Only a few times that I have seen pictures
of ugly tooties. Once I saw a picture of
Paris Hilton's (you talk about ugly), it
looked like a watermelon which had been
hit with an ax. Most are very lovely and
precious. Like one of the other post...as
long as they are kept clean and pampered
and not left to the wilds and
malodorous...most well kept ones have the
faint odor of freshly caught shrimp. Most
men really don't care lip-size as long as
they don't cover the guys ears! Get a
life. You worry too much about nothing, as
long as it is not covered in scabies or
body lice bite marks or herpes blisters,
then you are o.k.
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
All Vaginas Are Beautiful Posted: 02-24-07 01:13am
They come in different
colors,shapes,sizes,density...When you
find the right man he will think its
beautiful just like you. You all are
beautiful women and we can't let society
make us think other wise...Its hard but I
think there's something beautiful about
every person I meet...Good luck
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yhou5c
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 03-13-07 06:58am
HealthySex
wrote:
As a male, I would never
judge a woman based on the look of her
vagina or make her feel uncomfortable
because of it. The fact that you've been
dating for 8 months says there is
definitely something more to your
relationship than just the desire for sex.
I'm sure he won't care and will continue
to love you for who you
are.
Some guys do seem to care how a vagina looks
like, but in the positive way! I'm a
woman and I'm thankful for some great
letters there. As they say: big vaginal lips
rule!
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KrayzRokr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Posts: 1
Ugly Vagina Girl Posted: 03-25-07 03:02am
Oh my goodness! i thought i was the only
one in this whole world that had a problem
with my vagina! my inner lips also stick
out and i have been so embarrased and i
have not been sexually active because i am
too embarrased. i wont even let my
boyfriend near it. but this week i looked
at some stuff on the net and finally just
spilled out to my boyfriend about my ugly
vagina and gave him the address to the
site with the pic on there and that girls
vagina looked alot like mine and im sure
urs does also b/c it sounds like we are
the same! i am just so glad to know im not
alone but the good news is he doesnt care
and he said im still beautiful and he
loves me no matter what we have been
together for 1 yr. and a 1/2 im just glad
it worked out for the best but i have been
cryin for hours now but i know im not
alone now thanks for speakin out!
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 03-26-07 00:20am
Things turned out pretty well, huh, Krayz?
No one is perfect, yet we all carry these
self-conscious thoughts about one thing or
another. However, what you'll find more
often than not is that it means very
little to other people, especially the
ones that care about us. The zit you
dreaded about all morning wasn't even
noticed by your friends. The loose labia
that you thought made you ugly, has no
affect on your boyfriend's view of your
beauty.
Glad to hear you were open about it and
found out it wasn't anything to worry
about.
same here !
i ve ugly ones too...
those inner lips comes out
first i thought that it is come out since
i cross my legs so tight
when i cross my legs soo tight , then i
feel that sth pleasant.. i dun know what
is the feeling but i feel it since i m 5
yr old..
whenever i feel boring, i cross my legs
tight.
is it cos of that?
more i ve depression for that since i
feel so shame that i will b laughed by a
guy or i think my bf will leave me if he
knows it
so, even i m popular( jus writing .. dun
wanna boast), i never get a bf till today
19 years old( i m asian and comes from a
strict family)
now ,i found a guy who i love most and i
wanna start a relationship which will lead
to the marriage
so, shamefully i will admit that i look
sex websites...
i ve never watched it before but i just
want to know where is the vagina hole and
urethra hole since i ve never learnt well
before...
then to the worst i found that some pic of
girls who r sex got innerlips bigger... so
i was so frightened that i was about to
think as the most experienced porn !! OMG
OMG
cos i thought the inner lips come out from
extra multi sex ????
so i was so shameful that i m about to
refuse him... and i live single all my
life....
now i m so relaxed that there are some
girls who r same as me ... thnc u so much ..
GOD bless u
i m about to go to surgery since the start
but when i see the sex webs .... i was so
frightened that i will b looked down by
doctors ....
now i think i dun need to go to doctors as
long as he welcome my body
thnc so much GOD BLESS U
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hoou
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 04-11-07 14:12pm
yhou5c
wrote:
HealthySex
wrote:
As a male, I would never
judge a woman based on the look of her
vagina or make her feel uncomfortable
because of it. The fact that you've been
dating for 8 months says there is
definitely something more to your
relationship than just the desire for sex.
I'm sure he won't care and will continue
to love you for who you
are.
Some guys do seem to care how a vagina looks
like, but in the positive way! I'm a
woman and I'm thankful for some great
letters there. As they say: big vaginal lips
rule!
is it? realli?
i thought i will b looked down all the
life....
i never dare to wear some swim suits which
r so so tight...
now i was relaxed for half.. but wish i
can start relationship with my guy
however thnc for writing those which r
like encouraging us with ugly vagina ...
THNC
wish he will accept ..hoou (sigh) *
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-11-07 17:22pm
Wowo, the responses to this are
heartbreaking and endearing. I am so happy
to see women who were embrarrased or
downright disgusted at what they thought
was an "ugly" vagina seeing the light of
how beautiful they truly are!
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awkwarddepressed
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Posts: 70
Posted: 04-27-07 14:56pm
maybe i should take a look at it
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-28-07 00:03am
awkwarddepressed
wrote:
maybe i should take a look
at it
Very much so
Vaginas come in every shape and size; and
they're all unique, healthy, and
wonderful!
