swollen and very soar breasts and my nipples seem bigger

Hey lilly,
i'm maria, it sounds like you are pregnant. Does are the same symptom I got with my son....I think you can take a hpt now and it be accurate....The kind you buy is up to you.....For my first pregnancy I used ept....And this one I useed a cheap store brand......They both were right I wish you the best of luck.....Keep me posted....
Passion

I just got back from the pharmacy, I ended up buying answer, it says u can use it 3 days before you expect your period, it's 5 days after for me. I'm gonna see how it comes out... I will keep you posted.

Good luck.....Keep my fingers crossed for you

When I was pregnant with my son, I kept getting cramps like I was going to start my period. They even hurt kind of bad. I took a test when I was a couple of days late and it said negative. So, I waited another week and went to planned parenthood. Their tests are a lot more sensitive so they can be more reliable.

Some hpt's will come up positive in very early pregnancy, it really just depends on the women taking it. If yours comes up negative, I would go to planned parenthood tomorrow and see what they say.

Please let us know what your home test says. Good luck

You're not that late yet.. I would wait a week and take a test. Or go to your doctor and get a blood test if you need/want to know sooner.

Well I took the test and it came out positive. I'm not ready for a child at the moment. Me and my bf have been talking about it and we decided that the best thing is an abortion. First I am making an appt with the doctor for a pregnancy test then talk to her about doing an abortion. This is really hard for us, but we are definetely not ready for a child. I'm very scared of how I will be affected physically and mentally. It's very stressful, all I do is think about it all day long every day. I just hope to get through this.

I won't try to talk you out of your decision, but give it atleast a week. You don't want to do something that you will end up regretting. This is a very tough choice, so you want to make sure it's the right one. Just remember that this is something that two of you created. You don't want to decide too quickly to give that up.

Good luck

All right, I am going to let you know from expereince! I had an abortion
done last september becuse me and my boyfrieng had jsut gotten together and ended up getting pregnant, it was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do since I swore I would never have one! I is always in the back of your mind, and when ever the topic or pregnancy comes up I get so sick feeling and jsut want to cry. I never told anyboby, just my boyfrien of course. I htink I might have second chance to make it up to myself though, I am like aweek late with sore boobs, back, sharp pains in the belly, and right nauseieated all the time! But hsi time if it is so I will definilty be going through with it, I could not go through an abortion again! I am not saying not to go through with abortion because if is bad time or whatever, (which it was for me last year) then you have to do what you think is best for, and the child that you bring into this world, depending on your decision. Let me know how it goes!

Smo

I am really mad at girls that come in here upset and worried find out they're preg and think that a baby can be thrown away like trash. You disgust me. I'm not mean normally but abortion just makes me sick. Have you ever watched the miracle of birth...Even if you are only 5 wks along that baby has a heartbeat and everything. There are women that come in this website...Wishing to god that they could get preg and try constently. You were adult enough to lay down, now be adult enough to go along with the preg. If you're not willing or ready to take care of a child, give it to a loving family that wants a child (but i'm not really for adoption either) you've made your bed, now lay in it.

I got preg at 16, my family constently said the word (abortion) and it killed me inside.

God gave you this baby for a reason (and it wasn't for you to kill it).

I hope you make the right choice.

Jennifer

I had a friend when I was younger and she had gotten an abortion because she was young and not ready, and not long after she went into a deep depression (guilt) and tried to commit suicide several times. Also, I have heard almost all women with compassion hate themselves afterwards for the decision that was made. My best friend at work has been trying to concieve for two and a half years and she may have to adopt, there are lots of loving families that would love to take in and give your baby a loving home...Most of these families have the financial means to give your child the best life possible. Pregnancy only lasts 9 months and you are already on your way. Take care and good luck!

I have to agree with jennifer. I have been trying for a year and a half to get pregnant and i'm sorry, but I can't stand to here that there are so many women out there that are so willing just to "get rid of it" because it doesn't fit into their life style right now. I have never had an abortion and I never got pregnant very young either, but you have to realize that that "it" is a breathing human-being and you are destroying an important part of you and of your boyfriend. If your not ready for a child right now, please by all means, give it to someone in a loving home who may not be able to become pregnant, but can love it unconditionally.
Please think about the baby and what you could be destroying. If you need to turn to someone, turn to god. He will help you. God bless you and your baby. Good luck.
Cin

Well said girls!!! I also get disgusted by girls and women alike who think it's proper to "disgard" of what god has given you. Whether you be young or old, rich or poor, there is a reason god gave you this child. Let me guarantee you it's not to abort it. You can get through a pregnancy. Trust me!! Listen to all the girls on here that have had one and have advice for you. Hear them out!! Think about what you are distroying and the consequences of the abortion.

Best wishes!!

Carvytaph