i have an issue, hope someone could help.
i am 15 and i seem NOT to find my actual clit. i know where it should be and everything but its not there. i have the rest whats needed but i cant find my clit! its so weird. sometimes when im near my orgasm, i tend to go round the area where it should be, and i can feel something hard there and i can get the orgasm quicker, but as i said, it looks nothing like all those pictures of a normal vagina ive seen, and its sort of bugging me for over two years now, can anyone tell me what the hell is this ? i mean , i aint going to go to the doctor about this issue, seriously, my mum would ask me so many questions. Is it just that im still developing, or something??
My labia ,both inner and outer labia looks very gross.It is very very dark there and it is saggy too.I feal a lot of uncomfort when I stand still.other reason why I am worried is that I cant expose it when I lay down in the beach nude.
i think all vaginas are beautiful in there own unique way...innies, outies, cheeseburgers or bulldogs.ladies, you need to stop being so self-conscious & just tell your partners to chew it or lose it.Any guy/partner who doesnt like what you have to offer doesnt deserve it(and is probably interested in something else!!)so i say flaunt it, however it looks! my penis isnt perfect, but i love it anyway, its served me well.just love yourself even if you dont feel perfect...your UNIQUE.
As girl I find all vagina's are atmost ugly in their own unique way and We don't need a male opinion regarding this topic, we know what we have and its apperance,don't think all female are worried about its look, for a majority it is a silly thing.A minority of females may be conserned about it and they may sometimes put comments about vaginal apperance inorder to get a realistic answer from a conserned medical authority and not from an ordinary layman and in such case if some males came and answer in wrong way that it looks good it will create more problems only. we didn't expect it from males.A penis what ever it is , what i have to say about it is that all of them are beautiful.We chew it and suck it before we put it in our vagina.Don't worry man we all are happy.
I never allow any one from, both gender to do oral on my labia my genital is totally disgusting, I read somewear that eating a girls labia is just like how a pig eat faeces.I din't remerber where it is,anway I find that comment is true.
On my outer vaginal lips I find a scar, I don't have any infection on my vagina,I like to know any one of the female have such a problem and what is the remedy they have taken , also my vaginal lips can defined ugly as it is very dark and gross there.
I used to feel the same way about mine - one of my inner lips is a lot longer than the other, and apparently my clit is farther down than most people's are. I used to freak out about it and never let guys go down there at all, until one of my exs just went without me exactly letting him.
We broke up, got into a really big fight, and I didn't speak to him for months. A friend of mine is friends with a friend of his, and apparently he told all his friends that I had the most beautiful vagina he's ever seen - after a very nasty breakup too.
So don't feel bad about it, guys have different perceptions than we do. Maybe you should just sit down and look at it, as weird as that sounds, and find all the good things. Just like people, we see beauty in someone that only sees ugly in themselves.
guys like it just the ways it comes as long as it fits theirs to the point of sheer satisfaction... if they leave you it not because of your vagina it is probably because they found someone else willing to do way more for them (period)SO... STOP THIS USELESS TOPIC(lol)!
guys that think any vagina is ugly is because they probably would rather have a penis...lol it's true had a guy like that before but he still couldn't help but to sex me up he said yours is so ugly but deliciously clean, sexual and wholesome he loved drinking my kittycat milk because it's clean (i guess) he didn't like the look but would practically tear my clothes off and rape me just to eat it (Go fig)?.... Mine is semi long, semi dark, semi thick clitoris, meaty, clean and thick and overly pleasurable as I have been told by all my partners... if they ever thought it was ugly it sure did not stop them from going at it like it was some kind very expensive tastefully rich gourmet desert!(yum) they would eat me any way they could... staying down on me for hours and hours (sometimes I would feel the circulation in my but and legs going away because they wouldn't get off it). I keep it clean... that's would they would always say I've never tasted a vagina this clean before!!;^} I guess to them it's ugly but darn tasty....lol for awhile it got almost soggy looking having my one ex eat it so much he would suck until it felt like blood was coming out! He would bite then suck some more bury his face in it suck up my kitty milk...a lot of times it felt like rape because I would start crying wanting him to stop until I couldn't do it anymore yelling "stop it!" over and over again but he wouldn't until he was satisfied=\would he ever be?(he wasn't trying to hurt me I know, cause any other time he was soft on me like with the way he caters to me but he just goes crazy when I try to be nice and let him go down on me)I could only notice the night had disappeared and was the late of the morn my legs would be shaking with weakness but, I still would be shockingly wet then he would rest and notice I was still wet and try to start softly sucking me again I clasped my legs closed hard on him got up as quick as I could and lock myself in bathroom showered for a very long time feeling sexually abused (I think I was only able to get away because he was tired too)...kinda of scared something like that would happen again so never had sex with him anymore and got out of that relationship...too much to take...but, I can still feel him thinking about eating me and wanting me again...is this normal (esp. with a guy who says vagina's are ugly) and possibly wants a penis instead? Btw, was years ago but sometimes you can just feel their thoughts on you... creepy I know...
