Only a few times that I have seen pictures of ugly tooties. Once I saw a picture of Paris Hilton's (you talk about ugly), it looked like a watermelon which had been hit with an ax. Most are very lovely and precious. Like one of the other post...as long as they are kept clean and pampered and not left to the wilds and malodorous...most well kept ones have the faint odor of freshly caught shrimp. Most men really don't care lip-size as long as they don't cover the guys ears! Get a life. You worry too much about nothing, as long as it is not covered in scabies or body lice bite marks or herpes blisters, then you are o.k.

They come in different colors,shapes,sizes,density...When you find the right man he will think its beautiful just like you. You all are beautiful women and we can't let society make us think other wise...Its hard but I think there's something beautiful about every person I meet...Good luck

Some guys do seem to care how a vagina looks like, but in the positive way! I'm a woman and I'm thankful for some great letters there. As they say: big vaginal lips rule!

Oh my goodness! i thought i was the only one in this whole world that had a problem with my vagina! my inner lips also stick out and i have been so embarrased and i have not been sexually active because i am too embarrased. i wont even let my boyfriend near it. but this week i looked at some stuff on the net and finally just spilled out to my boyfriend about my ugly vagina and gave him the address to the site with the pic on there and that girls vagina looked alot like mine and im sure urs does also b/c it sounds like we are the same! i am just so glad to know im not alone but the good news is he doesnt care and he said im still beautiful and he loves me no matter what we have been together for 1 yr. and a 1/2 im just glad it worked out for the best but i have been cryin for hours now but i know im not alone now thanks for speakin out!

Things turned out pretty well, huh, Krayz? No one is perfect, yet we all carry these self-conscious thoughts about one thing or another. However, what you'll find more often than not is that it means very little to other people, especially the ones that care about us. The zit you dreaded about all morning wasn't even noticed by your friends. The loose labia that you thought made you ugly, has no affect on your boyfriend's view of your beauty.

Glad to hear you were open about it and found out it wasn't anything to worry about.

[quote="chapcher"]I hate my vagina.

same here !
i ve ugly ones too...
those inner lips comes out
first i thought that it is come out since i cross my legs so tight
when i cross my legs soo tight , then i feel that sth pleasant.. i dun know what is the feeling but i feel it since i m 5 yr old..
whenever i feel boring, i cross my legs tight.
is it cos of that?
more i ve depression for that since i feel so shame that i will b laughed by a guy or i think my bf will leave me if he knows it
so, even i m popular( jus writing .. dun wanna boast), i never get a bf till today 19 years old( i m asian and comes from a strict family)
now ,i found a guy who i love most and i wanna start a relationship which will lead to the marriage
so, shamefully i will admit that i look sex websites...
i ve never watched it before but i just want to know where is the vagina hole and urethra hole since i ve never learnt well before...
then to the worst i found that some pic of girls who r sex got innerlips bigger... so i was so frightened that i was about to think as the most experienced porn !! OMG OMG
cos i thought the inner lips come out from extra multi sex ????
so i was so shameful that i m about to refuse him... and i live single all my life....
now i m so relaxed that there are some girls who r same as me ... thnc u so much ..
GOD bless u
i m about to go to surgery since the start but when i see the sex webs .... i was so frightened that i will b looked down by doctors ....
now i think i dun need to go to doctors as long as he welcome my body
thnc so much GOD BLESS U

is it? realli?
i thought i will b looked down all the life....
i never dare to wear some swim suits which r so so tight...

now i was relaxed for half.. but wish i can start relationship with my guy however thnc for writing those which r like encouraging us with ugly vagina ...
THNC
wish he will accept ..hoou (sigh) *

Wowo, the responses to this are heartbreaking and endearing. I am so happy to see women who were embrarrased or downright disgusted at what they thought was an "ugly" vagina seeing the light of how beautiful they truly are!

maybe i should take a look at it

Very much so

Vaginas come in every shape and size; and they're all unique, healthy, and wonderful!

i've probably ruined every possible relationship with a guy i could have, because i'm self concious about my meaty labia. i feel like everything about me is perfect, except in that area. i've been interested in the same guy for over a year, and we have had makeout sessions on many different occasions.

i'm so self concious about myself, that i wont let myself go further, because i'm scared of him losing interest in me. actuially, i've never gone further before, in high school, because i was nervous about rumors, and now in college, because i'm scared to put myself out there.

i was going to go through with it once, but then when my shirt came off he told me "just to let you know, god has blessed you" and i smiled and laughed... and i didn't want to ruin that opinon of me, so i chickened out.


i guess i've always been known for being "perfect" where as, i'm far from it. i'm known as the girl that none of the guys can get, and that is not because i'm not interested, it's because i'm scared. ):

Ladies, for goodness sake get a life! If you THINK that your labia / nose / boobs / ears are "Ugly" / "Squissy" / "Droopy" or whatever either accept it or do something about it apart from complaining about what God and your parents gave you.
However contrary to this statement of mine is the saying:-
"Beauty is in the mind of the beholder".
My mind works wonders, I know they are all beautiful. I enjoy them all regardless of size, shape or appearance.

Large labia are beautiful! I personally wish mine were bigger! That guy was right: you are blessed, whether you're religious or not!

You ARE perfect! I'll tell you that right now!! You're not far from it, you ARE it! So the next time you're with a guy you want, GO for it!

i understand the point you are trying to make however these people are here because they need advice and help
so do not tell our members to "get a life"
thats freakin rude

Well said Eiri

I have a similar problem. I'm relativeley young ( still in high school) and i am a virgin. My labia extends pretty far and my hole is sort of loose and I'm constantly feeling uncomfortable. I'm really uncomfortable when my boyfriend or anyone else see or touch it and there is alot of pressure to do so. I feel like I'm useless and noone will ever love me and I'm upset that i feel this way at such a young age.

You should NEVER let someone pressure you into touching your private parts. Highschool is far too young to be worrying about sexual contact. Tell your boyfriends to shove off!!!

When you are older, you will find men to whom you can show your beautiful vulva (that's the outside part including the vagina entrance, major and minor labia, and clitoris). Your body is very gorgeous and a REAL man (not a BOY) will appreciate it.

I used to feel the same about mine. I felt extremely uncomfortable, and didn't even let another male touch it until I was 19...I was that scared!! I dated dozens of people and went through boyfriends really fast because nobody wanted to stay with me since I wasn't ready for sexual stuff when they wanted it. Finally, I found someone who made me feel comfortable with who I am, and now sexual things are no big deal to me. I'm still with him to this day, and he actually makes me feel confident in how I look 'down there' now, which I never even dreamed I would be saying. All girls are different, and although it may seem scary to let others see you and you worry about judging, I promise that most guys don't care and it will all be okay. You will also preform a lot better if you aren't so worried about how you look; your mind will just be on you and the man you are with and how you feel! Trust me, it's much better once you don't worry. I wish you luck!

i hv noticed dt my self,bt its nt a constant thing,i suppose is d way u use it,maybe d figering form frm romance or so,its normal 2 me probably ur body size...............hey relax ok

My inner lips really stick out and so does my clit. I used to be very self conscious about it but none of my boyfriends seem to mine it.