Well now i can't remove anything because the post is under "review" so sorry about that. Tried my best with my alloted time. Couple things...i'm not racist, misogynistic or even sexist. Opinions are just that, but some things actually are FACTUAL, i don't mean to placate, but we don't need to live in a fantasy world here. Didn't want to go there but felt deemed so. The simple fact that this topic exists means that not one person/opinion/idea is ultimatetly correct. The topic is just that "the topic", i don't understand why some science tossed in with some opinion, mixed with some reality is suddenly a ridiculous sin. Perhaps we have gone too politically correct, and you can't say anything without considering EVERYONE'S personal feelings. I now seem to understand that this particular forum is spiraled around telling female individuals that their "problems"<- and they are problems, that's why they're here, are perfectly normal and should'nt even be of concern...but if so many women are searching into this subject, how is it possible that they're all wrong about their own views on appearances of certain parts of their bodies? Being offensive is/was the last of my goals. My statements being "reviewed", were solely aimed at reality and the fact that this IS a concern of both women and men in today's society. The severity is up to the beholder, not me or anyone else. Apparently we cannot think/say anything without having a review.

Because "science" helped promote racism in early america.

What needs to be done is ENCOURAGEMENT that ALL BODY TYPES are beautiful and NORMAL.

These women do NOT have "problems" - they have a NORMAL BODY that looks exactly the way it is supposed to look.

They are all CONFUSED because SOCIETY has brainwashed them into thinking only ONE BODY TYPE is beautiful, when that is in fact a lie. "Beauty" is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT, not a physical one. Just because porn says that tiny labia are beautiful doesn't mean that tiny labia are NORMAL OR the ideal.

So what IS the "ideal"? Take a look downstairs. That's it. YOU ARE NORMAL. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! You do not have a PROBLEM!!!

I highly doubt being "offensive" was the last of your goals when you've said "we're being too politically correct". People only say that when they want to be insulting. Even I do.

Your first post was absolutely HORRIBLE. It was disgusting, insulting, misogynistic, racist, and sexist. If you can't see that, then maybe you shouldn't be posting to this topic.

This topic is for VIVACIOUS VULVA SUPPORT!!!!! Beautiful, LARGE-LABIA LADIES that are SUPER SEXY!!! Seriously. I have wimpy, small inner labia and wish mine were big and juicy!!

And now, what about position on the body? Ialways thought they all sat pretty much in the same place until I was having my first child and the obsterician remarked that my vagina was slightly further back than usual (and my uterus is also tilted backwards - which made labour a little more difficult!) I had no idea what he meant until years later, with a new partner who had some experience, I had a discussion about it. Apparently most women's vaginas are towards the front, whereas mine is further back ie much deeper between my legs. It is also very small. I haven't thought about this in years!

What a revelation this topic is proving to be! The internet at its best, I reckon!

I think mine is pretty much in the middle, though I've never had anyone comment on it. The biggest comment I got was during my first pap, she noted I had a septate hymen. It was just a string of skin dividing the entrance of my vagina in half. Everyone is different! We're not robots.

actually, this forum is widely considered a SUPPORT AND ADVICE forum, not a debate forum to throw your small minded views around. calling someone hideous is not ADVICE. if you want to take this fascinating issue of yours any further then take it to a debate forum. ( preferably don't even do that though) but don't you dare bring it here. did you actually take the time to read all the posts in this thread? did you even begin to comprehend how much of a sensitive issue this is for some people? or how people can and do live hating their bodies and hating themselves because of it? or more specifically because of people like you? i don't think so. because if you did you would not have said those OBSCENE, offensive, and yes, RACIST things which you said. did you actually join this forum specially to say all that? really? i mean really? you are not some kind of purveyor of truth, everything you said was nonsense. having big labia is not a disability, nor are black people 'less evolved' than caucasians.

aye mate, the real george orwell would be so proud of you, too...

Well said that man! (or rather, woman!)

just made me so angry because it's one thing to slag someone off regarding something like BEHAVIOUR or LIFESTYLE CHOICES - ie - things that they CHOOSE. But it's another thing to lay into a person or a group of people about physical traits which they aren't responsible for, cannot control and cannot change.

you can express a preference for certain physical traits in the opposite sex, but you cannot sit there and say everyone who doesn't look the way i like is disgusting. there is a name for people who do this. but i can't say it on this forum. or anywhere where there are children or old people around.

why are so many guys answering womens personal problems?

why not? men's chat is men only, and women's chat is women only, but on these forums anyone's advice is welcome.

