Alright, the post is hidden until it is
removed, and I am considering reporting my
own post!
George, your second post was much better.
You *personally* don't like large labia
and that's okay!! You can have that
opinion. But don't speak for all men.
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georgeorwell
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geez Posted: 02-02-08 02:47am
Well now i can't remove anything because
the post is under "review" so sorry about
that. Tried my best with my alloted time.
Couple things...i'm not racist,
misogynistic or even sexist. Opinions are
just that, but some things actually are
FACTUAL, i don't mean to placate, but we
don't need to live in a fantasy world
here. Didn't want to go there but felt
deemed so. The simple fact that this
topic exists means that not one
person/opinion/idea is ultimatetly
correct. The topic is just that "the
topic", i don't understand why some
science tossed in with some opinion, mixed
with some reality is suddenly a ridiculous
sin. Perhaps we have gone too politically
correct, and you can't say anything
without considering EVERYONE'S personal
feelings. I now seem to understand that
this particular forum is spiraled around
telling female individuals that their
"problems"<- and they are problems,
that's why they're here, are perfectly
normal and should'nt even be of
concern...but if so many women are
searching into this subject, how is it
possible that they're all wrong about
their own views on appearances of certain
parts of their bodies? Being offensive
is/was the last of my goals. My
statements being "reviewed", were solely
aimed at reality and the fact that this IS
a concern of both women and men in today's
society. The severity is up to the
beholder, not me or anyone else.
Apparently we cannot think/say anything
without having a review.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-02-08 11:31am
Because "science" helped promote racism in
early america.
What needs to be done is ENCOURAGEMENT
that ALL BODY TYPES are beautiful and
NORMAL.
These women do NOT have "problems" - they
have a NORMAL BODY that looks exactly the
way it is supposed to look.
They are all CONFUSED because SOCIETY has
brainwashed them into thinking only ONE
BODY TYPE is beautiful, when that is in
fact a lie. "Beauty" is a SOCIAL
CONSTRUCT, not a physical one. Just
because porn says that tiny labia are
beautiful doesn't mean that tiny labia are
NORMAL OR the ideal.
So what IS the "ideal"? Take a look
downstairs. That's it. YOU ARE NORMAL. YOU
ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! You do not have a
PROBLEM!!!
I highly doubt being "offensive" was the
last of your goals when you've said "we're
being too politically correct". People
only say that when they want to be
insulting. Even I do.
Your first post was absolutely HORRIBLE.
It was disgusting, insulting,
misogynistic, racist, and sexist. If you
can't see that, then maybe you shouldn't
be posting to this topic.
This topic is for VIVACIOUS VULVA
SUPPORT!!!!! Beautiful, LARGE-LABIA LADIES
that are SUPER SEXY!!! Seriously. I have
wimpy, small inner labia and wish mine
were big and juicy!!
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-02-08 12:33pm
And now, what about position on the body?
Ialways thought they all sat pretty much
in the same place until I was having my
first child and the obsterician remarked
that my vagina was slightly further back
than usual (and my uterus is also tilted
backwards - which made labour a little
more difficult!) I had no idea what he
meant until years later, with a new
partner who had some experience, I had a
discussion about it. Apparently most
women's vaginas are towards the front,
whereas mine is further back ie much
deeper between my legs. It is also very
small. I haven't thought about this in
years!
What a revelation this topic is proving to
be! The internet at its best, I reckon!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-02-08 14:20pm
I think mine is pretty much in the middle,
though I've never had anyone comment on
it. The biggest comment I got was during
my first pap, she noted I had a septate
hymen. It was just a string of skin
dividing the entrance of my vagina in
half. Everyone is different! We're not
robots.
