okayy..i have the saamme thing.. its annoying.. theres a boy... we both like eachotherr.. and we were talking about going all the way.. and his friend told me he likes "it" tight.. i was very dissapointed because mine isnt. lights off and everything but he could feel it. does it ever go away? or get smaller?

whaaaat??? "it" wasn't tight? i mean...you cant change that really unless you do kegels and squeeze during intercourse..that might help but dont let this guy use you...if he cares about you then he'll like it the way it is, if he's using you and its not "tight" enough for him then tell him to peace out bc he's a jerk and not worth your time

I agree with most men who have posted here.

Basically, us men, we don't care how large or how small it is.

I mean, yes we do tend to base our judgment on attractiveness but attractiveness of a vagina??

As long as you have one, I personally would not care about the look.

So relax and don't worry about it.

I'll bet my motorcycle that the next boyfriend you get will never comment on how "ugly" your vagina is.

Heck, I bet he'll compliment and probably make you feel good about it and yourself.

I hope my response along with many others above help you feel better about your vagina.

Cheers,

Peter

So you can think a penis is beautiful, but the idea of a man thinking a vagina is beautiful is foolish?

Being a guy I can assure you that personally I could care less about what a girl's vagina looks like. I have a girlfriend that i've been dating for 8 months now. We haven't yet had sex but her vagina is beautiful. I don't even have to see it, because when you love someone that stuff is silly and umimportant to pay attention to

:]]

ur fine dont worry

I feel the same way she does. Everytime my boyfriend is down and around that area i become extreamly self conscious. I dont like getting up out of bed without any panties on because i feel like he is looking down there, i hardly let him go down on me for the thought of him being grossed out....its even worse when he wants to talk about it, he says im beautiful but i dont feel this way at all. i hate being self conscious!!! =(

i know it sucks. It has ruined some of my relationships becuz i dont wanna have sex often becuz of it, or becuz im not so open about it.
Yes, i am very young [14] but matured very fast. I dont have sex often much becuz i am sooo uncomfortable and i dont like it becuz i want to be touched by my man, but dont want him to feel IT! which thats why i put off sex a lot! i looked into surgery and my gyno says i can go under surgery in about 2 months, i am scared but i hate the way i look so much that i dont care if im in pain for 5 days while im healing i want it fixed. I wanna be able to be in a bathing suit and feel great, even though my mom said she never noticed anything. I wanna not be in any discomfort when im wearing jeans and my favorite thong underwear. I wanna feel sexy with my man during sex becuz i wanna do everything he wants me to do and not have to say, "i just dont feel comfortable." or " how bout we just stay under the blankets with the lights off!" I understand that some guys like it but its a self-confident issue and it doesn't matter how they feel about it, it's how you feel about it, and a girl wants to feel femanine and beautiful!!

i dont know what you are talking about because i think my vagine is beautiful. it is a very good looking thing, and the penis is uglier.

it is not ugly..mine isn't ugly...i am quite sensible thank you and i dont think vaginas are ugly

LOL - now this is fun reading! Thanks you all made my day

damn girl i know what u mean, when i read this i was like i hate the way mine looks also. My inner lips also stick out way too much also. Its weird too because it wasn't always like this... hmmm... it does bother me as much as i think it bothers you and i wish there was something we could do. but i dont think so surgury is a big jump. just accept it, i mean at least you dont have a penis right! ha

I don't get this topic. All vaginas are beautiful! Ha!

I'm only 13 and my innner libia is is bigger than the rest of my vagina. My "friends" say I'm a freak which made me very uncomfortable. no one else's looked like mine does. I WAS SCARED. But I looked it up on the internet to so if I was the only one. But I not, I feel so much better. Thanks so much!!!!
Rachel

Sorry dear...nothing prettier about the penis. In my opinion both female and male sexual organs are not the "prettiest" things, yet they are BOTH equally beautiful. Embrace yourself and love yourself for how you look. Don't listen to these fools who think that the penis is more superior to the vagina in the looks department...please, they are equally ugly and beautiful. There is nothing wrong with having a vagina, 4you. Get over your fear of a very natural, very prettily ugly organ. It's not meant to be the most beautiful thing in the world. But it is certainly not uglier than a penis.

HMMM...4you and karo4you...same person?

they r ugly but my bf asks me to take pics of mine and i hate doin it cuz i thinks its discusting n ugly n i feel like its a turn OFF for him but he tells me he loves the pics n they r actually a BIG turn ON but i still think its ugly lol

Looking at the brighter side, the protruding labia could be seen as extended hands welcoming friends inside

This post is being reviewed and is temporarily unavailable.

karo4you, that's enough.

You've got your opinion, others have theirs.

Many women really have insecurities how they look and you are certainly not helping. This topic started out being supportive, so how about we try and bring it back to that ok?

2iamo, how old are you-- if you don't mind me asking?

I believe that 2imao, 4you, and karo4you are all the same person. They have all said the same thing, similar writing, similar wording...it just frustrates me that this is supposed to be a support forum and we have people actually downing these women, saying that male parts are more beautiful and superior...please. I think the majority of us can say that they are equally unattractive and equally beautiful.