss what I got my period basically the next night. I know my period was delayed because of me worrying its so weird how that works. But wow I have never been so relieved in my life! Haha I decided to go on birth control (even if it meant hiding it from my mom haha)and I know to not start having sex without a condom at least untill ive been on it for over a month. I feel awsome now! Laughing I can honeslty say im glad that I had that scare because it did push me towards going on birth control early I dont think I would have done it so soon if this had not happen.

Thanks so much everyone for your support and advice!
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Tubby
replied on November 20th, 2004
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oangelc543 wrote:
hey.. Alright, heres the deal.. Pre cum has sperm in it so it doesnt matter if he fully came in you or not.. Your chance of being pregnant are about the same.. Wait and see if you get your period in the next 2-3 days, if you dont then take a test.. Maybe the ept I think can detect 10-14 days after conception.. I'll spare you the lecture about using protection because youve probably heard it a zillion times. Just be careful, because you never know. I'm 15 and got pregnant after the condom fell of of my boyfriend during intercourse...


Good luck!
fifteen year olds shouldn't be having sex. Where are your parents?
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Brets1Babygirl
replied on June 17th, 2009
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i am 14 going to be 15 in september but i havent had my period for a month and 4 days i havent been stressing or anything. i dont want to tell my mom cause she will be so mad. i am scared some one give me addvice PLEASE PLEASE?????
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