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lgiac
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 1
I Feel the Same Way... Posted: 09-18-07 21:36pm
i've probably ruined every possible
relationship with a guy i could have,
because i'm self concious about my meaty
labia. i feel like everything about me is
perfect, except in that area. i've been
interested in the same guy for over a
year, and we have had makeout sessions on
many different occasions.
i'm so self concious about myself, that i
wont let myself go further, because i'm
scared of him losing interest in me.
actuially, i've never gone further before,
in high school, because i was nervous
about rumors, and now in college, because
i'm scared to put myself out there.
i was going to go through with it once,
but then when my shirt came off he told me
"just to let you know, god has blessed
you" and i smiled and laughed... and i
didn't want to ruin that opinon of me, so
i chickened out.
i guess i've always been known for being
"perfect" where as, i'm far from it. i'm
known as the girl that none of the guys
can get, and that is not because i'm not
interested, it's because i'm scared. ):
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peter peters
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 46
Ugly Vagina Posted: 09-19-07 02:30am
Ladies, for goodness sake get a life! If
you THINK that your labia / nose / boobs /
ears are "Ugly" / "Squissy" / "Droopy" or
whatever either accept it or do something
about it apart from complaining about what
God and your parents gave you.
However contrary to this statement of mine
is the saying:-
"Beauty is in the mind of the beholder".
My mind works wonders, I know they are all
beautiful. I enjoy them all regardless of
size, shape or appearance.
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Tylanas
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Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Re: I Feel the Same Way... Posted: 09-19-07 09:23am
lgiac
wrote:
i've probably ruined every
possible relationship with a guy i could
have, because i'm self concious about my
meaty labia. i feel like everything about
me is perfect, except in that area. i've
been interested in the same guy for over a
year, and we have had makeout sessions on
many different occasions.
i'm so self concious about myself, that i
wont let myself go further, because i'm
scared of him losing interest in me.
actuially, i've never gone further before,
in high school, because i was nervous
about rumors, and now in college, because
i'm scared to put myself out there.
i was going to go through with it once,
but then when my shirt came off he told me
"just to let you know, god has blessed
you" and i smiled and laughed... and i
didn't want to ruin that opinon of me, so
i chickened out.
i guess i've always been known for being
"perfect" where as, i'm far from it. i'm
known as the girl that none of the guys
can get, and that is not because i'm not
interested, it's because i'm scared.
):
Large labia are beautiful! I personally
wish mine were bigger! That guy was right:
you are blessed, whether you're religious
or not!
You ARE perfect! I'll tell you that right
now!! You're not far from it, you ARE it!
So the next time you're with a guy you
want, GO for it!
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Re: Ugly Vagina Posted: 09-19-07 21:41pm
peter peters
wrote:
Ladies, for goodness sake
get a life! If you THINK that your labia /
nose / boobs / ears are "Ugly" / "Squissy"
/ "Droopy" or whatever either accept it or
do something about it apart from
complaining about what God and your
parents gave you.
However contrary to this statement of mine
is the saying:-
"Beauty is in the mind of the beholder".
My mind works wonders, I know they are all
beautiful. I enjoy them all regardless of
size, shape or
appearance.
i understand the point you are trying to
make however these people are here because
they need advice and help
so do not tell our members to "get a
life"
thats freakin rude
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Chezzy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 152
Posted: 09-20-07 02:05am
Eiri
wrote:
Wowo, the responses to this
are heartbreaking and endearing. I am so
happy to see women who were embrarrased or
downright disgusted at what they thought
was an "ugly" vagina seeing the light of
how beautiful they truly
are!
Well said Eiri
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cgg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 11-05-07 22:19pm
I have a similar problem. I'm relativeley
young ( still in high school) and i am a
virgin. My labia extends pretty far and my
hole is sort of loose and I'm constantly
feeling uncomfortable. I'm really
uncomfortable when my boyfriend or anyone
else see or touch it and there is alot of
pressure to do so. I feel like I'm useless
and noone will ever love me and I'm upset
that i feel this way at such a young age.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-06-07 10:26am
You should NEVER let someone pressure you
into touching your private parts.
Highschool is far too young to be worrying
about sexual contact. Tell your boyfriends
to shove off!!!
When you are older, you will find men to
whom you can show your beautiful vulva
(that's the outside part including the
vagina entrance, major and minor labia,
and clitoris). Your body is very gorgeous
and a REAL man (not a BOY) will appreciate
it.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 11:10am
I used to feel the same about mine. I
felt extremely uncomfortable, and didn't
even let another male touch it until I was
19...I was that scared!! I dated dozens
of people and went through boyfriends
really fast because nobody wanted to stay
with me since I wasn't ready for sexual
stuff when they wanted it. Finally, I
found someone who made me feel comfortable
with who I am, and now sexual things are
no big deal to me. I'm still with him to
this day, and he actually makes me feel
confident in how I look 'down there' now,
which I never even dreamed I would be
saying. All girls are different, and
although it may seem scary to let others
see you and you worry about judging, I
promise that most guys don't care and it
will all be okay. You will also preform a
lot better if you aren't so worried about
how you look; your mind will just be on
you and the man you are with and how you
feel! Trust me, it's much better once you
don't worry. I wish you luck!
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gloriar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Edostate, Benin city, Nigeria
Posted: 11-06-07 16:40pm
i hv noticed dt my self,bt its nt a
constant thing,i suppose is d way u use
it,maybe d figering form frm romance or
so,its normal 2 me probably ur body
size...............hey relax ok
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emerald1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2007 Posts: 83
Posted: 11-11-07 17:30pm
My inner lips really stick out and so does
my clit. I used to be very self conscious
about it but none of my boyfriends seem to
mine it.
then to the worst i found that some pic of
girls who r sex got innerlips bigger... so
i was so frightened that i was about to
think as the most experienced porn !! OMG
OMG
thnc u so much ..
however thnc for writing those which r
like encouraging us with ugly vagina ...
