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HJD622

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(back Again) Bf Cant Ejaculate In Front of Me?
Posted: 10-05-04 20:19pm

Wow ive had a lot of issues with this guy but here we go again... Ok, he has had problems gettin his penis hard (hes a virign 21yrs old) b/c he was nervous and all he could think about was what was going to happen, not so much as the pleasure, so his penis lost hardness as we were about to have sex. He went to to Dr. Afraid it was pshysical so they gave him viagra. It didnt work for a while, it would get semi hard then lose it again, but now hes more comfortable, and he can get it hard enough to enter, and have intercourse for (so far) like 5 min, but its still semi hard, I feel a little sometimes. But usually I get on top, or he does but when we start, and try to switch positions, he looses all hardness... We go through this all freaking day hopeing he;ll become more comfortable. Ne ways, after all this hie penise hurts (blue balls I guess) so last night he wanted to 'releive' himself and tired to in front of me (with a porno on I might add) and couldnt, nor can oral sex, hand jobs, or the little sex we do have make him cum. Whats going on!?!? He can do it just fine all by himself!? Is he nervous in front of me, or is this still a physical prooblem? Why wont he just stop thinking about it and enjoy the moment!?!? We are very open with each other, we take showers together, oral sex, pornos, ect.. And like I said, we can have sex for a few min then he says he starts thinking about how it might not stay hard and looses it! He says sinces he a virgin, hes not used to this feeling and its taking him a while to get used to it, and he said it was the same when I first tried to get his penis hard with my hand and mouth, at first it couldnt happen, now hes used to it and that part is easy? Whats the deal!??! Evil or
Very Mad
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southcoach

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Joined: 13 May 2004
Posts: 65

Posted: 10-10-04 15:04pm

This is just a thought....I don't know what you guys have discussed regarding this, but it is understandable that he is nervous his first time. I do agree though he should be more comfortable now. Perhaps he is even more nervous becuase now it is almost like he is under extreme pressure (especially if you are not a virgin and he is--you have expectations he must meet and he has none). Now he probably freaks out because he knows that if he can't perform well right then, he will suffer yet another embarassment. If he is able to do it by himself then it might be related to this. I agree with you most definitely, but it sounds like this guy needs to relax and rather than worrying and telling himself over and over to 'stay hard' perhaps he should be thinking about the moment (as you said) and how special it is to be with you. Just try and put him under as little pressure as possible, and if you care about this guy let him know it is okay to go slower...At his own pace. Good luck!
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2ferano

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Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717

Posted: 10-10-04 23:08pm

He doesn't need viagra. He just needs to relax and calm down.
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