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swans111

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Posted: 10-07-04 10:13am

I dont think anyone took me seriously but I would like to know if id fallen asleep drunk in a street if it would be possible for someone to anal rape me (im hetrosexual).Is it possible to sleep through it.What are the symptoms-surely there would be blood.I think im paranoid.Please help
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PattyV

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Posted: 10-09-04 17:09pm

Why do you think this has happened???I really don't think a first timer would sleep through anal sex,especially if you were not properly prepared.You must have been snot flinging drunk,but I really don't think you would have slept through such a thing.You shoul really watch your drinking,sounds like it could be a problem.Best to you.Patty
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swans111

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Posted: 10-10-04 10:02am

Well the next day after, my friend said that anything could hav happened and then I got it into my head that I cud hav bn raped. I started to get lot of pain in rectum/anus afterwards but I think this could hav bn anxiety as well as continuously contracting muscle there. Therwe was no blood or stains, no bruising and as I sed im 100% hetrosexual and always hav bn. The pain was intense for several wks but doctor sed it would hav just bn from different bowel movements(was on holiday at time). Do u think its just anxiety/paranoia as every symptom I look up I seem to develop.Thanks
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PattyV

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Posted: 10-10-04 14:19pm

I really don't think that you were raped,but if you were,the only thing you can do is have an hiv test done in about 3 months.Most rapists are not known to be gentle,so, I doubt that you would have slept through the incident.I think you may indeed be suffering from anxiety and need to lay off the online research.Otherwise you could convince yourself that you have every illness that you run across.Try to relax about your binge,but in the future,watch how much you drink.You don't want to make a habit of passsing out and starting this cycle of worry.Good luck to you!Patty
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sammisa

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Posted: 10-10-04 14:47pm

Yes, it is possible to be raped while you passed out drunk, and it would not wake you up, especially if someone put something in your drink. My husband just told me about a guy he knew, he had a room mate that would knock the guy out with eather (sp) and rape him in the buttom. So, it is totally possible. But then again, the doctor would be able to tell if your buttom has been entered into.
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swans111

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Thanks Patty
Posted: 10-11-04 04:10am

Yes I know.I was told that if I had been, there would be other symptoms such as blood, bruisiing, stains, etc, plus I wud hav woken up. I know I hav to stop looking at symptoms cos im conviniving myself iv got hiv, cancer and brain tumours. This anxiety is killing me after I start getting the symtoms iv read about and analysing every different feeling. I will try not to look online for while to keep calm and sensible.Thanks
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2ferano

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Posted: 10-11-04 22:35pm

If you were simply drunk you would not sleep through a rape. Maybe if you were in a coma, but not just drunk.
If you were drugged, then yes, you could definately have slept through the whole thing.

But, honey, if you were raped, you would know. Especially if you were anal raped and you don't have anal sex. You would definately be in tons of pain and have possible blood, etc.
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swans111

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Posted: 10-12-04 11:02am

How you know if u been drugged tho?How long those drugs put u out for .I was in lot of pain but only after sum1 sed sumthing-anxiousness etc-ther wud b definite blood wudnt there cos iv never had nethin up it.Plus id hav realsied as soon as io got up wudnt I rather than 24-30hours later.Thanks for ur help.Making me feel lot better
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oangelc543

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Posted: 10-18-04 19:21pm

Usually people who get raped after being drugged get drugged by the people who rape them. So if some random guy in the street raped you, he wouldnt have been putting things in your drink earlier right?

I've been drunk.. But to sleep through rape would be hard... I'd like to say this is probably in your head, but I cant say for sure.. Goodluck
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trap

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Posted: 10-18-04 20:55pm

Im not sure of the answer but if you want to come over and discuss it further over a few drinks and a couple of roofies we can find out
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oangelc543

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Posted: 10-20-04 11:52am

Trap, that wasn't very nice.. I think this guy is really looking for help..
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trap

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:00pm

Hey angel-do you mind im tryin to get me some- Twisted Evil
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BADSAL

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:21pm

Hey trap- u r in the wrong forum. There are other sites for that kind of stuff.
Anyways, i've been drunk enough and passed out that I don't remember what I did or what was done to me. Sure it could happen...........Anything is possible if you get that messed up.
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trap

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:28pm

Yeah there you go take it from the lush that she knows if someone is sticking it up your ass you will know-sorry badsal I was just trying to lighten it up for the guy--im sure hes haveing trouble excepting the fact that he enjoyed it but nooo you have to give him a dead drunk yes indeed it was a big fat cack up your now devirginised ass
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BADSAL

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:36pm

I've had dick up the ass, it doesn't really hurt and cause all sorts of damage.
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trap

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:42pm

Well then -......Maybe youd like to come over too bad and enjoy a few beers and roofie chasers with me and bloody butt boy
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BADSAL

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:48pm

See I knew u were psycho....
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trap

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:51pm

You love it
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BADSAL

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:54pm

Yeah- ur right.
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trap

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Posted: 10-20-04 12:56pm

You are getting me hot now bad---lol-
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