Exactly as Fiona said. This particular forum is open for both men and women to post. I you have a question you want only women to post to (and you are also female) then go to Women's Chat. Same thing if you're a guy and you want only male answers - you go to Men's Chat.

Am not unconfutable with myself ,,, because i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and we wont to take it to the next step but i feel am scared and don't won to ,, my inner labia is about 1 inch long or somthing like that and i don't like it ,,i feel strange and wired about this could someone help me ,, but also we was talking on day and he told me he thinks things like this are GROSS!! so that made things Worse i talked about this with my girlfriends and they say he's not worth it then but i don't wanna listen to them because i trully do love him ,, do i show him myself or not am so confusled please can someone help me

Am not confutable with myself ,,, Beacuse i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and we wont to take it to the next sep but i feel am scard and don't won to ,, my inner labia is about 1 inch long or sumting like that and i don't like it ,,i feel strage and wired about this could somone help me ,, but also we was talking on day and he told me he thinks things like this are GROSS!! so that made things orse i alked baout this with my girlfriends and they say he's not worth it then but i don't wana listen to them bevcause i trully do lov him ,, do i show him myslef or not am soo confusled please can somone help me

Wait..he said your labia were gross? What kinds of things did he say were gross?

what woman likes their vagina...naah just kidding...they all come in different shapes. don't sweat it

I am a man who is an absolute awe of the intimate female body. I can assure you that there is no such thing as an ugly vagina...NOTHING. There are unique vaginas and they are the most beautiful. It doesnt matter how they are unique. If they are unique they are extremely interesting. The most beautiful and invigorating sex I have ever been privileged to share was with a women whose inner labia looked as if they had been pencilled in, and her clitoris was the size of half a pin head. Yet she screamed that loud that next day the neighbours complained. So show your vagina with pride...tell you partner that you've got a treat in store for him when her gets 'down there'.

i, like a lot of people that have blogged here, dislike my vagina.
I could even go as far as to say I Hate it!
Now I need opinions
I have small inner flabs, however have quite a moundy vagina. So i guess everyone has their worries.
I was having a general discussion with some guy friends, that were talking about fannys and most said they actually prefered "outies" vag's that have longer innner flabs, however I think a moundy vagina is just a total no... what do you think?

oh come on lol...i have a "moundy" vagina...very full outer lips and i absolutley love it. on another note...come on seriously...penises are not exactly cute as a puppy either...so um yeah...love your body. seriously.

hey! im chloe and im 20, to all my friends i seem like a normal, friendly happy girl! with out being big headed, i feel i'm good looking, have the personality to go with it and well, pretty smart hehe. However, just like some of you other woman who have posted comments, i an extremly consious about my vagina. To me its is the most disgusting thing i have ever seen, no guy has ever seen it just because i feel they would hate it to, or feel sick by looking at it. This is because of my extremly large labia minor, they stick out (and i've mesured) 2 inches out of the labia major. Im pleased im not the only one. but mine are brown and are full of wrikles, their just soooo meaty and horrible. ok, so i have painted an extremly bad picture, but thats how i feel. im a virgin and soooo scared of letting an guy see, i really dont know how to get over my worries and feelings. my biggest fear is that no guy can ever love me. so please guys tell me the truth of how you feel about large labia and help us poor girl who suffer from it plz!! hehe...thanx. X

This is different than the other postings I've seen under the same heading because I don't hate the physical look of my vagina. I hate it because I was sexually abused by 3 different men growing up and it seems to bring me nothing but anxiety and pain. I'm angry that a natural part of my body that should bring me pleasure is instead a source of disgust and emotional pain. I have a great husband who's loving and patient but I can't stand the thought of being penetrated. It feels very invasive. There's nothing worse than having someone having a grand ole' time with your body while you lay there feeling nothing but put out.
I'm 39 years old and have felt this way since I was 7.

Now, you're right, that is entirely different as you mentioned. Most women who do not like the appearance of their vagina are stating just that---the way it looks.

Your physical appearance is not what makes you hate it. It's the terrible way in which you were abused as a child. You connect that horrible experience with your vagina and i doubt anyone here would try to belittle your feelings.

I'm sure there are women here who can empathize with your invasive feeling during penetration, despite your caring partner. What you went through is not something you get over without extensive therapy and sometimes, not even then. I'm very sorry that instead of pleasure, your vagina is just a source of emotional pain.