Hey guys,
I'm 22, male, and I've had this terrible phobia for at least 10 years. Unlike other people here, my phobia was triggered by a lone event which happened in Grade 7. Leading up to Grade 7 I was a very confident kid who always participated in class, social settings, etc. The awful day came when I was severely embarrassed by my teacher. This was the first time I ever experienced a rush of blood to my face, neck and upper chest. A few weeks after that incident, I had to do a presentation where, of course, my redness was triggerred because I was in the same setting as when it happened the first time. This time, half-way thru my presentation, my teacher stopped me and called me over to her desk. Of course, at this point every kid in the room is wondering why my face is blotchy red and is starring. Anyways, my teacher then proceeds to pull out a mirror from her purse and forces me to look into it. This was turning point for me. If you think this was not bad enough, she then had to throw in a few wise cracks like "What are you going to do on your wedding day?!" Can you beleive this? I'm in grade 7 and my teacher is cracking jokes about me while the whole class watches in awe. Anyways, she then told me to leave and a get some water and return when my face isn't red.
From that point until now I have not been the same. My erythrophobia has progressively got worse over the years, and I am now starting to get professional help. My face gets very red whenever I know that it will go red. This is completely a psychological demon and has nothing to do with skin conditions (at least in my case).
From my experience, the worst thing that you can do if you have erythrophobia, is avoid situations where you think it might happen. You MUST not shy away from anything or anyone. You almost need to get mad and and psych yourself up and convince yourself that the people that you are talking to are "nobodies" and that they truly don't give a damn who you are or what you have to say. This phobia truly is a fear of being judged by others and therefore you must convince yourself that these people don't care how you may look.
I really want to speak to people who have this phobia. Afterall, speaking about it is really therapeutic.
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