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fiona05
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Re: geez Posted: 02-03-08 20:58pm
georgeorwell
wrote:
Well now i can't remove
anything because the post is under
"review" so sorry about that. Tried my
best with my alloted time. Couple
things...i'm not racist, misogynistic or
even sexist. Opinions are just that, but
some things actually are FACTUAL, i don't
mean to placate, but we don't need to live
in a fantasy world here. Didn't want to
go there but felt deemed so. The simple
fact that this topic exists means that not
one person/opinion/idea is ultimatetly
correct. The topic is just that "the
topic", i don't understand why some
science tossed in with some opinion, mixed
with some reality is suddenly a ridiculous
sin. Perhaps we have gone too politically
correct, and you can't say anything
without considering EVERYONE'S personal
feelings. I now seem to understand that
this particular forum is spiraled around
telling female individuals that their
"problems"<- and they are problems,
that's why they're here, are perfectly
normal and should'nt even be of
concern...but if so many women are
searching into this subject, how is it
possible that they're all wrong about
their own views on appearances of certain
parts of their bodies? Being offensive
is/was the last of my goals. My
statements being "reviewed", were solely
aimed at reality and the fact that this IS
a concern of both women and men in today's
society. The severity is up to the
beholder, not me or anyone else.
Apparently we cannot think/say anything
without having a
review.
actually, this forum is widely considered
a SUPPORT AND ADVICE forum, not a debate
forum to throw your small minded views
around. calling someone hideous is not
ADVICE. if you want to take this
fascinating issue of yours any further
then take it to a debate forum. (
preferably don't even do that though) but
don't you dare bring it here. did you
actually take the time to read all the
posts in this thread? did you even begin
to comprehend how much of a sensitive
issue this is for some people? or how
people can and do live hating their bodies
and hating themselves because of it? or
more specifically because of people like
you? i don't think so. because if you did
you would not have said those OBSCENE,
offensive, and yes, RACIST things which
you said. did you actually join this forum
specially to say all that? really? i mean
really? you are not some kind of purveyor
of truth, everything you said was
nonsense. having big labia is not a
disability, nor are black people 'less
evolved' than caucasians.
aye mate, the real george orwell would be
so proud of you, too...
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Galaxy
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To fiona05 Posted: 02-03-08 21:07pm
Well said that man! (or rather, woman!)
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fiona05
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Re: To fiona05 Posted: 02-04-08 07:59am
shonster
wrote:
Well said that man! (or
rather, woman!)
just made me so angry because it's one
thing to slag someone off regarding
something like BEHAVIOUR or LIFESTYLE
CHOICES - ie - things that they CHOOSE.
But it's another thing to lay into a
person or a group of people about physical
traits which they aren't responsible for,
cannot control and cannot change.
you can express a preference for certain
physical traits in the opposite sex, but
you cannot sit there and say everyone who
doesn't look the way i like is disgusting.
there is a name for people who do this.
but i can't say it on this forum. or
anywhere where there are children or old
people around.
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noahdex
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Posted: 02-04-08 16:19pm
why are so many guys answering womens
personal problems?
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fiona05
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Posted: 02-04-08 19:34pm
why not? men's chat is men only, and
women's chat is women only, but on these
forums anyone's advice is welcome.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-04-08 22:19pm
noahdex
wrote:
why are so many guys
answering womens personal
problems?
Exactly as Fiona said. This particular
forum is open for both men and women to
post. I you have a question you want only
women to post to (and you are also female)
then go to Women's Chat. Same thing if
you're a guy and you want only male
answers - you go to Men's Chat.
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AmScardOfWhoIAm!!
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I HATEE MEE !!! Posted: 04-25-08 19:22pm
Am not unconfutable with myself ,,,
because i have been with my boyfriend for
a long time now and we wont to take it to
the next step but i feel am scared and
don't won to ,, my inner labia is about 1
inch long or somthing like that and i
don't like it ,,i feel strange and wired
about this could someone help me ,, but
also we was talking on day and he told me
he thinks things like this are GROSS!! so
that made things Worse i talked about this
with my girlfriends and they say he's not
worth it then but i don't wanna listen to
them because i trully do love him ,, do i
show him myself or not am so confusled
please can someone help me
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AmScardOfWhoIAm!!
