ii have to say iive been self conscious of the same of course.. but ii also happen to love my body. ii never wanted to have sex or any type of foreplay because of it but ii never let the look hold me back from what ii wanted. the guy ii lost my virginity to never saw it but my current boyfriend now of 3 years loves them and he said he would be very mad if ii ever got them removed. ii love when he sucks on them and ii love when he nibbles on them.the sex is great and we are very comfortable w. one another tho it still bothers me. ii look at them n ii want to cry sometimes.. ii dont wear bikini bottom bathing suites cuz of them ii just think ii would have more cobfidence if ii got them reduced. ii dont want them fully removed cuz god made me this way for a reason so i will except my small boobs and some of my large labia. but i will prolly get them reduced like 1 centimeter than ii would feel so much better n besides the look of them it happens to discomfort me. like when my boyfriends ejaculates inside of me ii get swollen than it starts to itch. or sometime when im playing with myself ill start from my clit and will start to rub everywhere than ii get super swollen to the point where ii cant even close my legs without feeling it..

That is me and my boyfriend in a nut shell! But I have the opposite boob problem...I would KILL to just be a DD or DDD again!! *tears*

As a girl I never think that any boy is going to eat a protuded ugly vaginal lips if he is sensible,if a person do it then it is sure he is mad.We girls never allow any guys to step down their heads to that area where that ugly junk vagina is located.Before intercouse we used to eat and lick that beautiful penis of guys in order to boost up their vigour.It is a wonderful experiance.

In our community we girls used to discuss daily about our sexual experiance on previous days.We consider it as something positive and healthy. My husband penis is very beautiful and I can't put it in my vagina before putting it in my mouth. One day when I was holding my husband penis in my mouth it suddenly ejaculate I don't know how it happend I swallowed the semen,from that day I have done it many times ,I am healty and beautiful still now.when I taked to other girls about this ,some girls are also doing this.One of the girls I know ,she used to massage her face with her husbands hot semen and washed it out after half an hour.She told me that it increase her complextion.If men is healthy and if he keeps his sex organs clean there is nothing wrong in performing this.Don't wast your time thinking that vagina is ugly,Think it is natural.

I am a guy I never think about how a vagina looks,A vagina can be ugly and I never give importance for it's apperance. I cant forget that sight of my girls friends vagina when it raps my penis,of course her tonge and mouth had done a lot of memorable works on my penis.That sight of her vagina holding my penis was very beautiful.My girl friend told me that a vagina looks beautiful only when it hold a penis.

I know that the OP was self-conscious about their labia being so long and I think it's great that everyone was understanding about it and that no one thought there was something "wrong" with her but this is what I got out of this thread.

I've read through quite a few pages and from what I've read, it sounds like it's okay to have big "lips" as some call them but it's wrong to have small ones. It's like you're trying to say that all different types are okay but it's better if they are bigger. Wouldn't that be like saying that big boobs are the best and those with small boobs should be ashamed?

I have what is called a "camel-toe" vagina and I wouldn't have it any other way. My labia doesn't even come close to hanging out of the outer lips and I know there are a lot of people who have the same as I do. As a matter of fact, there is barely anything to grab onto with mine and personally I think that looks good but after reading through this thread I wouldn't be surprised if other people who have a vagina that is very similar to mine end up with a complex because it sounds like it's not good to have a small labia.

That's just my take on it. I'm sorry if it offended anyone.

I have a big labia and it is very ugly and funny looking also . I am not worried because I know a lot of girls are facing this problem.I think insted of thinking about the apperance of vagina it will be better if we enjoy it,because sex is to enjoy.I can't neglect the pleasure that I got from the beautiful penis of my boy friend.when we used have sex nocturnally at most of the days we spent some time for foreplay and I like if my boy friend massage gently on my big vaginal lips,clitories and vulva with his toe,it was very intresting and give me a lot of pleasure.I have been doing this on my vaginal area with a lot of boy friends for the last six years.Only thing you have to keep in mind is that guy's toe should be clean as well as you have to keep your vaginal area also clean,other wise it may lead to some infection.

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I've got a similar worry except its the outer lips. Im worried their really fat and my whole vagina sits quite far forward so that its visible front on when standing up, and because of this underware doesnt fit properly. I cant even move my legs apart without the sides being visible behind bikini's etc. Is this really weird and ugly? im so worried im a complete freak.

I think all women worry about how there vagina looks, I definitely do all the time. I'm always really nervous when I'm with someone new. I'm the same way with the inner labia and I know a lot of girls that do to. I don't think guys pay that much attention and people are naturally paranoid when they think somethings wrong with how they look.

