Lol.. I understand how you feel.. You kind of want them to miss you when you are gone and be obsessive but at the same time you dont' want to be smothered.. It's understandable.. I think I am the same way... This would be the convo
me "i'm going out to the strip club, you alright with that?"
him "sure have fun"
me "so you don't care? Do you want to get rid of me?"
him "no, I just know that you are not cheating on me and you will come home to me"

me "well fine.. I guess you don't love me that much then"
him "well fine, I don't want you to go"
me "so you're trying to control me now?"

does that about sum it up? No offense meant..

I am extremlyl jealous when it comes to my relationship.. I'm the "come too close and i'll bite your head off health forum" kind the one's that go up and fondle the guys nuts or something when they see a broad coming too close

Lol I am the exact same way I thinks its normal if its not o well lol

Ok well now I dont feel too bad lol

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gaby

I was the exact way with josh! I always wanted to feel his jealousy!

I think it's okay to have jealousy as your security blanket. He realizes you're a female and females don't know what the hell they want, and that's probably why he loves you.

I feel bad tho, because I get really mad at him either way. But ill try to stop =x lol

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gaby

If someone loves you...You expect them to get jealous because they want to spend all their time with you...But as that love grows...The relationship gets more secure.