I cant really give you advice on how to go about that....But if you are trying to avoid an abortion...I hate to say, forcing a miscarriage is not far from abortion. Its still a life. Changing your mind after your girlfriend is already pregnant....Well frankly, thats a bit late. Perhaps you need to discuss alternatives like adoption? I hope it all works out.

Youre sick, sick and twisted. You shouldnt ever have kids, person

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I cant believe you would even ask that how doing it horrible I dont care if you changed your mind if your arent "ready" then you arent mture enough to even be sticking your dick anywhere... Grow up go back to health class get your gf on birth control so no child is ever forced to be stuck with you as a parent. Sorry if I sound harsh but in the words of my husband (who is ready for a baby) your part of the gene pool that needs a little chlorine. Seriously. Adopt the baby out if need be. Even if you do change your mind agian you dont deserve a child. You know at 8 weeks I heard my babys heart beat how far along is she.... The baby is a person little yet significant...! Ass


p.S. To anyone else who comments on that sorry i'm really not a health forum that just infuriates me ... Ergha!

Someone else posted this a while ago.

Self induced abortion is worse than a regular abortion, if it is incomplete it can lead to all sorts of problems including death.

Take the sensible route, take responsibilities for your actions. See a doctor, I think counselling is in order for both of you.

The correct term for a miscarriage is "spontaneous abortion" -- inducing a miscarriage is exactly the same as having an abortion. So what you are asking is simply how to have an abortion without actually going to a clinic. The usual methods are the same as what women had to do without legal abortion -- coathangers, falling downstairs, injecting poisons inside, etc. So not a good idea. If you don't want to continue with the pregnancy, be grateful that legal abortions are available.

How sad

Please never have kids both of you are sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I can't believe you would even consider something that terrible..You dont deserve kids or the right to even be able to have kids..You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions...When you have unprotected sex it comes with the consequences of becoming pregnant..You are such a loser...Geez

Thank god no one is actually posting any suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!


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you know what im not going to even waste my time to tell you what I think of you and what you just asked all im going to say is may god be with your child.

Wow, wow, wow, wow!

This is an old post, but damn! How can someone actually ask that???? I would never for the life of me consider a medical abortion or a self induced.

My grandfather's mom killed herself doing a self inflicted abortion. She used a coat hanger and killed her and the baby. She had done this because she was being accused of sleeping with someone other than her husband. No one believed she was carrying his child. So she decided to end it, probably not thinking she would kill herself in the process. My grandfather was 5 at the time..I can't imagine. :shaking head:

i agree w/ jess. Chlorine in your gene pool, please!

Oh my gosh..What a terrible story!! How sad that is...

It is sad. I never knew about that until I was about 10. I have never been for an abortion. I am not even for adoption (for myself) but I do see adoption a better choice than ending a baby's life who didnt scream from the uterus or the penis saying 'have me, have me'. I can't stand anyone who says they changed their minds on a baby and want to end it. Please please please for the love of your body and baby, just deliver and hand him/her over to someone who will take better care of her/him!

No kidding! Im not for abortion either....At all. I think its selfish. I know there are certian circumstances, such as rape, but still, I would have the baby and if I couldnt bear to look at the poor child due to the situation, I would give it up for adoption.

I have to say in the circumstances of rape you may well think different.
I did. I was at a critical stage in my life trying to persue a career and I was raped after my drink was spiked with a drug.
I could not carry that child, many other women the world over think the same.
For me in hindsight - well I would physically have been incapable of carrying it anyway, and I don't think then I could have dealt with what I have been through now either. 7 years ago I was not who I am today.

Yes, every woman has their own opinion on this topic.

oh my god kia, can you imagine going through what you went through now back then trying to carry a baby because you were raped., that would have made it soooo much harder to deal with.. I think you made the right choice, I wouldn;t be able to carry that baby either... Sorry... And what about someone who is raped by a family member? Who could carry that baby?

They are young and scared. Probably too scared to inquire about abortion, in case parents may find out. It still doesn't make it right.