Sweetie wait! Lol thats all I can say - it may sound like everyones doing it but they're not they just say it to be "cool" thats what the kids at the junior high down the road from me do anyway they'll be like "hey I had sex with so and so on saturday nite .. Meanwhile once that gets back to me im think ing but I saw u at the movies saturday nite and then I was talking to ur parents and they said u went to bed after that lol. Its better to just wait it reduces chances of pregnancy and stds. Please make a good and wise decision your virginity isn't something to just throw away. Lotsa of love and luck ~melissa

Sweeetie, if you are doing it for you then, go ahead. But if you are doing it "because everyone else is" (in caps) wait! I think, personally you should wait. 14 is a little young to take on the responsibility that sex involves. But you have to do what is right for you and not everyone else! If you feel ready and confident in what you want to do go ahead but pleease use protection! But do not do it cuz "everyone else is".

Well I mean I want you have sex but then again im scared it will hurt and stuff like that but the pressure is somthin else there is a lot of pressure...Im so confused......I wish kids could be pressured into going out for sprots not having sex! I have been close to having sex but backed down...I know it isint right religously but does ne one every really think about what god will do??? I have that rpolly helps! For me at least it does! But im taking your guyses advice and not having sex till im married or until im really ready and I will use protection...So I cant fight against stds and teen pregnancies! I can do this!!

Thank you guys so much..I have thought about this for a long time..Thank you for breaking the ice!
Breanna r kelly

Im so happy you made that decision. It's wonderful that you, at 14, are so mature about this. Best of luck!

Thank you darling......I want to know more about you ...And others that are going through pregnancies..I havent been paying attention so tell me about your selves!

Girl you should really wait. One day you'll just say "i wish I didn't have sex". I'm 17 and I know if I could turn back the hands of time and have another chance to choose whether I should lose my virginity or not. I'd pick to not lose my virginity. Since in the reality, I did, now I wanna have a baby. :d

Well there are other issues but...For now im not going to be a folower im going to be a leader!

That is so good! I wish alot of girls were like you and wait! Its not all its meant to be like it is in movies, all romantic and nice and exciting. Its more like that wam bam type. Like ok, well that was dumb. It would be way more special with your husband.

Good luck in whatever decision you make. Only you know what is right for yourself.

Thanx bunched you guys.....You help alot.....Im lucky I have you and friends to ask questions to cause my mom will spack on me if I even say the word sex....I wonder what she would do if I got pregnant?? Woofta bad image....Well thanks you guys!


Breanna r kelly

If you have sex now chance are you will regret doing it with the person that you did and where you did it, I know that I do. It was the worse thing ever and I hate the kid now, he is a "freak" and has std's....Ugh!

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aol sn: mesmerizeu15

You didnt get an std from him did you??