Please someone answer my question please

Well I was in your situation... You can call your local court house, the county court house, and tell them you would like to see a judge about having a abortion. You will go in front of a judge and plead your case, why you don't want your parents to know, etc. If he decides to he can give you permission to have one w/out your parents consent. Other than that they have to know good luck...
Sami

It depends on where u are, im not sure about the states. But in canada, you dont need anyones permission, just your own

It depends on where your from. I know that in new jersey you don't need consent.

Hi there, you can have one with out anyone knowing, you just go to regular doctor ask her, or when you go to have the test done they ask you what your palns are! They make the appointment at the hospital and you go in for like day surgery!

I also live in canada though, maybe it is different where you are!

Dear scared and nervous,

in denver the law states that you must get parental consent from at least one of your parents if you are under the age of 18 and want to have an abortion. It is possible to get consent from a judge but I would strongly urge you to think long and hard about this before making your final decision.
good luck

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Well, here in florida, you don't need anyones permission. A girl I know has had 2 abortions and her parents don;'t even know she's sexually active!!! But this girl is not a good example at all. I'm just saying, in a lot of places, you don't have to have permission.

As far a getting an abortion without parents permisson it will all depend on the state you live in. You need to go to a place where you can get all the facts about abortion, adoption and talk to a counclor. The first thing I would do would be to ask god what he would want you to do with this baby I think he would tell you to have the baby I have plans for him or her. I supposed you guess I don't favor abortion. What if you mother aborted you? I know it is hard, I don't know your circemstances but know mater what abortion is not the answer. The guilt you will fill is worse that keeping the baby. I don't mean to be harsh, I just want you to know what ever you choose I will be here to help you anyway I can.

Aches

please talk to god he will love you and he will understand, hear is point of view!

"scared and nervous" the young girl asking the initial question is from denver, which is why I stated that the law in denver does not allow abortion without parental consent. Aches you are correct in saying that it will be a lot more difficult in the long run trying to deal with the abortion itself rather than actually having the child and dealing with that. In fact most women (teenagers or not) find that not only is it a lot easier keeping the child, but they actually find that they get quite a lot of enjoyment and reward out of loving this little person and recieving so much love in return. Raising children can be a very positive and rewarding experience at any age. I had my daughter at 16, I am now 29 years old. My daughter is 13 now, and she is in high school and doing very well, she is the most loving caring person I know and she is my best friend, I love her so much. I guess what i'm saying, is it really that hard to at least think about what it would be like to keep your little baby ? And shortee, I understand that some people still wish to go ahead with an abortion even after considering all their options, but you seem intent on encouraging these girls to just have the abortion, I don't remember you saying anywhere they also have the option of keeping their baby. Abortion is not the only option.


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