Hey everyone...Well I need some help real bad...Ok ive been with my boyfriend since july and just this month we started having sex...We had unprotected sex one time and now im pregnant!!! But the thing is im only 16!!! How im I supposed 2 tell my mom? He has already told his mom and she wasnt mad. Then she talked 2 me about it and said its ok cuz she had my boyfriend when she was only 14...Im sooooo scared right now....Now I wish I never had sex with him...Im just so scared and confused. Could somebody please help me???
Hey hun its ok to be scared, but you are preggy and you cant go baack. You have to tell your parents. You can ask your boyfriend or a trusted friend to be tehre if it helps. Good luck! Were here for you!
Honey, it's definatly ok to be scared but you need to talk to your mom. Yes, she's might be upset at first but she'll get over it. You can't do much now that you're pregnant except take care of you and your baby. Good luck!!
Hun its totally nomal to be scared..I have been at this forum since I was 5 and a half weeks and ive already had my baby girl. I am only 16. I thought my mom was going to kill me believe me I was so scared!! Let me tell you..But she didnt take it as bad as I thought..They usually say ill kill you youll be kicked out blah blah blah if you get pregnant but when there faecd with it its alot diff. Yes my mom was dissapointed but eventually she grew to be more excited then me. And of course your nervous but the day you see your little angel it will all be worth it trust me!
Depending upon how you feel and only you do what you need to do. You have many questions you need to answer right now one do you want it, if yes there are many questions that go after that how are you going to take care of it how will your boyfriend help will your parents, they are not obligated to by the way, many many other questions and concerns too. But if you do not want it then your questions are what is the alternative such as abortion or adoption its up to you, do not do anything just because someone else wants you to if you want this baby you can keep it, it will be hard but thats places and people that can help. But if you don't want this baby do not let anyone make you keep it just cuz they tell you to. Girl you may not want to hear this but you are only 16 so this boyfriend of yours will probably not turn into your husband and having a baby by someone is not going to keep him locked down if its meant to be it will be, but if not he will move on and you can not stop him.... All I can say is you really need to think
take a couple deep breathes and relax. I know you wish you didn't have sex, ive been there and done that...But its going to be okay. My parents were so dang strict, but as soon as I told them about it..Well actually my mom found the ultrasound, but she found out nonetheless. They didn't want me to have an abortion or an adoption. It will be okay really.. And once you tell everyone we will be there for you. The sooner you tell someone the sooner you can get help for that little one that is growing inside of you. And I get stress that enough...How important it is to get medical attention to that baby. Hope things go well for you!!
You need to go to the doc thats for sure if you want anyone to talk to about anything i'm here!
i'm only 18 and 14 weeks pregnant
when my parents found out they were furious it took my mom like 2 months to start treating me normal agian but its gets better we get along perfectly now. Just makes sure (if your keeping the baby) that she knows you know how hard this is and htat her hating you isnt going to make you any less scared or aware shes going to tell you you have no idea about anything but no one can predict the future. You need her by your side and hpefully she'll realize that....
First off I gotta say thank you 4 bein there and acually showin me support!!! Second off...I still havent told my mom but I told my dad that lives in puerto rico and he was so upset!!!! He yelled at me!!!! Then I told him who my baby was by..And he flipped out cuz he dont like black people!!!! He said I should get an abortion cuz my baby is gonna be mixed but the thing is im mixed 2...Im white n puerto rican...I wanna tell my mom more than ever right now...But I need a good time when its right to tell her!!! But thanks 4 ur help and support!!!!