Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Divorce? Scared! Posted: 09-18-04 18:49pm
Hey guys, my parents are fighting..
Again! And last time they were fighting
they were talking about splitting up (my
dad mainly), but luckily it ended and they
stayed together. Now theyre fighting
again and even my moms saying how she cant
take it any longer, and she doesnt know
whats going to happen. Im so scared and
sad guys! =(
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
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Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 09-18-04 19:02pm
Awww gaby, don't you worry, it'll be
okay!! What are they fighting about? You
don't think they would be happier apart??
I am sure everything will work out. They
just have to realize what it all comes
down too...
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
Posted: 09-18-04 19:04pm
Aww i'm sorry gaby! Its hard to be in the
middle of fighting! Hopefully things will
calm down soon and they will work things
out!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-18-04 19:13pm
Idk, they are always fighting! And my dad
gets very violent! He doesnt hit anyone
or anything, but he's soo mean and throws
things. Luckily I spent last night with
friends and wasnt here to watch. But when
I was home they started fighting my mom
was crying and I felt so bad. I went
downstairs and gave her a hug and it made
me cry! =( I dont like her to be sad, its
like im part of her and whatever she
feels, I feel.
My dad just gets in horrible moods for no
reason, mostly its about sex.. And we've
susspected him of cheating before. =(
this makes me so sad.
Yeah maybe they'd be better off seperated,
but its still not what I want, you know?
Not to sound selfish, I want everyone to
be happy, but idk. . Im just scared
<3
gaby
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 711 Location: Springfield,Illinois
Posted: 09-18-04 19:27pm
I am so sorry sweetie my parents got
divorce when I was 4 but I remeber alot of
their fights still to this day! My dad
chose alcohol over my mom and my sisters
ive gotten over the anger now I just feel
sorry for him.....It will all work out for
the better sweetie hang in there and
hopefully things will all fall in place in
time! If u ever want to talk hit me up on
yahoo jenkat1604!
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-18-04 19:35pm
Thanks for the support everyone! I cant
wait until I see jason tomorrow so I can
just talk to him about it,and get it out
of my system =(
<3
gaby
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 09-18-04 21:17pm
Sorry to hear how things are going with
your parents gaby . Coming from a
divorced family I know what you're going
through. For years my parents never got
along, all they would do is fight, I
always remember wishing that they would
just leave each other because it would
make everyone soooo much happier. It was
new years day 2001 when my dad finally
packed up and left, and although I had
said that was what I wanted.. It turned
out to be a lot harder than I thought it
would be! If you ever need to talk or
anything my e-mail addy is
joelle_123@html... Or if you have msn
messenger...
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-18-04 21:22pm
Yes, its deff very hard. Especially
thinking that he may be cheating =/, but
thanks!
<3
gaby
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 09-18-04 21:26pm
Yes, I understand that too.. My mom
cheated on my dad the last 4 years of
their marriage. The guy she was in a
relationship with was considered a very
good family friend, and him and my dad
would always do things together. I had
confronted my mom about it once and she
slapped me telling me to mind my own
business.. I never did tell my dad. But
he figured it out eventually, and left. I
just can't understand why someone would go
around doing something that they .K.N.O.W.
Will hurt their family, the only thing I
can think of is selfishness. Anyways, I
wish you the best.. And all I can say is
just keep strong things will get better.
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Michelle1337
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Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 09-18-04 21:26pm
I'm sorry to here about your parents but dont worry,
i'm sure everything will work out for the
better!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 09-18-04 21:40pm
Thanks guys! =) im glad I have all you
girls here for support
. Coming from a
divorced family I know what you're going
through. For years my parents never got
along, all they would do is fight, I
always remember wishing that they would
just leave each other because it would
make everyone soooo much happier. It was
new years day 2001 when my dad finally
packed up and left, and although I had
said that was what I wanted.. It turned
out to be a lot harder than I thought it
would be! If you ever need to talk or
anything my e-mail addy is
joelle_123@html... Or if you have msn
messenger... 
