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Q: This Bothers Me a Bit...
asked by: lilmama2b_oct04 on September 21st, 2004
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Lol sorry another post about kevins mom but anyways... Kevins little brother told us that his mom came home and said that brooklyn looks like amy, which is her 2nd child, and she lost her to sids. Im kinda paranoid, but I feel like she is gonna start to think that its her daughter, reborn. I dunno, I just have all these weird uneasy feeling about it, that I cant put into words, and it bothers me. I feel like she might get possesive or something, but I know im just paranoid. Kevins grandma thinks that "this is good healing for her" and im "too young to know how blessed I am". I never knew that knowing how blessed you were came with age. And then she started talking about something about brooklyn and the cathelic religion, when I dont want her to have anything to do with it, no offense to anyone, I am very very sorry, but I think its a pretty messed up religion. Just my opinion, just about the religion, not about the people. I want brooklyn to baptised lutheran, and to be brought up lutheran, and kevin is ok with that. I have a feeling that kevins family is really gonna get on my nerves. Kevins brother is stopping over all the time now, and the other morning he was pounding on the door at like 7:30, and he just wouldnt stop, and then he moved to the patio door and started pounding on the glass... After brooklyn had been up from 12:30-5:30 needing to be in somebodys arms(it was our first night home). Ah im sorry I just need to vent really bad.
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tweety12986
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Its ok to be paranoid about e v e r y t h I n g right now, and maybe you could try talking to kevins brother about stopping by so much, I mean you know he's just being a caring person, but you have to adjust to how things are right now, and if they keep doing stuff you dont like and you let them keep doing it you may get stuck in a rut of a routine and thats not good. Hope things lighten up for you... I'm sure they will.
Meagan
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insurancegirl
replied on September 21st, 2004
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I understand, huni, and I would be the same way. Let her be with her, but make sure to emphosize on like, look at my baby girl, look at mommies girl, and say her name a lot. That would help for me.

Good luck,

~jennifer~
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babyrae
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Hun, i'll tell ya one thing... After danica was born, I noticed the litlest things about tims mom bothered me. Dont get me wrong she a nice woman and all... But things just started bothering me. Like I would feed danica and 45 mins later his mom would say to her "oh ur starving arent u, yes ur starving" and that ticked me off. Shed buy everything there is to buy for danica so I have nothin to buy her, and ho so much more! I dont knwo what it is but u'll prolly notice she'll be makin ya mad sometimes and u'll prolly get upset over some things too... Im not sure if this happens to lotsa people. But it happened to me (i'm trying to get used to it) but I guess its just the excitement over becoming a grandparent.. Hopefully she'll understand that its u.R baby and she tends to u.R schedule since ur breastfeeding. If she really wants to see the baby, she can go see u at the apartment becuz right now, u r trying to get used to breastfeeding and being with a baby and she has to learn to understand that. Hope everything is well and cant wait to see pics!

Shauna
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linuxChique
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Whoa. Just be careful about her. You definitely need to make your own decisions. Don't let her pressure you into anything you don't wanna do!
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smith8500
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Don't let her do anything you don't want! And don't let her become cathloic! I don't like the religion at alll either! You are the mom! Make the decisions!
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sparklypixie12
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Don't want to start a religion debate-this forum's political enough as it is!!!
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smith8500
replied on September 21st, 2004
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I'm sorry huni. My mom is catholic too. Her entire family is and most of louisiana people are also. Therefore, I am not going to list why I don't like the religion but I have a lot, a whole lot against the religion. Not the people. The religion. Sorry if I hurt you. It's my opinion and that is one thing I don't back down on. My opinon.
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sparklypixie12
replied on September 21st, 2004
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Ok i'm sorry I know it's your opinion-but it can be hurtful if you don't clarify what you mean. I guess i'm defensive because we have alot to deal with here-england's not a catholic country for a start so there's a bad history for us catholics. But you have your reasons for why you feel that way & so long as u know there are only certain people who make a religion bad (i.E. Bin laden has given muslims a bad name here) anyway im sorry cos ive distracted from april's post!!! April-you make your choices-don't let kevin's mom interfer-do whats right for you & your girl :d
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LaurensEntourage
replied on September 22nd, 2004
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I disagree with the fundementals of catholicism, not catholics themselves. I know too many catholics, and you can't dislike someone because of their religion.
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smith8500
replied on September 22nd, 2004
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Yea! Perfect! That is what I mean. I don't like the religion and beliefs but I love the people. All my mom's family and my mom included are catholic. I love them all. I don't love the religion!
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