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Q: Returning to Work After Miscarriage
asked by: sobeautiful on September 30th, 2004
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I have a friend who found out a few weeks ago she was pregnant and at 12 weeks along she miscarried. How much time should she stay off work before returning? I am concerned for her health if she pushes herself too soon afterwards. And she won't give me a straight answer that the doctor told her.
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Kia
replied on September 30th, 2004
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I would possibly say that getting back to work would be better than moping round the house all day.
Everyone has their own way of grieving and the harsh fact is that life does go on after miscarriage.
So long as she isn't bleeding profusely, and she wants to go back and her job isn't strenuous, hopefully her supervisor/manager has been informed, so that if she wants to go cry, or jsut feels crappy, they can be sensitive to her needs, and most importantly she wants to go back, I think its great and say she should.
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Norskejenta
replied on November 2nd, 2009
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Be sensitive to mothers of miscarriage
I lost my son at 20 weeks two weeks ago. I stayed home for a week and than thought I could handle work. I returned on a monday and made it half way through tuesday's work day before I threw in the towel.
The fact that you state harsh facts causes me to think that you have never had a miscarriage or that you didn't really greive for yours. It is important to let yourself feel...and when you feel up to returning to work, then do it. But don't try to push yourself to perform. It only prolongs the grieving process.
Losing a yet unborn child is no different from losing one whom you birthed living.
It is no less real a loss of a child.
Be sensitive.
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