Please someone please

I think you're probably just fine. If you didn't have sex for very long and he didn't go ahead and ejaculate, then the chances of sperm penetrating is very slim. Your period is probably messed up because you've been stressing out over getting pregnant. Don't worry about it, i'm 99.9% sure that you're not pregnant. If you feel this worried, then go to planned parenthood and get on birth control. This way you'll be adequately prepared the next time you want to have sex with your boyfriend. Don't be scared, you're ok.

But I am only 14 years old, i'm soooo scared my mom would literally kill me. There is nothing I regret more than letting him penetrate he pushed a few times but thats it, I am going crazy and my stomach seems to be hurting more than usual, but I kinda thinks its just a stomach virus cause I seem to have fever too.

Yes, you are definately being paranoid. Every girl goes through this the first time she has sex. It's because our parents have threatened us with pregnancy if we have sex. I went through this very thing when I lost my virginity. It also caused my period to be late and that really scared me. But I was fine and I didn't get pregnant until I wanted to.

I will not preach to you about having sex, but I will say this: don't do it if you're not ready. If you'll feel this scared every time, then it's not worth it. Also, you want to think about what you'd do if you did get pregnant. If you don't feel like that's something you could do, then not having sex is definately the safest birth control. So, if you do plan on remaining sexually active, go ahead and get some birth control. I promise, you're fine. If he was wearing a condom and only put it in you for a little while, the precum couldn't have even hurt you.

Feel free to discuss any more concerns

don't worry, ok?

First of all, let me commend you both for at least having the sense to use a condom--that was a very smart move!

There is no way of knowing right now if this just happend. You would have to wait until the time you think your period is due. When that time comes around, take a test if you are unsure.

The fact that you are not feeling well could be stress related. I won't say don't think about it, but know that by at least using a condom, you did lessen your chances (not by 100%).

Please keep us updated and take care *hug*

missbuttons (who really is a mrs.)

Thanks u guys, I will never have sex again until i'm married, I feel alot better, but just to be safe how would I go about getting a pregnancy test w/o my mom knowing???

Well, you would first of all need to wait and see if you miss a period. If you do miss one, go to planned parenthood. Look in the phone book to see where the closest one is. They'll give you one for 7-10 dollars.

If you don't miss a period, then you're fine.

Good luck

Yea but I miss periods regularly b/c my cycle is irregular, so if I miss one it may or may not mean anything

I know that you're worried, but I promise you're fine. If he put it in and took it out and was wearing a condom and didn't ejaculate, then precum couldn't have even gotten in. You will have to atleast wait a month from the time this happened before you can find out. But like I said, i'm 99.9% sure you're not.

Its been more than a month and i've already gotten my period once already for last month, when that happened with him it was august 9th and I got my period somewhere in mid september or earlyish september, but I heard that it may not have been my actual period it may have just been vaginal bleeding, thats why i'm worried.

Was it a regular period? The reason people say that is because some people will be pregnant and have a light period, meaning two days of spotting. If you had a regular period, then there is absolutely no need to worry.

Yea my period was regular and really heavy, hey r u a doctor?

Sometimes when a woman gets pregnant there is a spotting period on implantation day. This will happen after you ovulate and aftert he egg gets fertilized. If you had a heavy period or normal period you probably are not pregnant. If you miss your next period you will probably need to go to the doctor. But try not to stress because that can alter when you start too. Hang in there.

I am not a doctor but my hubby and I are trying to get pregnant adn this is something that we have learned by going to our Dr.

Good luck

I pray and hope that i'm not pregnany b/c i'm wayyyyyyy to young to have a baby and my mom would literally homicide me. Thanks for all the help u guys

Hey I need more help please, i've been havin stomach problems for the past few days, and it hasn't been pain but my stomach has been like bubbling and ppl are saying its gas, but I just read that your could have stomach problems from your uterus opening, help me please

You need to calm down!! It sounds like you are making yourself sick with worry, and that doesn't help. More than likely, you are not pregnant. Try to relax and remain calm.

The pain you are experiencing 'sounds' like gas, especially with the bubbling you have been feeling.

Please do yourself a favor--try not to read or research anything for the time being. It doesn't help things either, and will probably end up making you more sick with worry than what you are.

Well i'm scared and I wouldn't know how to tell my mom if I actually was pregnant, i'm like crying over here

I know you are scared-i went through a pregnancy scare a few months ago, and i'm 23 and married!

Many people have told you that your chances of pregnancy are slim to none. I don't know what else to say to convince you. But I do know that making yourself sick won't help things at all.

I wish you all the best hon-good luck!

Okay thanks I appreciate your helping me out, I will calm down