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latoya_bryer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 73
Location: New Orleans
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Please Help
Posted: 09-21-04 08:03am
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How would you know if you miscarried or
not? I started having symptoms of
pregnancy about 2 1/2 months ago. I
didn't have a period or anything but last
night I started bleeding and I had slight
cramps nothing out of the normal menstral
cramps. Is it possible to have had a
miscarriage at two and a half months?
What are other signs of miscarriage that I
should look for? I really appreciate any
help?
Thanks
confused
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silverlou
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 124
Location: Toronto
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Posted: 09-21-04 09:27am
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Have you seen a doctor yet? I really
think the best idea is to get a blood test
to find out if there is any, and what
level your hcg is at. If you suspect
you're two and a half months pregnant have
you taken a home pregnancy test? What was
the result?
Unfortunately a miscarriage can happen at
any time during a pregnancy, it is most
likely to happen in the first 12 weeks,
but can happen after that, so the answer
to your question is yes, it is possible to
miscarry at 2 1/2 months.
If you are bleeding and are pregnant you
need to consult with a doctor, and if
you're 2 1/2 months pregnant you should be
under doctor or midwife care, in my
opinion.
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latoya_bryer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 73
Location: New Orleans
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Posted: 09-22-04 07:23am
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Well, I was never 100 % sure that I was
pregnant. I was just having symptoms and
I didn't have my period. I did not take
a home pregnancy test or anything. I
have two kids now and with both of them I
always knew and around this time I started
to feel flutters in my uterus. I could
just tell with them. I dont feel it this
time but the symptoms were telling me
otherwise. Is it possible to miss a few
periods after having a baby? My youngest
is 5 months.
Still confused
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MsWebster
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Posts: 84
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Posted: 09-22-04 07:51am
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You have to be more careful  if you are pregnant
are you ready to take on two infants. How
old are you!
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latoya_bryer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 73
Location: New Orleans
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Posted: 09-22-04 14:19pm
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I am 24 (like it really matters anyway), I
am perfectly aware and capable of taking
care of my children. Thank you!!!!
 and my kids are not
two infants. One is three and the other
is an infant. I have never had to take
care of two infants at one time but i'm
sure if I did I would do a wonderful job
because I am a wonderful mother.
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MsWebster
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Posted: 09-23-04 07:48am
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I am not trying to sound mean yes maybe
you are capable of taking care of two
infants I just thought if you are pregnant
that would be a little much on one person
being you have children already. Sorry if
I offended you
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 09-23-04 13:20pm
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Err if your youngest is 5 months and you
are pregnant then yes you would have 2
infants to look after.
Mrs webster was trying to be helpful.
If you happen to be so perfect, why are
you seeking advice.
You say you are 24 but that it doesn't
matter, maybe not but with age comes
experience.
There are many young girls on here taking
great care of their kids, and I guess
there are many older ones out there who
don't, but that is no reason to be rude.
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MsWebster
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-23-04 15:05pm
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Thank's kia 
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latoya_bryer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 73
Location: New Orleans
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Posted: 09-24-04 12:39pm
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To both of you ms. Webster and kia, I
wasn't being rude but now I guess I am
because neither of you know my situation
beyond what I posted. I am worried about
having two infants because I am happily
married and have a wonderful career as a
r.N. I would not be doing anything by
myself and if I were it still would be my
problem and not either of yours. Anyway,
my post was about my possibly having a
miscarriage and not about having two
infant at the same time. I'm sure I am
not the first and will not be the last.
Let that be our problem to worry about and
not yours. Now if you cant tell me
anything concerning the question I posted
just read and move along, or be honest and
say you dont know. I've never had a
problem like this with anyone on this site
before. I try to give helpful advice and
would appreciate some back when I do post
a topic which is not often. If I
offended you ms. Webster then I apologize
but I felt very offended first.
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Kia
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Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 09-25-04 06:06am
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If you don't want people to put their
opinions to your post then simple don't
post.
You said you wouldn't ahve two infants to
look after but in fact if you happened to
be pregnant you would.
Mrs webster was trying to gather more info
to help further what could be said to you,
you took offence simply because mrs
webster asked how old you were.
Mrs webster, I don't think there is
anything can be said here, if you read and
don't reply that is wrong because "you
could have a t least said something" and
if you do say something "you didn't answer
my question" wrong if you do and wrong if
you don't - advice isn't welcome here,
let's save for those who appreciate.
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latoya_bryer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Posts: 73
Location: New Orleans
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Posted: 09-25-04 10:21am
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To anyone out there with anything positive
to say, I appreciate your help.
Thanks!!!!!
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