Those of you who are judging this woman should be ashamed of yourselves! Women have a hard enough time getting disrespected by men throughout their lives we shouldn't be doing it to each other, especially solely on the grounds of supporting your own agenda. I'm sorry for those of you who are having difficulties getting pregnant. That is a great struggle that takes an incredible amount of strength and patience, regardless of the outcome. However! So does making the very "adult" decision of having an abortion. The idiom "make your bed now lie in it" is more apt to be used when a person has committed a terrible act and as a result, they should suffer because of that act. Do you really believe that is what pregnancy is, unplanned or planned? I will answer for you and say, no it is not. Can anybody here honestly say that you have only had sex to procreate? It is a complicated act that both embraces and defies nature at times. Coming from a person who can not take oral birth control pills, there sometimes is not a foolproof way to protect yourself against unplanned pregnancy. Add in the fact that our instincts want us to get pregnant whether we realize it or not!
To the girl possibly getting the abortion, yes, take your time and make the decision that is right for you and only you! If you do that much, the aftermath will be just fine. Remember that anybody who tells you otherwise, they are only speaking from their own personal, and narrow beliefs that have absolutely nothing to do with your life. good luck.