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Q: What I Said
asked by: KissyBai912 on September 26th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Hey guys dewitt didnt call yesterday when josh turned 6 months old. So I got pissed off and sent him these messages.


Sneakyfreakygrl (10:56:01 am): you know, I think it just might be possible that you are the biggest problem to ever walk the face of this planet. I wonder if you even think about your son anymore??? Did you even notice that he turned 6 months old yesterday? 6 months brandon, thats half a year. Half a year that you haven't been there for your son. But I would nag you about that now. I know that you don't like me, and that's fine. I'm not sure I would have it any other way. But why do you insist on making him suffer??? Would it honestly kill you, to suck up your pride, and call once in a while to have a civil conversation about how joshua is doing? Would it? I don't think it would.
Sneakyfreakygrl (11:01:06 am): I don't know what, or who, you have been doing, nor do I want to. But I am tired of sitting here wondering what josh's life is going to be like with no father. Camerin has been hanging around lately. You know he treats josh like his own son? Yeah, after I cheated on him, he wants to be a man and treat josh the way you should be. I know you hate to hear it but i'm sorry. Anyways, the point of this is that you need to step up and be a man. I am not even asking you for child support, because we don't need it. But josh does need a father. And whether I like it or not, you are it. So you need to at least write, call, email, instant message, something once in a while to ask how he is doing.
Sneakyfreakygrl (11:06:13 am): I hate to picture his first birthday, everybody celebrating, and me just sitting there wondering if you know what day it is, or if you even care. Even if you hate me with every fiber of your being, your love for your son should be enough to overcome that for just a little while. Sorry for being such a health forum about this, but I could not believe that you did not call to ask about him yesterday. It really got to me. It's going to hurt him as he gets older. He will wonder why his daddy forgot his 5th birthday. Or his 13th. Or his 18th. I promised I wouldn't shut you out of his life, and i'm not. So why aren't you taking advantage of that? If you don't want to be his father then why don't you do me a favor, and sign over your rights ok?
Sneakyfreakygrl (11:07:20 am): because I am so tired of thinking about how much my baby will suffer the way I did, because his father didn't want him. I refuse to put him through what I went through. So you need to make a choice, either be his father or don't.

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bellax0x
replied on September 26th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Not at all hun! Im very glad you said it to him! I wouldve said the same thing! Good for you. Did he reply?

<3
gaby
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sweetsuzi
replied on September 26th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Nope it wasent a mistake I think you kept it together very well! If it was me I would have called him every name under the sun. Well done chrissy hopefully he will get a grip! Let us know what he says!!
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smith8500
replied on September 26th, 2004
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You made .N.O mistake! You are completely right in what you said! He needs to be a father to his son! You go girl! I'm proud of you chrissy.
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KissyBai912
replied on September 27th, 2004
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No he didnt reply. Im not sure if he even uses the computer anymore. I might just write it out in a letter and send it. It's more personal that way. But I refuse to call. His mom is a health forum and I dont feel like dealing with her today. I am home from schooltoday since the electricity going out messed up my clock and I forgot to reset it right.
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Mommy2Seany
replied on September 27th, 2004
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You did the write thing by telling him how you feel. But I do on the other hand feel that you did make one mistake. You cant force someone to want to be a father, you cant force someone to be there. caca, if everyone in the world could do that, we would have no issues at all. Sweetie, chances are in your situation he may not be there for awhile, but he will come back later and he will see everything that he missed out on and kick himself for it.I hope you understand where I am coming from. I wish I could have made my dad be there for me. But some people just dont have that "instant" love, regardless of the situation. He'll learn.

Stacie

hang in there!!
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