Okay, I agree, you sound smart and I'll take your word that you're good looking and healthy.

However, You have the wrong idea when it comes to the look of your vagina. Maybe you just need a man to tell you what we really think about one that looks like yours. Assuming you have never shown it to a male (as you claimed), then you really don't know what reaction you will get until you do.

First of all, most guys the age you're thinking about haven't seen that many vaginas and they are not thinking about what they look like. They are just as concerned what you will think about their penis. You have heard that men obsess over their penis (size, shape, etc.) more than women do and it is true. So, don't be so quick to think that the first male to see yours will recoil in horror.

Next, I happen to be married with prior experience with several other vaginas. I have never seen one I didn't think was fantastic for obvious reasons. I hesitate to speculate whether you shave or not (I know many women do), but having a neatly cropped patch on your mons might help with the appearance. My wife has very prominent labia minora and they stick out also (not sure of the measurement) from the labia majora. I have never thought they were ugly or unattractive at all. In fact, there are many men who love very prominent lips and there are several websites dedicated to the beauty of them.

I don't understand why you feel a man would never love you based on the shape and appearance of your vagina. A man like that would have to be pretty shallow, wouldn't he? I like large labia! Is that what you need to hear?

To - lonestarguy

hi, it's chloe again. Yes that was exactly an answer i wanted to hear! thanku, you seem like a lovely guy. Hopefully I will find someone with the same liking to long labia like you do. I am still very worried about it, but your comment as work wonders and i feel at little more eased lol

x x x

everyone here saying "guys dont care" and "10 million wouldnt notice" is a lie. I myself have long inner labia, one side particular that is longer than the other. I have heard references (not about my own) but guys who say "her vagina looks like a old pitchers glove" or a "nasty long outward dangling flower" and "when the inner lips are long..its because they are worn out...and loose." I've had a guy finger me..start pulling on it asks "whats that?" and goes down and is looking. GUYS DO CARE.

i personally think its the guys who dont get any very often that dont care what it looks like..that or they get trapt inlove before they notice. guys are visual..they want what theyve jerked off to since they were 14..young fresh tight vagina!

im looking into surgery..although there are risks involved.

i say, if you want the surgery..and can afford it. GET IT!

How about "Guys that are worth being with won't care"?
Really, why would anyone want to be with someone that judges them on what their genitals look like?

Not to mention that there is a lot of porn where women have large inner labia-- some guys really like it and it could be a huge turn on for them!

Thank you, Maddie. Well said.

no way, long inner lips are nasty. yes yes, we all live in a world were we base the way something should look on what the media, or in this case porn media shows us, and this is no different. When i was young id look at porn, and see these women with thick outer lips, and no visible inner lips, its what i got acustomed to, its what turned me on. when i first saw my first gf with long inner lips, i was disgusted, so i had sex with her and left her. Id never tell her, cause what would be the point? surgery? no way! let her find someone who likes her for who she is.
As for all you women with long inner lips, id suggest u look for one of the men (like the many on this forum) that like the long inner lip thing. Its no big deal! its kinda like having small breast, or a large waste, or huge breast, or a teeny tiny waste, theres always some kinda man who will like that type of physically attribute about , heck it might even be there fetish. Basically....find someone that finds ur body parts attractive. My last gf had a georgia peach, a plump pink vag, with almost no inner lips.....and i loved it. U got a bacon sandwhich, who cares!?!? find someone that likes bacon. : ) men gatta deal with the same thing, some women hate little penis's, some love them, so i had to find a girl that liked big ones! : )

Wow...um wow. Ok uh, did you need to put that so offensively...bacon sandwich? Look you could have made your point without all the nasty comparisons. No woman looks like a bacon sandwich down there, nor like a georgia peach. Get over yourself. Your post would have been fine if you had left it at being no big deal and that women come in all different shapes and sizes and to find a man that loves you for who you are. But for some reason you felt the need to add all the other rude and offensive words in there.

you can get a surgery if you have big lips? wow thats new to me.

I guess that doesn't really change my mind, yourallwrong...
As for guys having to deal with the same thing, I'll tweak what I said by taking out gender:

"People who are worth being with won't care."