iKnodis1 - I am a girl who is not at all worried for having an ugly labia.My b/f never says that my vagina looks ugly or not.Even if vagina looks ugly, not all the guys i say, but most of them will say it is perfect inorder to make us feel better and happy,deliberatly a guy never put unwanted comments about a female genitalia like some of us put such comments on male genital out of jealous. Don't think Sensibly a guy never consider or say vagina looks good because it is ugly. in your posting you have put a comment here that a guy who say vagina is ugly don't have penis, this applicable in the case of girls too according to your opinion if a girl says penis is not perfect then others has to think that she don't have a vagina.Afterall vaginal apperance it is silly topic and a silly matter, there is no need to give much importance to this topic, don't become panic so cool down.
THE FEMALE PENIS SUCKERS
We girl used to suck and lick male penis. when we like the way it get erected it is a beautifl and it is a pleasure to our eyes. we will enjoy its power and beauty, we suck it for a very long time till that hot sweet milk comes out of it and we drink it.We know some female suckers who are addict to it, they can't sleep a night if they din't get male penis to suck.One girl among them once suck a boys penis for a very long time even after that milk comes out of it.She won't let him free,finally a few drops blood comes out of his penis and which ends in an inflamation of his penis
iKnodis1- I have read your long stories as well as your short story,As every body know what they have no body needs your interpretation regarding vagina, After seeing your posting I have looked at my vagina many times still it is very ugly,Think your posting itself can't make evething upside down, it is not going to make any effect on anybody.In your last posting you have mentioned an adventure that a guy had done to you.with a proper will or sense no guy will do such a dirty job on any females unless he is mad person. That comments eating a vagina is like a pig eating faeces comes true in some cases.
MY UGLY LABIA
My labia is ugly. it is always itching and had a foul smell, although I have sexual desire for an intercourse with boys who I like, but I can't do it due to this reason.I read females usally have more fungs deposits in their vaginal wall, is this the reason for my trouble there.I am not going to allow any guys to have sex with me by which I can only give such an infection to them too.
Umm... Iola, no... not most of the women look the same. Mine are small, doesn't stick out, and when I'm standing, all you'll ever see is the labia major neatly closed and slicked back. I've seen pictures of others with the labia minor dangling out way past the labia major, and those are real medical problems. Don't just brush this kind of thing off.
Original poster and sherawks, sit down with your boyfriends and explictly explain to them exactly what you want to say and then go ahead and describe it. Tell them that you do not feel confident about your own body and didn't want them to be caught off guard when you actually do show all. Just give it to them all at once, and then sit and see what they have to say.
Trust me, men have the exact same problems with their penises... too thin, too short, too fat, too dangly, too much foreskin, this and that. Your boyfriends will be able to relate to you on some level with this.
Ive had the surgery/....It cause me horrible permanent pain and the only surgery that could fix it will most likley make it hurt more...Yeah its pretty but now sex hurts and I dont enjoy like I used to....it created skin pockets where things catch and jab and it is always a little uncomfortable.....Its ok to look that way...AT LEAST IT FEELS GOOD>>>>DO NOT DO SURGERY
Kjallits. You are right both vagina and penis differ from person to person. I have seen both, a lot of them, vagina's about most of them have an ugly apperance, the penis what ever it is any way it has a better apperance than any vagina.I have seen a lot of beautiful uncircumcised penis, the findings in latest research shows that cicumcission make a lot of problem for both male and females in their sexual life.
Deliabald - I too have the same problem with my labia due to fungus, usally females have a lot of fungal deposits in their vagina and in some case it may lead to an infection, after infection my vaginal lips become more ugly , I didn't mean that my vaginal lips was better before,I was advised to take antibiotics and also to apply candid cream there on my vagial lips.So if you feel you have an infection immediately consulte a doctor an get an immediate remedy , otherwise you will make situation yourself's worse.