Not a problem. I was out of line and my apologies to you
however, it has nothing to do with his being 'cut' or not. I personally prefer someone who is 'cut'.
I know what you mean about being 40 and never having this great a sex life before. I'm in my 40's too and found the best lover I ever had. His
"gift' wasn't stamina but his hands and his willingness to do anything to keep me fulfilled. I called him a perv once and he grinned from ear to ear and took it as a compliment.
Besides, I bet that man of yours is singing your praises too... We women hit our sexual peak about this time in our lives and the men get to take it all in. That's a real win./win.