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I HATTE MEEE!!!! Posted: 04-25-08 19:23pm
Am not confutable with myself ,,, Beacuse
i have been with my boyfriend for a long
time now and we wont to take it to the
next sep but i feel am scard and don't won
to ,, my inner labia is about 1 inch long
or sumting like that and i don't like it
,,i feel strage and wired about this could
somone help me ,, but also we was talking
on day and he told me he thinks things
like this are GROSS!! so that made things
orse i alked baout this with my
girlfriends and they say he's not worth it
then but i don't wana listen to them
bevcause i trully do lov him ,, do i show
him myslef or not am soo confusled please
can somone help me
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bluelace12
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Posted: 04-25-08 22:37pm
Wait..he said your labia were gross? What
kinds of things did he say were gross?
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motherofhighspiritedones
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lol Posted: 05-21-08 17:39pm
what woman likes their vagina...naah just
kidding...they all come in different
shapes. don't sweat it
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arlington49
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No Such Thing Posted: 05-24-08 01:55am
I am a man who is an absolute awe of the
intimate female body. I can assure you
that there is no such thing as an ugly
vagina...NOTHING. There are unique
vaginas and they are the most beautiful.
It doesnt matter how they are unique. If
they are unique they are extremely
interesting. The most beautiful and
invigorating sex I have ever been
privileged to share was with a women whose
inner labia looked as if they had been
pencilled in, and her clitoris was the
size of half a pin head. Yet she screamed
that loud that next day the neighbours
complained. So show your vagina with
pride...tell you partner that you've got a
treat in store for him when her gets 'down
there'.
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kikikiki
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ugly vajajas Posted: 06-06-08 06:47am
i, like a lot of people that have blogged
here, dislike my vagina.
I could even go as far as to say I Hate
it!
Now I need opinions
I have small inner flabs, however have
quite a moundy vagina. So i guess everyone
has their worries.
I was having a general discussion with
some guy friends, that were talking about
fannys and most said they actually
prefered "outies" vag's that have longer
innner flabs, however I think a moundy
vagina is just a total no... what do you
think?
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motherofhighspiritedones
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Posted: 06-07-08 14:51pm
oh come on lol...i have a "moundy"
vagina...very full outer lips and i
absolutley love it. on another note...come
on seriously...penises are not exactly
cute as a puppy either...so um yeah...love
your body. seriously.
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Chloe. K. 87
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ugly vagina Posted: 06-20-08 13:02pm
hey! im chloe and im 20, to all my friends
i seem like a normal, friendly happy girl!
with out being big headed, i feel i'm good
looking, have the personality to go with
it and well, pretty smart hehe. However,
just like some of you other woman who have
posted comments, i an extremly consious
about my vagina. To me its is the most
disgusting thing i have ever seen, no guy
has ever seen it just because i feel they
would hate it to, or feel sick by looking
at it. This is because of my extremly
large labia minor, they stick out (and
i've mesured) 2 inches out of the labia
major. Im pleased im not the only one. but
mine are brown and are full of wrikles,
their just soooo meaty and horrible. ok,
so i have painted an extremly bad picture,
but thats how i feel. im a virgin and
soooo scared of letting an guy see, i
really dont know how to get over my
worries and feelings. my biggest fear is
that no guy can ever love me. so please
guys tell me the truth of how you feel
about large labia and help us poor girl
who suffer from it plz!! hehe...thanx. X
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vrdamian
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i hate my vagina Posted: 07-02-08 20:37pm
This is different than the other postings
I've seen under the same heading because I
don't hate the physical look of my vagina.
I hate it because I was sexually abused
by 3 different men growing up and it seems
to bring me nothing but anxiety and pain.
I'm angry that a natural part of my body
that should bring me pleasure is instead a
source of disgust and emotional pain. I
have a great husband who's loving and
patient but I can't stand the thought of
being penetrated. It feels very invasive.
There's nothing worse than having someone
having a grand ole' time with your body
while you lay there feeling nothing but
put out.
I'm 39 years old and have felt this way
since I was 7.
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