This is a turn around. I am a man and it has been my experience with women that they think that a woman's nude body is much more sexually attractive than a mans. I can't even believe that many women think a man's "goods" are more visually stimulating than their own or another woman's. This is why women compare their bodies to each other and hate when men look at porn. I think most women would rather see another nude woman that she can compare herself to than see a nude man. A lot of women sexually experiment with other women. And most tend to keep it a secret from men.

As far as what your vajayjay looks like, believe me, most men don't care. And we love the big lips. Gives us more to munch on. (:

True! If you can eat it, it's always beautiful:)

Here I will agree with you...I, too, believe that a woman loves her body...She sees Porn and is turned on sexually just by watching another woman...It is not the man's sexual part that she is looking at, it is the inside of the other woman...She looks closely at the way that she uses it!!!!...Watches her hot reactions as the penetration goes in and out...Suffers inside and gets juicy from want... Some will experiment with women, but most don't...They either get past this surpressed part of themselves and become a Porn Queen for their lover, or silently starve to death with the want of what they are missing in life.....

I love a man's body...It completes me...Without it I wouldn' know the sexual satisfaction in life that I do...The movement of man inside me awakens my soul...It makes me a sexual woman....It bring out a part of me that is so alive that it allows me to visit a special inner part of me and let myself free...It is at this part of life where women stumble...They have a beautiful body and cannot believe in themselves enough to let it roam free....For if they did this, they too would act like a Porn Queen... and she is a "bad girl"....and they must remain a good girl.......

Just my thoughts....

Caroline

Excellent thoughts Caroline! I wished my wife thought like you! (: We are christians and I think she was brought up in a repressed atmosphere. The "good girls don't" kind of thing. I have suggested things for years, but she is pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. Nothing really kinky like threesome or anything. Just different postions, rooms, role-playing, etc. I even bought her a toy that collects dust in her drawer! But one thing I would never do is try to push or force her out of her comfort zone. To me, that is not love just coercion and would break her trust in me.

I had 12 years of Parochial School and was ready for the Lion's Den, so I know what repressed meant...My husband and I are vanilla with a twist of chocolate...Nothing kinky, no threesomes and we do not use a toy....

You are right about trying to push your wife out of her comfort zone...She alone must push herself out of it...We women fight ourselves....I guess it is the old "Garden Of Eden" bible story from long ago...One bite of the apple and we had to cover ourselves and hide.....

Ah, life is good...

Take care,
Caroline

i'm a christian as well..but i dont understand what you men want from us sometimes...your wife gave herself to you you said she role plays and is willing to try things..but bring another man into the bedroom? thats just a big deal...idk, this is a touchy topic to me..my boyfriend has asked me to do this with him several times and i have SEVERAL reasons as to why I wont do it..he said its the ultimate fantasy for him..what men dont realize sometimes is, it really took alot for me to give myself to him..he was my first..my only..i had many chances to share myself with plenty of men..especially my freshman year of college..but i waited..now after I carefully select him as my first, he now wants to share me with another strange man? no...never...my intent was for him to be my one and only..thats why i chose him bc I want to be with him for the rest of my life..its been 3 years since we started dating..and i hope that he'll be able to forget about this fantasy bc it wont happen..i waited for him...i dont want another man
off topic i know...i just saw the post and had to reply

Hello Worrywart, I think what I stated was mis-interpreted. I do NOT want or have ever asked my wife for a threesome or anything particularly kinky. The things I HAVE asked her about were different positions, rooms, or role-playing. She has not been open to these suggestions.

Sorry if I worded my sentences wrong.

im a man and just seen your message that you think your vagina is ugly, my girlfriend used to think that but i asured her that its lovely. she has big lips that move in and out wit my penis and she used to hate it until i told her that i could go down on her all day that i love looking at it and playing with it. now when we have sex she wants to sit on me wit her back to me spread her legs and look at in a mirror while we have sex. try it wit your boyfriend next time, or even while on your own,

shut the heck up already! you keep posting...and seriously...you're looking for this to be okay...but just like any other flaw...other people's acceptance won't help you accept it. thats something you gotta realize all on your own...and no offense

but if you can't...shut up and get surgery!!!
its probably painful and expensive, but if that'll help you sleep at night and feel comfortable with your body...then do it.
otherwise...the way i see it...guys probably dont even notice! and if they did...they wouldnt say anything bad about it...
and if they do...be like "ive never had a complaint from any guy...so maybe you havent seen a lot of privates!" haha

and to be honest...the way i see it...girls (we) have to put our hands and mouths on those nasty things (no offense guys i LOVE the penis, but it's kinda gross...admit it... vaginas are too!! and i get that the body is beautiful...but eww : ) haha) then guys can go down there (on a girl...large labia or not)...and they shouldnt complain!

if they do..find a guy that accepts and loves you for you...dont change for anyone...unless you're doing it for yourself...!!

hope this helps

i agree with many others here, but want to highlight one statement by caicha which is "find a guy that accepts and loves you for you".

i'll add one thing to this statement.

if you don't love yourself, how do you expect to be able to love someone else, or have them show you the love? i think it's vitally important to come to grips with this and to learn to love (and accept) yourself, flaws and all.

when you learn to love and accept yourself for who you are, you gain confidence in yourself and it shows. it makes you 10x more attractive to the guys and they just dig it. also you'll feel great about yourself and life will be good.

