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tyree1girl

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 9
Re: One Person Makes Me Feel Not Welcome
Posted: 10-07-04 12:19pm

Well I like both but it seems that I like pregnancylounge a little bit better because it seems like I will never fit in with forum because I am to new. Ya'll friendsships are solid and I understand that it is hard to try and include everyone but I have one friend there and I am going to get here to join here so will se. But no disrespect or anything but it is one particular person who makes me feel uneasy and not quite welcome. You know who you are.
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smith8500

Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
I Know Who I Am
Posted: 10-07-04 12:30pm

I know who I am.
Go to the other forum then. I can promise, newbies are welcomed. But not ones who come in and don't explain who they are with ip's like:

users posting from this ip address
lilmammie [ 24 posts ]
tyree1girl [ 10 posts ]
littlenumber4 [ 6 posts ]

go away. It sure won't hurt me.
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samismama

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Posts: 824

Posted: 10-07-04 12:46pm

::worries:: I intro'd myself right? Im hilary mami to sami (12/15/00) and 75% chance of girl due on 3/18/05 im 18. I recently got engaged to their father who has 4 children with my friend (in my absence) dani (5), tiana and asha (2 1/2) and ashton 6 mos
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tyree1girl

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 9
Whatever
Posted: 10-07-04 12:53pm

Why don't you leave then everybody will be happy I knowi will you are a judgemental health forum. Dont delete this you know how you are when you lose you loser that's why you have no life.
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lilmama2b_oct04

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 10-07-04 13:02pm

When I first came here I felt the same way. I said that this place was cliquey. It really isnt. Newbies are welcome, we are just a bit weary of them. Some people are better friends than others, but thats because alot of these girls talk all the time on yahoo (or whatever messenger they have). It takes time to get to know people, but you just need to jump in on conversations, and not care what people think. Thats what nikki told me to do, and now look at me, I joined in march... Im still here, and in with the crowd, im part of the ehealth family. Just give it time, and people will start to know who you are, and you wont feel so left out. By the way, chanda is a part of the family too, and nobody would be happy if she left.
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linuxChique

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
Re: Whatever
Posted: 10-07-04 13:06pm

tyree1girl wrote:
why don't you leave then everybody will be happy


actually, if chanda left, we would all follow her and you'd be the only one here.
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angel4ever

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004
Posts: 236
Location: New York

Posted: 10-07-04 13:09pm

Look, I have been posting here for a while, but I still consider myself "new" because I dont post every day, regularly. But when I first joined, all the girls were so nice and made me feel welcome. So I dont know what youre talking about.
I dont think u will make many friends here by just coming on and posting things attacking long-time members and talking sh*t about other people.
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IDABABY

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***

Posted: 10-07-04 13:15pm

Im sorry, but with that kind of attitude I dont think people would want to be friends with you. Thats horrible to say and I have already lost a whole lot of respect for you.
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lee25

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003
Posts: 1018
Location: new york

Posted: 10-07-04 13:42pm

It takes time for a person to get use to the forum and everyone is welcomed. But onlt the people who are not going to lie. We have had people here for months and they were just fake identities. Being that you are new you have no right to tell chanda to leave. I'm a little less than two months from being a year here and sometimes I still don't feel comfortable with certain people. But it's not in a bad way it's just there are people that I know more than others. Some of the girls that I know here i'm very attached to. You can't come and and claim somethign you don't know nothing of, and if you do have all those ip addresses then maybe you should go.

Brenda
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HypnotiqPassionz

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004
Posts: 29
Location: Nebraska
Re: Whatever
Posted: 10-07-04 15:05pm

I'm also a newbie here but i'm still gonna keep browsin and linuxchique i'm suprised you would respond wit such hostility towards tyree1girl from da otha forums you seem like such a sweet girl. But anywho hello pple i'm avi currently 29weeks pregnant wit my second son who is due on christmas eve day!


