I don't have an answer but I think if it is that aggressive that you are worried about it injuring you then you probably need to tone it down a bit. Why would throwing up be something you want to do?

Wow. 1st of all, I don't know what kind of damage could be done to the tissues of your throat, but I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this. When performing oral sex on a guy, I was under the impression that most girls prefer to be in total control (as it is easy to gag, etc.) of the situation. It's natural for a guy to start thrusting as he gets into it, but it should be okay for you to grab his hips to stop him if he's going to deep, or tell him not to put his hands on the back of your head and push down. You are, after all, giving him pleasure, and he should respect you enough to not be forceful with you. Sex should be enjoyable for the both of you. Throwing up and sore throats don't sound pleasant to me! Please take care.

Thank you for your replys and your concern. But I like to be asphyxiated(choked) but that is very dangerous. So, when I orally put my boyfriend deep in my throat, I can't breath, it is sort of the same feeling. I like to gag, but not to throw up. But sometimes, depending on the position we are in, he does not get out fast enough and I do throw up a little. Thanks again.

What I dont understand here is this..If you are so concerned about the harm it could do to your throat or sinuses then why do you continue to do this? Why dont you stop the roughness and find out the risks before you continue. And I am not understanding this liking to be choked and gagged thing where is the pleasure in that? And why your boyfriend would allow you to do such a crazy thing is behond me especially not knowing if there are risks to what your doing..To each there own I guess..

You like not being able to breathe because there's a sex organ in your throat? Hmm. I know that my boyfriend would be kinda grossed out if I puked on his member...But he just lets me do what I want to do, because I know what he likes. Fortunately, I feel lucky b/c he doesn't care if I deep throat him or not.

Please be careful,more people than you'd think have asphyxsiated while having sex.Mostly,it's done while masturbating solo,but i've heard of those that like the lack of oxygen rush at the moment of orgasm.I don't get it,but please be careful.Patty

From my experience I can understand that some women actually desire to deep throat in spite of the gag reflex and throwing up, both of which are major distractions. For so many reasons deep throating is something once should always approach slowly and carefully but the gag reflex and throwing are things which can effectively be suppressed by a cinched corset. The degree to which it must be cinched to achieve this is something which must be determined by experimentation but it is not neccesary to cinch to a dangerous degree to achieve this. The throat still needs time to stretch to the various sizes of penises and while I won't conjecture here on the gory details if injury occurs as a result, I cannot emphasize the need to approach deep throating slowly with the woman in total control.