Poopoopoo:
as far as I know, he is not in any medication. I have worked with him for over 8 years and he has never been sick, he looks healthy, but smokes a lot sometimes. And yes since his wife had cancer I figure sex wasn't important during the last couple of year.
My main question is this:
if this viagra or whatever he is trying to get does not work

. How does a man like that gets pleasure

?? I know he desires me and likes to caress and kiss me and liked I mentioned before, when we are together I feel in heaven :d , but I am concern about how is this going to work out if the medicine is not succesful??
i really need and advised, especially if someone has had a similar experience.
Please help! I am very confused,

but still likes him a lot.