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n2r7moopad
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Posted: 12-14-07 11:10am
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I did not read through this whole post but
my issue is the outer lips are bigger my
DH often says something about a 'camel
toe'? yeah that even sounds ugly lol!
There is some web page that shows all kind
of vaginas not in sexual/porn ways but
just the beauty of all vaginas. When I
find I will post.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-14-07 13:32pm
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There's one called sexy-labia.something,
just search for "sexy labia" and you'll
find it. It has mostly ones with larger
inner labia. I personally have larger
outer labia lol.
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Hell Fire
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Posted: 12-14-07 15:06pm
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I did post it on here the other month. Its
sexylabia.com Great site! really helped me
come to terms with my big lips. And yeah i
have one longer than the other.
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Loves Chocolate
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Ditto to All!
Posted: 12-22-07 10:52am
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I can join all u girls in hating the look
of it..I'm still only comin around to
accepting it and that guys don't really
care, but its hard...i always feel that if
i notice it that much guys must at least
be a bit disgusted by it...
I had a big girly sex talk with a guy
friend a while ago and he admitted to
me,rather digustingly, that the first time
he saw a vagina he thought it looked like
a split-open rat! Pleasant right???!! I
was just gobsmacked...there,in one fell
swoop my self esteem in that matter
plummeted, and all my hard work to
convince myself guys didn't mind the look
of it went to nothing!!
but he rescued himself there before i
could go into a big rant against him..He
made it clear that it was a first
impression, soon to be well forgotten when
he found out how much fun they really
were...as a straight guy he doesn't give a
damn about how they look, he just wants to
be with the girl for her and wouldn't let
noting the appearance of her parts affect
how he felt in any way...
Now,i'm not sayin i forgave him all
together for sayin that,cos that image is
permanentally imprinted into my brain,and
every time i'm with my guy i wonder if he
felt the same way bout me...I'm soo much
more relaxed bout the whole big issue now
but in lil ways i can't be completely at
ease.
I don't really enjoy my man givin me oral
sex and i think its mainly cos i still
feel embarrased bout him seeing it so
close..heck,i even hate the look of
it..ha,kinda grosses me out..so course i'm
not gona hav too much fun...and when i'm
naked in front of him,walking around or
what not, i always try to avoid givin him
a view of it in case my labia are hanging
down horribly or something...oh,and just
so that girl knows shes not alone..i tuck
them up sometimes too when i get the
chance..it does just look that bit betta
and makes me more comffortable mentally,if
not exactly physically!
anyhu,i drift alot...the point is that
we're only human, course we're gona be a
bit kiddyish now and then and say 'ugh' at
the look of things, but then we grow up a
bit and get beyond the point of caring and
i guess in the end we'll be free of our
fickleness and just say 'this is how i
am,take it and don't leave it mister!!'
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bluelace12
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Posted: 12-23-07 19:52pm
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I'm self-conscious about mine too...they
protrude quite a bit... After dating my
boyfriend for a year...I finally let him
finger me. But I am still really scared to
let him give me oral sex..or actually see
what I look like down there. I'm afraid
it'll gross him out or something  I had such a
hard time even letting him feel me down
there...but I finally got over that after
a year. I will be soo scared and
self-conscious to ever shower with
him...or walk around naked or anything
like that..I just don't know how to get
over it...or be comfortable with that part
of my body...any advice?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-23-07 20:06pm
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All I can do is tell you that you're
normal and beautiful!!!
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bluelace12
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Posted: 12-24-07 09:46am
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I'm also worried because what if we have
trouble having sex for some odd reason
lol. What if my lips get in the way or
something weird like that...I don't
know...I worry about these kinds of things
ALL the time...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-24-07 10:28am
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Lol. The lips won't get in the way. When
you get aroused they swell up and spread
outwards like flower petals 
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fiona05
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Posted: 12-24-07 16:26pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Lol. The lips won't get in
the way. When you get aroused they swell
up and spread outwards like flower petals
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lol. that has never happened to me in my
entire life. they stay closed until i (or
he!) use fingers to open them.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-24-07 18:27pm
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Well either way they don't obstruct the
vagina when it comes time for sex.
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randyy
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So Thankful!
Posted: 01-11-08 00:02am
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okay. so i'm pretty young. just turned 18
a while back
and theres so much presure to have sex and
have a boyfriend
but like so many writters - i have the
same problem
and until now i was unable to write about
it and voice my concern.
i guess you could say - down there i am
less than confident.
it makes me feel ugly.
i can never wear a bathing suit without
shorts
and i have never had a boyfriend.
i tell my friends its because i'm picky,
because some really great
guys have been interested. i'm just so
scared they will see what i see.
another concern of mine is talk.
lots of the people i have been interested
in are friends of friends
and i dont want everyone to know what i
look like! it freaks me out
because i have never discussed it with my
friends. i just avoid it.
i'm glad i stumbled upon this site. makes
me feel less alone in all of this.
i also looked into surgery. but i think
its an easy way out.
im sure if i did it i would just find
another part of my
body that bothered me and want another
easy out. instead i seek advice.
some guys have mentioned that they dont
care??
i really hope this is true. i mean. im not
a complete mutant -
but i have seen what pornstars look like
and the fact women on the beach can wear
tight bathing suits
is a constant reminder that i am different
=(
also. i would like to know just how many
people look the way i do?
what is normal? or should i say, what is
pretty??
thanks for listening. this sight has
really made me feel better.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-11-08 10:52am
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I was picky too. I never dated anyone
until college.
Don't go with surgery... don't maim and
destroy your beautiful body! If you went
to the website listed a few times in this
topic you'll see that men LOVE large
labia. I think your body is amazing and I
wish mine were bigger!
Normal? There IS no "normal". If you have
two outer labia, two inner labia and a
vaginal entrance, that's "normal". What is
pretty? In my opinion, large labia are
pretty!!! Small labia are just "eh" to me.
Gorgeous, sexy long labia are beautiful.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-31-08 08:55am
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Dude, you're like, the ONLY person on this
thread who thinks they are repulsive.
Those aren't "large, obtrusive flaps" you
RETARD. They are sensitive sex organs of
the female and if you'd actually bother
TOUCHING them, you'd see the response in a
woman.
My vulva, nor ANY vulva, large or small,
is "obscene". You have some fuzzy freaking
glasses if "obscene", "gross" and
"repulsive" is what you see when you look
at a vulva. Maybe you're actually gay!?
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georgeorwell
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sorry
Posted: 01-31-08 11:44am
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i'll try to remove the response
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georgeorwell
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Posted: 01-31-08 11:51am
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Not to offend anyone, i just think you're
wrong. Perhaps i could have stated
opinions in different ways. I've been
with the same woman for 6 years and she
does not have "them". Most women before
her did and hers is much more appealing to
me, that's all. Sound better? Oh, and
for the record, i'm definately not gay.
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fiona05
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Posted: 01-31-08 12:21pm
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this man is a misogynist and i find his
post extremely offensive. i want it
removed.
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Posted: 01-31-08 19:27pm
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I actually found it racist.
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run4life10
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Posted: 01-31-08 21:48pm
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| shonster
wrote: | | I actually found it
racist. |
that too... either way, it's offensive. it
wasn't constructive or supportive at all,
but only fed off a lot of women's
insecurities and probably made them worse
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horny13
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dont worry everyone
Posted: 01-31-08 22:03pm
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hey ladies! dont be so self consious about
your vaginas. I love your kinds of
vaginas! really i do. So dont think all
men dont find them attractive. I would
give anyone of ladies head. ANYDAY! so
just be positive about it! nothing to
worry about
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