good luck!
jasmine

how big is too? When do guy get grossed out? a large labia that sticks out an inch or one that sticks out like 3'' passed the vagina? Why does your labia grow so large?

so im 16 and ive felt sooo unconfortable about my vagina lately, ive thought "when did i even notice it looked like this? has it always been this way?" the outer lips look like theyve been stretched and kinda wrinkly.I feel like it shouldnt look like that at all at my age.and its also embarrasing because im a virgin so i feel theres no reason it should be that way. i want to be sexually active but cant bc of it and i want to share those other intimate moments with my boyfriend but i always feel like thats the only thing he is thinking about, how horrible it looks i dont know what to do, me and my step sister hav talked about it before and she says she guaruntees no guy would care unless it smells bad or something. but she's hella skinny and says she's always had a tight smooth vagina. i hate it so much, if i didnt have that to worry about i would be fine, i just cant seem to stop worrying..:/

Large Labia? Innner and outer...Fantastic.

What a turn on.

When you are copulating and they really swell up they not only grip more, but look even more sensual, because as with the unmistakable male erection telling the girl what the man is thinking and wanting and the effect she is having on him, the swollen labia tells the man the same thing about the girl, and that is an even bigger turn on, especially that he is pleasing and arousing her.

Thus success breads success.

Remeber nature and evolution have provided both genders with a set of tools to do a job and the better that works the better the result. So leave well alone and learn to use that, that you are provided with, as any skilled musician would play her instument.

To the girl with the large pelvic bone. This is also a point of beauty it is and has for millenia been known as the "Mound of Venus", and for good reason It not only enhances the Vulva, rather like a good picture frame does with an oil painting or a woman's hair does for her face, it can be used to great effect by you with coquetish movement, and physically on your partner when having intercourse. You must learn to use your body, every part of it. As I said before evolution and your genes have conspired to give you an advantage, so use it.

Just forget any idea of changing anything, especially surgery, my knowledge is, that it is to a man's eye a sight of beauty and bliss to be adored. The real problem is few men will actually say anything about what they are feeling. But suffice it to say the very obvious physical effect you are having on him, will give you your answer, and his unspoken one.

There are many doctors who can reduce the size of the labia and make your vagina look great. I am kind of annoyed with most of the replies telling you to just live with it. I am 50 and have 3 children. I had to have pelvic floor surgery. As part of the surgery I had a horrible cyst on my vagina removed and the size of the opening of my vagina decreased. I love the way it looks and it makes a huge difference in my confidence during intercourse. Before I avoided oral sex unless the lights were out. Talk to another doctor and insist on a referral.

I am going to disagree with one who have posted here about girls nature. In that posting she made a comment that while waching a porn film , they will only watch how guy in the porn is satisfiying a girl sexually, of course this is true but I have seen a lot of girls who become horney when they see male penis in porn films when enjoying its beauty.some of the girls discribe me about the different types of penises they have seen and abouts its beauty.I am married now, my wife also enjoy looking at male penis while seeing a porn film.

VAGINA'S ARE UGLY.

My vulva ,vaginal lips everything is very very dark.My vaginal lips looks protuded and ugly. when I stand up it hangs down and looks shapeless which makes me very uncomfortable.For me looking at a vagina is disgusting because vagina is very ugly.

have a very similar in description Vagina as well and I ca tell you with complete absolution that you infact have the Luckier "STYLE" of a vagina!! I use to feel the same way too after myine turned out to look te way tat it does, which was right after I went throug puberty and it wasn't untill I became more interested in studying sexuality and doing alot of HANDS OFF research when i found allot of study's that disscussedthis very matter and almost everyone stated men preferring not only the way tha the " BLOOMING ROSE" Vagina was more pleasent to look at but allot more "GRIPPING" in the Bedroom as well so I should tell you to hold yur head up, be proud that you are a woman , and love yrself and every part of yourself because te absolute most attractive quality to both men and women alike is for the oposite sex partener to be sure of themselves and to be confident without being Conceided!!!

VAGINA'S ARE UGLY

Boys we know we girls are blessed with male thinking about vagina that it is not ugly,but does it make our situation more comfortable.No way a vagina is attractive,It is most uliest and a ugly part of a female body which is natural.Boys we never expect this type of appereciation about vagina from boys,because we hate boys who always appreciate vagina as not ugly, you can'hide the fact that vagina is ugly. If you love a girl and if you want to have sex with them then you can have,but saying that vagina is not ugly is not wise, it is mockery, because vagina is utterly ugly.

Females look too far into things than males do. I was watching porn with my partner (I haven't seen many vagina's in my time haha) and saw a girl with ... well her bits on the outside. From a female point of view I thought EWW ... but my bf who is very very critical on females told me that the one thing guys don't care about is labia size. I'm not posting this to be rude by saying I found it gross seeing inner's bigger than outers .. I'm posting this to say not to worry and look to far into things as males aren't as critical as we are of ourselves. Why would anyone have an operation to change the appearance of what they were born with. According to my partner's friend's who got into a discussion about this subject after I expressed that I found the girl's box gross they all said that most woman's vagina's do look like that. So I guess I'm in the minority of females with small parts.

Interesting post. As a man I can say that your partner is correct in saying that we men do not notice or care about labia size. I actually know a woman, an old freind of my wife, that had a labia reduction surgery because she thought her vagina was unappealing. She said it was VERY painful and actually reduced sexual pleasure afterward. I would advise all women to appreciate what you have, we men do.