I don't know if he is like me, but I am
very comfortable talking women but it is
always difficult for me to treat a woman
like I want more than friendship. I know
in my case it is because I like friends,
and I don't want to scare anyone away.
I've never asked anyone out successfully.
I've only been on one date and that was
because one of my co-workers set me up
with her daughter. She was boring, it
wasn't my fault we didn't have anything in
common
I think the reason
I havn't been successful is because I act
like I do around everyone then one day I
just ask if they would like to hang out or
whatever. I think it scares them and
before they can think they blurt out . .
. "i'm busy" so now I know I have to
kind of ease into it, by slowly testing
how far I can go and sort of push it a
little further each time until it is to a
point where we might as well be together.
I don't know if you understand what i'm
saying, but it may be this guy that likes
you doesn't want to push it to fast
beacuse unlike me has already learned that
it just scares away the women :-d I hope
this helps. Perhaps you could move in a
little to work the process along a little
faster.