No such thing as an ugly vagina!
I love diving into one, don't matter what it looks like:)

I've been dating a younger man 36,that made it clear that he doesn't like the look of vagina, Any vagina. OK ,I thought that to (GAY) Not the case! I'm not insecure about my vagina, I like everything about it. This was a first for me. I thought everything from, he's a closet gay to phobia. He was a good lover and wanted to please me, but he just didn't look at it or finger me. It bothered me, but not in the way that you might think. I was more bothered that he was so afraid of this gift of pleasure and that he was missing out sexually. "Fact" Sex is 95% mental 5%! physical! Men feel they are good at sex when they know they are pleasing the other person. Which then, makes them feel good about there self. So, Knowing that, I thought, this must bother him, and there must be something really holding him back in a mental way. What I learned was this, "This is very common in men!" A lot of men do not like the way the vagina looks and don't care to perform oral sex, or explore. Some will do it despite there dislikes, Out of fear of embarrassment and rejection. As I observed my own mans thoughts in this matter, I found I was obsessed with finding an answer.The conclusion I found was this, He is not from this country, even though he has been here 16 years. He was raised differant than most men in the USA. Not to say that American men have not been taught the same way. My man was raised by a mother who was subservient to her husband. His father taught him that women's vagina's are not clean. He installed in him fear, and painted an image so bad that, he is literally afraid to look at. I can only imagine the things that where installed in him as a young boy. Think hard about the things your parents might have lied to you about, to keep you from masturbating or from having sex before marriage. Example: If you jerk off you will go blind! My Mother would constantly tell me, "If I had sex before I got married, I was going to die" That's extreme! As a teenager, This was very hard for me, Because like most kids today, It happens! It did affect me. I was 18 and very vulnerable, I had been dating the same boy for 3 years and had told him NO. But one day it happened and I felt so bad, I cried the whole time, and not from pleasure! I felt so guilty, I did what I thought was the thing that would make it right, I Married him the next week. I was so in fear of repeating this act of sex, That's what I did. Don't get me wrong, I respect my mother for wanting me to do the right moral thing. she had the right intentions, She should not have taught, using fear as a tool to make your point stick. That was the way she was taught and so on. You would think that By know people would come to the conclusion that, we are imperfect and that we are sometimes going to fall short. I would have made better choices without all the pressure and guilt. I wish she had just taught me that, I should TRY to do the right things, but if you mess up, ASK FORGIVNESS AND FORGIVE YOUR SELF, And try not to do it again. So back to the subject. My boyfriend has been programed to think that the female vagina is not a good place to go, let alone eat. It's like your parent's and community constantly telling you to( Just say NO) to drugs, He's been hearing ( Just Say NO) to Vagina. So, there it is!!! In his country they eat cow tongue and brain and other parts we would get sick of just the thought of eating or even looking at. Same Thing. So ask yourself, what would it take to get you to eat cow brain? and if you didn't have to look at it, would you? My boyfriend loves it, he tried to get me to eat some. I couldn't even look at it. Sound familiar. I asked myself, how is it that he can eat this like candy and I can't see it the same way? It's in the mind!! It's going to be hard to reprogram his thinking, It may never happen! Can He express his giving and love through other means? YES! It doesn't mean he loves me less. I'm sure he is not gay either. You might be even saying to yourself, " If he loves you, he should do it for you." I love him, but I'm not eating cow brain!! Are love shouldn't be measured by what we put in are mouth, but what we put in are heart. Thank You for reading my philosophy on ugly vagina. Debra

to the poster above..my boyfriend has no complaints..he actually likes mine and loves to please me bc he knows that just a few minutes down there makes for MUCH better sex haha..he has never complained of how it looks, though I dont have the large inner labia..when we first became intimate i wondered if mine was "normal" ..and he said "they're all different, but yours is perfect"...great answer

i feel so alone in this whole thing, there is noone i can talk to i hate my vagina so much that it is the last thing i think of when i go to sleep an the first thing i think of when i get up in the morning. i am having surgery no question about it im just embarrased to go to the doctor even though i know they are trained in this kind of thing! i have a good figure an i just feel like this is holding me back i wont ket noone near me! would be good to talk to someone in the same position as me x

my inner labia also stick out! but does yours have a darkend color to it? myne does and its embarassing to show my boyfriend because i feel its so ugly

My inner labia bulges out and it is very uncomfortable,my vulva and vaginal area have a very darkend colour,It is very disgusting for me to look at it,Vagina's are the most ugliest thing I have ever seen.

Girls, Please" Don't think of your vaginas as being ugly! For goodness sake, that is just the way they supose to look. If the man in your live don't like the way your vagina looks, then he have a huge problem, and must be gay! So you need to move on with your life and find a man that will appresiate the female organs because they are a big turn on to the real MAN! Worrywart01" You are so right girl; thank you for that comment" be proud of your vagina, and not ashame of it!!!

We know our vagina's are disgusting, it is the most ugliest thing,we don't need any appreciation from men about vagina,we know it is ugly and we considerd it as natural too,I am very happy because I had sex with a lot of boys all of them have a very beautiful penis.when we look at this penis it begins to erect,different stages of erection is very beautiful and finally it stands fully erected like a bloomed flower.penis so beautiful like a flower.

My vulva and vaginal area is very disgusting to look, it is very ugly. from vulva to vaginal area it is very very darkend.My boy friends penis and scrotum are pink in colour and size is also about eight inches in lenth when erected.It is very beautiful to see when it get erected.His penis is gorgeous.

I call it A turkey neck,yet I have a camel toe, sometimes I want to hide it with a long shirt but if I'm feeling spunky I put my best jeans on an show off the sexy body. But I do have a question, Does it get in the way when u have sex? An is there vaginal dryness with it? I would think clitoral stimulation would be better or more sensitive.