I was at the doctors today, and was in the waiting room for a real long time. About 7 or 8 other pregnant women were waiting as well.
I started a friendly conversation with a woman sitting near me that was waitng for a friend being seen by the doctor. As the conversation progressed she realized that I was indeed pregnant and started giving me wierd looks and a rude attitude... She asked me if I was nervous in a sort of sarcastic tone and I replied yes.. I was
then she gave me a whole spew of other comments about me "looking like I was 12" and "young girls not repecting their bodies"... It was just so rude, I couldnt even believe she was saying it..Its like people think im a lower class because im a teenager who is pregnant
Hey I kinda know how you feel. When my sister was born I was 16 years old. Most people thought it was my kid whenever I took her somewhere. I've always looked younger than my age too so they probably thought I was like thirteen at the time. People are stupid and they will be rude, but just remember what you need to focus on. Next time just say "now why would you say a thing like that?" smile while you do it too. Then say that your actually 25 and you just look young. Eh, it's a lie, but who cares it will teach her not to say anything like that.
I babysat this little boy, who was 8 months old at the time, and I remember having to go get him some babyfood or something...So I go to the grocery store and some old lady rolls her eyes at me, and said I was much too young to have a baby, and all this !**@!! Ugh, people are so ignorant!!
I'm sure when I have a baby people will roll there eyes at me, but I don't care anymore. I feel perfectly comfortable telling them how it is. People need to mind their own buisness. Besides it's fun to tell them how old you are and that you are probably older than they were when they had kids. Besides most of the people that would say that kind of stuff are immature trash in my opinon.
Ita with all of you! It gets me mad too. I take troy out all the time and everyone thinks he is mine but they dont think anything of it or give me dirty looks. And its not like it common in my town or anything.. Wierd! Lol
People... Piss... Me... Off
ya know, it's people like her are the reason that kids hate adults and don't want to listen to them... I'm sorry, but if you're going to be judgmental and condescending, do it inside your own damn head. Ug, people like that drive me nuts.
Well, it is sad to say, but get used to it. That is the way most people are. I've noticed people giving me some looks recently, and since I have a baby face they think I am really young. But, they're lucky i'm pregnant so I try to stay together, after little jonathan is born it will be a whole different story.
Well I havent had many bad looks or lectures. I have alot of people congratulating me and wishing me luck and stuff. Even though everyone thinks im like 16! Lol. People are gonna be rude and stiff but all u can do id drown them out and concentrate on your own happiness. Trust me u will have no time worrying or caring what other people think!
Oh well once the other day the new neighbors downstairs, the girl was all giving me dirty looks and I just smiled and kept on walking! They can hate all they want! Cuz im meeting a beautiful girl soon and cant nothing ruin that happiness!
(but then I got moody when she kept staring as I drove off so I gave her a look back, and I was telling jose "whats she staring at? Does she want to fight or what! Put em up! Ill kick her a$$!" lol he was laughing at me though)
Haha yea.. I wasnt about to punch this lady in the face or anything, and I dont really care that much of what she thinks.. I just thought it was unbelievably rude..Lol, oh well haha I guess I should get used to it