Better?

i'm SO happy i bumped into this forum! I as a women too, have been concerned with my inner labia... larger than outer labia, and one side a bit bigger than the other.

I've been gradually learning to accept them... and reading this helps a lot more!

Long Live my Vagina! LOL

Hi there.
It was very interesting to read everyone's replys.
I am fifteen.
I have a boyfriend.
We have been together for a week,
And I could not be more in love.
Last week, I have made out for the first time in my life,
The night after, I was half naked with him.
I want to go further... But I have an UGLY VAGINA.
Just like all you people. The inner labia. I'd say an inch.
But it looks disgusting.
And I have a rather large pubic bone. Say, that's a new one!
I'd get surgery, but besides the fact that I don't have money to do that,
I still live under the restraint of my parents,
Who, would definitely NOT support that.
I hear all your advice, and some of it is amazing,
I really would like to beleive it all.
But, let's face it.
All guy's watch porn.
Those are the vagina's they see all the time.
That's what makes them horny.
No, he is not shallow. We have talked numerous times about how i feel. And he assures me he does not care at all,
But I KNOW he would.
Especially since his best friend,
tells me countless times how nice his girlfriends vagina is.
which is one of my best friends.
not that id ask her.
WOW, THIS is long.
but someone help me please.
ive rarely been in there,
why does it look like im a 85 year old porn star?

Hey it could always be worse, there are woman who suffer from oversized clits... just be happy!

Nope, as long as it's clean but thats the same for anything.

Whatever works for her, as long as no one is hurt then I don't see an issue.

my foreskin , so it is beutifull to have my penis as moyher nature made, as vagina i love all vagiana , as i love give oral ,but the most i love are the one with a very big clit, that are no easy to find but when i find one i use to suck the clit for hours,so do not be worry

As i guy, i could tell you I care less. Yes, i watch porn. Maybe not as much as most people, but all the same, i don't think it color's my perspective. My main concern isn't how it looks, or anything like that. If i'm seeing it, it means i have one of two thoughts on my mind: pleasuring her, or intercourse, and as such, looks wouldn't matter.

In my mind, any guy who would dump someone based on the appearance of that, or any other such, is too shallow, and if it happened to you, don't get discouraged, there are guys who would love you for all that you are.

And to the 15 year old girl who's been dating a guy for a week: i'm sure he wouldn't care what your vagina looks like, but I'd give it way more time than a week. Make him wait. From my experience, anything worth having is a challenge, and is appreciated much more when you finally get it. If i was dating a girl for a week, and she wanted to sleep with me, i'd be a turn off, and I'd seriously have to reconsider my perspective of her. But then again, i guess it depends on the person. Some guys (most if you look at how they are portrayed in the media) would be happy to get 'it' after just a week, but I'm not one of them

I'm really self conscious too, I think mine looks ugly too, but from the general consensus on this board:
1. It's natural for women to be self-conscious and think they are weird when they aren't.
2. Men don't care, and love you for who you are, not what your vagina looks like,
3. If they do care, they are not worth bothering with.
4. Men are self-conscious as well.

Geez we seriously need to chill out don't we?!

Hello, i was browsing internet, because i remember one of my Ex's has a strange looking vagina, to the extent that i could not insert my penis atall.
I dont know if this is a condition, but her inner lips, instead of protuding, or internal, were protuding, but into the shape of a large golf ball.
It was like she has her inner lips increase in size outside of the body.
It was very serious, as we could not have sex, and it was very hard to keep clean, so discouraged oral sex.
Does anyone know what that may be? ive looked it up, but no info on the internet.
And in reply to you.
You sound completely normal, most of my gf's in past look like that. As long as you shave, and keep clean and taste good theres no problems! take care

LoL...i wish mine was bigger!
Be happy!

Ok if you aren't happy with your body and you think you need surgery ON YOUR VAGINA to make yourself feel better then you must be very insecure.... its not like you walk around naked...so why should you be afraid of being in pants??

As a man I haven't seen an ugly vagina, the only thing I find hard is why so many women even girls shave their pubic hair. Nothing wrong with trimming or waxing the bikini line, but going the whole way is too much in my opinion. Keep some hair to show that you're a women. Too much hair can be ugly, but I'd rather too much than none at all.