Wow ive had a lot of issues with this guy but here we go again... Ok, he has had problems gettin his penis hard (hes a virign 21yrs old) b/c he was nervous and all he could think about was what was going to happen, not so much as the pleasure, so his penis lost hardness as we were about to have sex. He went to to Dr. Afraid it was pshysical so they gave him viagra. It didnt work for a while, it would get semi hard then lose it again, but now hes more comfortable, and he can get it hard enough to enter, and have intercourse for (so far) like 5 min, but its still semi hard, I feel a little sometimes. But usually I get on top, or he does but when we start, and try to switch positions, he looses all hardness... We go through this all freaking day hopeing he;ll become more comfortable. Ne ways, after all this hie penise hurts (blue balls I guess) so last night he wanted to 'releive' himself and tired to in front of me (with a porno on I might add) and couldnt, nor can oral sex, hand jobs, or the little sex we do have make him cum. Whats going on!?!? He can do it just fine all by himself!? Is he nervous in front of me, or is this still a physical prooblem? Why wont he just stop thinking about it and enjoy the moment!?!? We are very open with each other, we take showers together, oral sex, pornos, ect.. And like I said, we can have sex for a few min then he says he starts thinking about how it might not stay hard and looses it! He says sinces he a virgin, hes not used to this feeling and its taking him a while to get used to it, and he said it was the same when I first tried to get his penis hard with my hand and mouth, at first it couldnt happen, now hes used to it and that part is easy? Whats the deal!??!