Last edited by HypnotiqPassionz on 10-07-04 15:56pm; edited 1 time in total
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Kia

Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,

Posted: 10-07-04 15:11pm

I hate it when people come here just to complain that we are all friends.
The fact we are friends is what makes this board so good.
I'm here a little over 3 months, I have less in common than most with these girls, i'm older, i'm not from and have never been to america.
I'm opinionated Wink
thing is on here people actually work through their differences. I know many girls on here who have differences of opinion, but they are still friends, because that's how it is in real life.
You wouldn't just move to a new school and be everybodies best friend, you have to make friends.
As for chanda, can't agree with you. Me and chanda have had a reasonable sized disagreement. The outcome we agreed to let each other have their own opinion. I do agree with some of her advice and she is a big part of this community. I don't agree with everything everyone says but it doesn't mean we can't get on.
The one thing that will stop you fitting in, the only thing, is health forum about our board.
If you wanna stay, then fine but you accept us, all of us as you find us.
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linuxChique

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
Re: Whatever
Posted: 10-07-04 15:32pm

hypnotiqpassionz wrote:
okay uhh shocked!!! I'm pretty sure not everyone would follow someone wit a twisted attitude towards others and i'm also a newbie here but i'm still gonna keep browsin and linuxchique i'm suprised you would respond wit such hostility towards tyree1girl from da otha forums you seem like such a sweet girl.


i try to be, but like I said in the other forum, we really know each other here, and we really stick up for each other. We are real friends. I'm not going to just stand by when some noob comes in and calls my friend a judgemental health forum for asking her a question.
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mommabear16

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois

Posted: 10-07-04 16:11pm

Heh, yeah...If chanda left..Everyone would follow. You're telling someone that has been here forever to leave, when you're new..Ptshh..Get real.
New people are welcome. Just not stupid b*tchs that think that they can run the place.
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cherriegurl

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state

Posted: 10-07-04 16:34pm

Im sorry but u have no right to talk caca about chanda she is what keeps this forum going. She is a much better friend and person than ull ever be!! And I agree with the other girls that I would follow her I love her. Oh ya I have only been here like 2 months and u just have to jump in with 2 feet and not only post when it has something to do with u u need to try and post to every one u can or have anykind of advice about. Like if someone is asking for good luck take 5 seconds out of ur day and post with a good luck it isnt that hard so get off ur high horse cuz she aint leavin
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oangelc543

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX

Posted: 10-07-04 16:57pm

Hey.. I know that i'm new here as well.. But ive found nothing but help and support.. I just wanted to make a point.. The reason we all came here was for advice or help, right.. In our time of need? So why doesn't everyone just drop this.. Is it really worth anyone's time to be arguing about such silly things when the most of us have alot of important things going on right now.. So, thats all I wanted to say.. Just maybe everyone can drop this.
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smith8500

Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana

Posted: 10-07-04 17:31pm

F*ck you tyree. Piss me off and i'll make sure you never make it back on ehealth again biotch.

Thanks for the support girls! I love ya'll
erin~i love you girl!
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rissalee21

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan

Posted: 10-07-04 18:00pm

Liste here tyreegirl if you cant be a damn mature person about this crap then why even come here..And if you dont feel welcomed by cahnda doing it take it up with her and stop whining..This is a damn good forum us ladies are all close ive been here awhile and I love it. And even the newbies are all welmoced when they dont come with that snotty ass attitude like you own something or you have any damn say..So take yourself back to your other forum beacsue you sure in the hell arent wanted here..

<3
marisa

i love you chandaaaaaaa
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bellax0x

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!

Posted: 10-07-04 18:01pm

Youre an fool. We cant all be friends on this board unless we let new people into our "click" I guess you can call it. Duh! Its not like we all joined the same day!! We dont like ppl who try to have power over the group when they just effin came on, people who are mean, and ppl who are fake. Jee does that remind you of anyone sweetie?!!

As for chanda, shes basically our rock.. Holding us all together, the group would be nothing without her. As well as all the other girls, we all contribute something!

<3
gaby
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sparklypixie12

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099

Posted: 10-07-04 18:07pm

Stupid girl hardly posts then starts moaning about people not liking her...What a health question!
If you don't like us then don't come on here! Simple as that! Yes we're all great friends & it's tough for new people to get in but they do get in if they're nice! And you know what?? We don't want you in our club! Haha!
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cherriegurl

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state

Posted: 10-07-04 18:09pm

Ha ha well put sparklypixie
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