Joined: 03 Oct 2004 Posts: 5 Location: Lakewood, OH
Problems Getting Aroused While Using Viagra Etc. Posted: 10-03-04 21:42pm
I'm in my 60's and have been married for
over 35 years. In the early years of our
marraige I was always hard whenever I
wanted and my wife never had to do
anything to get me aroused. As a result
she has never practiced foreplay with me
to get me up and ready to go. We have
used foreplay in the our sex play and I am
generally trying to get her to the point
where she can have an orgasm.
When you use one of the medications to get
an erection there needs to be some
stimulation in order to make it work.
Unfortunately she is unable to
satisfactorily stimulate me enough to get
me hard. Even performing oral sex on me
does not do it. Part of this is because
she doesn't like to do it and is afraid I
will ejaculate in her mouth.
The whole thing is very frustrating and I
don't know what to do.