It sounds as though you did have a miscarriage and the possibility of you still being pregnant is very very low. I am really sorry for you loss. If you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me.

Hilary

It does sound like you did in fact miscarry however I would go see the doctor asap (caps)! Im sorry if you did in fact miscarry

It does sound like a miscarriage. These are not to be taken lightly. You will need to be examined by your Dr. I am sorry that this happened to you.

Thank you all for your opinions. I am setting up an appointment for tomorrow. I am still bleeding massive amounts of tissue. On a normal period I would only bleed clots on the 3rd and only day. Not for 2 days straight. So far I have gone through about 15 super absorbancy tampons. My boyfriend and mother insist that I go to the doctors tomorrow. My boyfriend is going to come with me. I am kind of upset that this has happened...But on a better note..Im kinda happy. For the reason that me and my boyfriend are not financially ready to have a child. I will updat you on what happens at the doctor!!

Sarah

Hey sarah....
I'm so sorry about what happen to you.....I know you were having difficults on deciding what you should do with your pregnancy.....I know you wanted to have the baby, but decided to a have any abortion because of everything that was going on in your life......I know you where very scared about having the abortion, and I think god know that..Thats why he took your baby back...God will give it back to you later when he see you are ready...Remember everything happens for a reason....Let me know how everything went at the doctors.....If you need to talk, contact me and i'll be listening
your friend
passion

You were early on and I know this doesn't help now.. But everything truly does happen for a reason.

I reccomend going to the doctor just to get checked out. (there's nothing they can really do) they'll more than likely tell you to watch the bleeding and come back if it gets really bad or when it stops so you can be checked out.

But please stop using tampons. Tampons during this time can make you very sick. Get some pads (i reccomend always overnights thin with wings for this situation) and keep your feet up. If you have a doctor that you can call.. Call them and explain to them what happened and have them call you in a prescription for some naprosyn to help with the cramping.

Hope that helps...Get as much rest as possible.

I was not going to have an abortion!!! That was another sarah on this forum who was 14. I am 17 and a different sarah...I would never even consider an abortion!!! I feel that if I am woman enough to hav children I am woman enough to take on the responsibility and reprocutions of having unprotected sex. I dont want people to think that I was going to have an abortion. Because I definately was not going to. Im sorry that you thought that, but if you read all of my posts...You will see that the person you are inferring is not me. Sorry about the mix up..I know sarah is a comon name and there was another sarah who ended her posts the same as i. But she put dashes on her name (i.E. -sarah-) I ended mine with pain jane sarah!!

sarah

I'm sooooo sorry....I just realized that I got you confused with another girl.... can you please forgive me

These could cause infection at the moment. Your uterus is exposed like an open wound. The bleeding is just it emptying. Go to your doctor as soon as possible.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Jennifer

Just a question off topic, do you live with your boyfriend or does he spend the night with you alot? You say you woke him up in the morning...I was a little confused.

Hey everyone, I went to the doctors today. I went to my ob/gyn and had a vaginal ultrasound and bloodwork done. From what I had told her and from what shed seen on the monitor, she said I had in fact had a miscarriage. She said that she did not see a baby on the screen, and my body had done what it was supposed to do and flush everything out. She checked my ovaries, fallopian tubes, etc. And said that everything looked fine. (for future references) she told me that the blood work would determine my hcg levels and that it might not be impossible that im not pregnant, but highly doubtfull. Due to the massive bleeding. She said that I have to go back this wednesday and check on my blood and if there is a high amount of hcg I have to give more blood !! Not cool!!Lol...If my levels get higher, than I am preg, if they go lower....Than im not. My boyfriend was by my side the entire time(even through the vaginal ultrasound)!! I was even grossed out!! Lol...But it was all good. I hate needles and it took a lot of convincing by my boyfriend to get the blood work done! But I did better than I expected. The anticipation was worse than the needle itself!!
To babypassion, there are no hard feelings...I was just shocked beyond belief. I just didnt want anyone to think that I am for abortion or that I would even consider it!! As for the tampons...She didnt really say anything bad about them..Just to change them every 2 hours...Even if it is not full..And wear a pad at night. If I am not pregnant, I am definately getting on the patch. I know that my boyfriend is clean from all stds and hiv so wearing protection is not going to be a factor. But, even though im going to be on bc, he refuses to come in me! Hes not taking the chance of even going through this again!!
Thanks foor listening everbody!! I really appreciate it!!
Sarah

He practically lives with me..But he just sleeps over a lot. He lives with his mother, grandmother, and brother (who is def). Hes a good guy...I love him to death

Well, i'm glad that you're ok with this. It can be a very tough thing. It's awesome that you two made it through together. Being on birth control is definately the best choice if you're going to be sexually active and not ready for a baby.

Good luck to you guys