Hey there.Last saturday,my husband's sister was the victim of a drunk driver.She is is critical condition and in a coma with probable severe brain damage.(too soon to tell much yet)they live in l.A. And we live near chicago.We are going out next friday to help with the 2 kids.

So, here's the problem-when I told my brother-in-law we were coming,he said"yeah!!!We can all go to disneyland!!"i thouhjt that was a rather innappropriate response,but did not think much of it at the time.We have been on the phone and e-mail constantly all week and calvin said she was reponding and things were looking pretty good.We had all been praying for a miracle and we thought that we had one.However,a friend from chicago went out to california and called and said that was not so.There is no change in her condition and she has not responded at all since her admission and there have in fact been some setbacks.

I'm vey worried that he is losing it,not that I would be any different if I were in the same boat.But,he is responsible for the kids now.If he is not able to care for those kids we would certainly step in and take care of them,but they have already been through so much,we would not want to take them from their father and all their friends and the people that they know and love.I don't know if it will even come to this,but i'm really worried for the future.I guess I wanted to vent more than anything else.Thanks.Patty