Lauren-
you can call yourself a "great person" all you want. Words are just plain words, its what your actions tell us. The way you have treated chanda is not right hun sorry. I don't think you are a great person, because great people dont do that to anyone! I don't know you...I dont know anything about you except what you have done to chanda. So, from what I do know...There is nothing great. Maybe you should tell us what makes you a "great person"...Because I would love to hear it all. You honestly could be, but the thing is you have to show it.

-kristin nicole

I agree with kristin, if u hurt chanda u hurt a little piece of all of us chanda is a wonderful woman and anyone who hurts her deserves to get their @$$ kicked like kristin said if u want us to think u are a "great person" tell us some great things u have done!!

How the hell was that a really great choice?!?! What kind of warped world do you live in?? I still think youre scum!! =) have a nice day!

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gaby

Excuse me lil miss health forum, but you are scum. If you thought you made such a great choice, then why did you hide it? You are no friend to anyone, just the trash. But you know what, that's ok. You deserve josh. Sorry if this offends chanda, but I think he is a low-down scummy-ass loser also. And chanda deserves so much better than the both of you. Now I don't know what made you feel like you had to some here, I guess you felt like you needed to prove yourself or make a point. But you didn't. Everyone here supports chanda and I think you are a prostitute. :d

Look people...I don't think you people have a right to insult me or call me a prostitute...Because really..I'm not....And I didn't do what I did to hurt chanda...Ok!...I did what I did for myself...Because if I wouldn't have it would have driven me crazy...And i'm sorry but I don't think an 18 year old person should have to deal with that...And the reason that I hid it from her...Is because I didn't want to hurt her..And didn't want to start any kind of mess....But then I saw how much it bothered her that she didn't really have a reason for the situation that we were in...So I finally fessed up to what I did....You people act like you have never lied...And it's not really that big of a deal...I told chanda from the begininning that I didn't know what I would do when this situation came about...So I did what I did....Plain and simple...Yea I hurt chanda...But it's not like I did it intentionally....And she's not the only person hurt in this...Ok i've been hurt all my life...And i've dealt with it without everyone insulting the person that I was hurt by...So look as I said before..You people do not know me...So ya'll can all just like keep your comments to yourself....

Ok. You contradicted yourself in your post. You said you didn't do it to hurt chanda, but you knew it would. You say that you didn't intentionally hurt her, so what would you call it? Knowingly, but not intentionally? If you have been hurt so many times, why in the hell would you want to hurt someone else? And yes, I have lied. But I don't anymore. I am straight up and 100% real because no one deserves to be lied to. Not anyone. You did this for you huh? Then that makes you selfish. Everyone knows, you do not date/sleep with or whatever, with a friends, especially a best friends, ex without consulting them. Common courtesy. But I guess you have none.

Ugh god pathetic, I almost gave a crap!.. "not"

How in the world can u come onto this forum knowing that no one liked u n.O.O.N.E and tell us to basically shut up. News flash chanda is our friend. And nothing u say will change the fact that we will fight u to the end on behalf of her. U say u didnt hurt her no purpose but u obvoiulsy didnt care much about her if u would do something that u knew would hurt her! U need to leave this forum or shut up and deal with us telling u that ur stupid!

Unless lauren calls me I don't talk to her. She's hurt me a lot and i'm through with it. I've closed that chapter in my life. I told her.... If she wants josh..... She can have him. I sure as hell don't!

Thats probably a good idea chanda !! Lol what is ur favorite color chanda?

I sent you a pm girly! Pink/blue/green

you hid it from her so you wouldnt hurt her..?? What about not hurting her when you were doing it josh you doing it prostitute! Thats what you are, a prostitute. Because guys obviously (who you werent even dating!!!) are placed much hugher priority then your friends! Youre age doesnt matter, the only way it could relate to this is that.. Yes youre 18, so you should have a developed conscience and known the difference between right and wrong. Ass

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gaby

if that is so..... Then why are we where we are today?????

good point. What a silly silly girl. I feel bad for her

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gaby

yep, and we're going to continue to do so, so start appreciating it or leave.

Wow you are a really great person aren't you lauren....Its always the insecure little girls that are always calling themselves great!! But as you notice...No one else is calling her great, thats the difference between actual great people. You have to understand this...I dont know if you are a prostitute, or what you have gone through, but by putting your so called friends through hurt..That doesnt make me to fond of you. Yes people do make mistakes, which I know can be forgiven, lord knows how many mistakes I have made...The thing is..If I was chanda, I wouldnt consider you my friend at all...From what I know lauren, you arent a great person, you dont even seem like a great person..But you could be...If you want to take the steps to change yourself. You will be okay...Chanda will be okay..This is between you and chanda as to what you want to do..Is between the two of you. The only thing that us girls at the forum can do is voice our opinions and sometimes chanda you will just have to hear us out..And then look in to your heart to see what you want! Good luck to the both of you...And I hope you two can either be friends or not be friends but leave it off on a good note. So, I guess I will leave it at that. This whole situation upsets me, but I dont really like bringing people down, just stating the truth...And yes there is a difference.

I agree wit everyone on here.... U dont deserve chandas friendship. U are cruel and disgusting and should not even be labeled a friend. What u did to chanda was just plain out wrong. I hope u feel bad for this for the rest fo ur life and regret ever hurtin such a wonderful person.

Shauna

Hey..Once again...I don't need to consult with anyone about sleeping with my ex-boyfriend..Thank you very much....And i'm not a prostitute...I don't sleep with everyone...It was someone that I love very much...Well did...You know something you people don't know me...Yea what I did may have someone...But I gained something from this experience...

Oh and chanda..Thanks...You know something...You said you've closed that chapter...Well I say..It's about time....Because I closed it a long time ago...

Does that make all of you people happy??...Probably not...Poor oh poor little people...Insulting someone you don't even know...Bet that makes you happy...

Obviously, you didn't close that chapter because you came on here today and opened that shitt right back up!!