swollen and very soar breasts and my nipples seem bigger Posted: 10-05-03 12:40pm
*sigh* ok... About 2 weeks or so ago I
noticed my breast got a bit swollen and
soar, like normal, this usually happens 2
weeks before I get my period. Usually
lasts for one week, then a week later I
get my period. But since two weeks ago
i've been getting these strange little
cramps off and on. My last period was on
sept. 4th. I should have gotten my
period by now. My breast are still
swollen and very soar and my nipples seem
bigger too. I'm not sure what it could
be, my period is never late, I usually get
it 1 or 2 days early if not on time. I'm
thinking about getting a home pregnancy
test but I dont know if it's too soon for
it to work or what kind to buy. Please
someone give me some kind of advice to
help me understand what is going on and
what I should do.
Thanx
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-05-03 14:02pm
Hey lilly,
i'm maria, it sounds like you are
pregnant. Does are the same symptom I got
with my son....I think you can take a hpt
now and it be accurate....The kind you buy
is up to you.....For my first pregnancy I
used ept....And this one I useed a cheap
store brand......They both were right I
wish you the best of luck.....Keep me
posted....
Passion
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Lilly00
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2003 Posts: 30
Posted: 10-05-03 14:18pm
I just got back from the pharmacy, I ended
up buying answer, it says u can use it 3
days before you expect your period, it's 5
days after for me. I'm gonna see how it
comes out... I will keep you posted.
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-05-03 14:23pm
Good luck.....Keep my fingers crossed for
you
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Farah
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-05-03 14:38pm
When I was pregnant with my son, I kept
getting cramps like I was going to start
my period. They even hurt kind of bad. I
took a test when I was a couple of days
late and it said negative. So, I waited
another week and went to planned
parenthood. Their tests are a lot more
sensitive so they can be more reliable.
Some hpt's will come up positive in very
early pregnancy, it really just depends on
the women taking it. If yours comes up
negative, I would go to planned parenthood
tomorrow and see what they say.
Please let us know what your home test
says. Good luck
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Avatani
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2003 Posts: 23 Location: San Diego Area
Posted: 10-05-03 15:10pm
You're not that late yet.. I would wait a
week and take a test. Or go to your
doctor and get a blood test if you
need/want to know sooner.
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Lilly00
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2003 Posts: 30
Posted: 10-08-03 00:07am
Well I took the test and it came out
positive. I'm not ready for a child at
the moment. Me and my bf have been
talking about it and we decided that the
best thing is an abortion. First I am
making an appt with the doctor for a
pregnancy test then talk to her about
doing an abortion. This is really hard
for us, but we are definetely not ready
for a child. I'm very scared of how I
will be affected physically and mentally.
It's very stressful, all I do is think
about it all day long every day. I just
hope to get through this.
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Farah
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-08-03 01:38am
I won't try to talk you out of your
decision, but give it atleast a week. You
don't want to do something that you will
end up regretting. This is a very tough
choice, so you want to make sure it's the
right one. Just remember that this is
something that two of you created. You
don't want to decide too quickly to give
that up.
Good luck
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smo1980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2003 Posts: 15 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-08-03 10:33am
All right, I am going to let you know from
expereince! I had an abortion
done last september becuse me and my
boyfrieng had jsut gotten together and
ended up getting pregnant, it was one of
the hardest things I have ever had to do
since I swore I would never have one! I
is always in the back of your mind, and
when ever the topic or pregnancy comes up
I get so sick feeling and jsut want to
cry. I never told anyboby, just my
boyfrien of course. I htink I might have
second chance to make it up to myself
though, I am like aweek late with sore
boobs, back, sharp pains in the belly, and
right nauseieated all the time! But hsi
time if it is so I will definilty be going
through with it, I could not go through an
abortion again! I am not saying not to
go through with abortion because if is bad
time or whatever, (which it was for me
last year) then you have to do what you
think is best for, and the child that you
bring into this world, depending on your
decision. Let me know how it goes!
Smo
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Don't Have An Abortion... Posted: 10-08-03 11:00am
I am really mad at girls that come in here
upset and worried find out they're preg
and think that a baby can be thrown away
like trash. You disgust me. I'm not
mean normally but abortion just makes me
sick. Have you ever watched the miracle
of birth...Even if you are only 5 wks
along that baby has a heartbeat and
everything. There are women that come in
this website...Wishing to god that they
could get preg and try constently. You
were adult enough to lay down, now be
adult enough to go along with the preg.
If you're not willing or ready to take
care of a child, give it to a loving
family that wants a child (but i'm not
really for adoption either) you've made
your bed, now lay in it.
I got preg at 16, my family constently
said the word (abortion) and it killed me
inside.
God gave you this baby for a reason (and
it wasn't for you to kill it).
I hope you make the right choice.
Jennifer
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Mommy4ever
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2003 Posts: 26 Location: Utah, USA
Friendly Advice Posted: 10-10-03 21:30pm
I had a friend when I was younger and she
had gotten an abortion because she was
young and not ready, and not long after
she went into a deep depression (guilt)
and tried to commit suicide several times.
Also, I have heard almost all women with
compassion hate themselves afterwards for
the decision that was made. My best
friend at work has been trying to concieve
for two and a half years and she may have
to adopt, there are lots of loving
families that would love to take in and
give your baby a loving home...Most of
these families have the financial means to
give your child the best life possible.
Pregnancy only lasts 9 months and you are
already on your way. Take care and good
luck!
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Cin
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Waterloo, In
Think Hard About Your Decision Posted: 10-11-03 16:16pm
I have to agree with jennifer. I have
been trying for a year and a half to get
pregnant and i'm sorry, but I can't stand
to here that there are so many women out
there that are so willing just to "get rid
of it" because it doesn't fit into their
life style right now. I have never had an
abortion and I never got pregnant very
young either, but you have to realize that
that "it" is a breathing human-being and
you are destroying an important part of
you and of your boyfriend. If your not
ready for a child right now, please by all
means, give it to someone in a loving home
who may not be able to become pregnant,
but can love it unconditionally.
Please think about the baby and what you
could be destroying. If you need to turn
to someone, turn to god. He will help
you. God bless you and your baby. Good
luck.
Cin
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carvytaph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Posts: 87 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 10-11-03 22:34pm
Well said girls!!! I also get disgusted
by girls and women alike who think it's
proper to "disgard" of what god has given
you. Whether you be young or old, rich
or poor, there is a reason god gave you
this child. Let me guarantee you it's
not to abort it. You can get through a
pregnancy. Trust me!! Listen to all
the girls on here that have had one and
have advice for you. Hear them out!!
Think about what you are distroying and
the consequences of the abortion.